Episode 34: When Girls Go Undiagnosed: Autism, Pain, and the Cost of Being Misunderstood

Chris Blankenship invites therapist Regan Adair to discuss the unique challenges autistic adolescent girls who are often diagnosed later in life face. They explore the impact of chronic pain, sensory differences, shame, and years of being misunderstood. Regan shares how listening deeply, believing clients' lived experiences, and collaborating across disciplines can dramatically improve quality of life. This conversation offers insight and encouragement for parents, clinicians, and autistic girls seeking support.

Links:
Autism Learning Lab: https://www.autismlearninglab.com/
Email: chris@autismlearninglab.com
Regan Adair Practice: Blue Ridge Wilderness

Quotes:
[8:29 - 8:37] Regan "I want to seek understanding from my clients. I want to
always be listening to them. She is the expert on her experience."

[15:33-15:38] Regan “listen and challenge yourself to believe what your child is
saying”

[15:55-16:02] Regan "If you haven't found a provider who believes you and
listens to you, please keep looking. They're out there. We are out there."