Why Not Us

Episode 22 - Love, Conviction, and Following the Holy Spirit’s Lead

Dillon Phaneuf / Jamie Paton

Episode Description:

In this powerful episode, Pastor Jamie takes the lead, guiding Dillon through a deep conversation about what it truly means to love, live with conviction, and trust the Holy Spirit’s direction.

Love isn’t just a feeling, it’s a conviction, a choice, and a response to God’s call. But how do we know when we’re following our true purpose versus chasing fleeting emotions? Jamie shares wisdom on aligning with God’s will, recognizing Holy Spirit-driven relationships, and the dangers of making decisions based on feelings instead of faith.

If you’ve ever struggled with knowing when to let go, trust, or take action, this episode will challenge and encourage you.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Love Is More Than Emotion - It’s Conviction and Alignment
    • The world tells us love is about passion and chemistry, but Scripture shows that love is an act of faith, sacrifice, and obedience.
    • 1 Corinthians 13:4-7“Love is patient, love is kind…”
    • The Holy Spirit attracts Holy Spirit - why we are drawn to people who align with our faith journey.
  2. The Danger of Letting Feelings Lead Instead of Convictions
    • Why feelings are fleeting, but convictions guide us toward real purpose.
    • The problem with chasing worldly love, career success, or recognition without seeking God’s plan.
    • “The heart is deceitful above all things.” – Jeremiah 17:9
  3. Recognizing When God Is Leading You vs. When You’re Leading Yourself
    • How to discern when God is removing someone or something from your life.
    • The difference between attraction and spiritual alignment - who is truly meant for you?
    • Romans 8:14“For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God.”
  4. Surrendering to God’s Plan—Even When It’s Hard
    • Why surrendering our desires, relationships, and plans leads to more peace, not less.
    • How trusting the Holy Spirit shifts our focus from self to God’s greater vision.
    • Psalm 37:4“Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.”