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I Was Told There’d Be a Village—It Never Showed Up, So I Built It (with @thelatchedmama)

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They say it takes a village… but what happens when that village is nowhere to be found? 🤯Motherhood is beautiful, exhausting, messy—and sometimes, painfully lonely. When Melissa Wirt became a mom, she was told, "It takes a village." But that village never showed up.

Now, as a mom of six, CEO of Latched Mama, and author of I Was Told There’d Be a Village, Melissa is opening up about the realities of modern motherhood and why moms today feel more isolated than ever. She shares her personal journey of building a support system from the ground up, why it’s okay to ask for help, and how moms can reclaim their identity in a world that expects them to do it all.

We also dive into the impact of online parenting culture, why moms need real connection (not just social media “mom groups”), and how homeschooling has shaped her family’s unique lifestyle.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing it all alone—this episode is for you.

🎧 Preorder I Was Told There’d Be a Village today!

Learn more about Melissa Wirt on our website 


Episode Highlights:
[02:00] Melissa’s journey from first-time mom to CEO of Latched Mama
[06:30] Why motherhood can feel so isolating & the problem with “mom groups”
[12:45] How Melissa built her own support system when the village never showed up
[19:20] The pressure to be the perfect mom & why self-care is deeper than bubble baths
[27:10] Why online parenting culture makes moms feel more judged than supported
[36:00] How homeschooling fits into her family’s unique lifestyle
[45:20] What inspired I Was Told There’d Be a Village & why every mom needs this book

📢 Preorder I Was Told There’d Be a Village today!

Links & Resources:
📚 Preorder I Was Told There’d Be a Village today
👕 Check out Latched Mama: www.latchedmama.com
📢 Follow Melissa on Instagram: @latchedmama

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