Healing Generational Trauma Through Honesty Bubba Startz on Family, Failure, and Growth

The Real Family Eats: Dishing on real parenting struggles and favorite recipes

The Real Family Eats: Dishing on real parenting struggles and favorite recipes
Healing Generational Trauma Through Honesty Bubba Startz on Family, Failure, and Growth
Jun 24, 2025 Season 2 Episode 4
Reesa Morala, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

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In this episode of The Real Family Eats, host Reesa sits down with Bubba Startz to talk about his powerful life journey, unique parenting challenges, and his tried-and-true chili recipe. This candid conversation digs into real stories, tough choices, and the importance of honesty in family life.

Here’s what you’ll get in this episode:

  • Bubba’s transition from welder to podcaster, songwriter, and dad
  • The story behind Bubba’s “butt kicking” chili and how he makes it with local South Dakota beef
  • Navigating blended families, custody battles, and the challenges of being a parent with a complicated past
  • Bubba’s decision to confront his mistakes, including time in prison, and how it impacts his role as a father
  • Why transparency, accountability, and “owning your story” matter—for yourself, your kids, and others

Tune in for practical advice, honest reflections, and a hearty recipe you can make at home.

 

Connect with Bubba Here:

https://thesceneprojects.com

The Scene Projects

Get Better Together Project

 

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Bubba's Butt Kickin' Chili Recipe

 

1 lb hamburger

1 can chili beans

1 can dark kidney beans

1 can light kidney beans

1 can diced tomatoes with green chiles

1 can stewed tomatoes

1 or 2 chopped HOT peppers (jalapeños/habaneros/chiles)

Season with salt, pepper, chili powder, paprika, cumin,

Add 1/2 cup of brown sugar if you like it sweet like my wife Danielle does.

Crockpot for 4 hours.

Serve with or without macaroni noodles and enjoy. 

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Host
: Reesa Morala, MA, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Reesa is a parenting specialist with a niche in supporting couples. Find Reesa hosting couples and parenting workshops nationwide!

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