Male Mind Matters

Jaxon Feeley: Change, Growth, Identity And Evolution

James Sutton Season 1 Episode 18

In this next episode of Male Mind Matters, I sit down with Jaxon Feeley - speaker, advocate, and reality TV star, who shares his incredible journey of self-discovery, resilience, and transformation.

Jaxon opens up about growing up as Jess, coming out as gay, and eventually transitioning while working in the prison service - a place where big changes are often met with resistance. But instead of facing hostility, he found an unexpected reaction: curiosity, respect, and a chance to inspire real change among prisoners and staff alike.

We explore the challenges of identity beyond labels. how we’re all transitioning in different ways throughout life, constantly evolving into new versions of ourselves. Jaxon reflects on the grief that comes with change and the importance of pushing past self-doubt.

With a wonderful sense of humor and a refreshingly honest take on life, Jaxon shares how his relationship with his parents has strengthened through laughter and learning, why making your younger self proud is a powerful motivator, and the sheer joy of competing on Hunted with his sister - a full-circle childhood dream of playing hide and seek on a national stage.

This conversation is about so much more than gender - it’s about identity, purpose, and finding the courage to be exactly who you are.

If you've been affected by any of the themes in this episode, please consider reaching out to the following resources:

Samaritans.

You can contact the Samaritans 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. You can call 116 123 or visit the website at www.samaritans.org for more information.

SANEline.

You can call SANEline on 0300 304 7000 from 4.30pm–10.30pm every day.

National Suicide Prevention Helpline UK.

You can call the National Suicide Prevention Helpline UK on 0800 689 5652 from 6pm to midnight every day.

Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM).

You can call CALM on 0800 58 58 58 from 5pm–midnight every day, or visit their website to use the webchat.

Shout.

You can text SHOUT to 85258. Shout offers a confidential 24/7 text service providing support if you are in crisis and need immediate help.