Ministry Mix
Real conversations for the strategies and souls of ministry leaders.
Our goal is to bring you a mix of conversations on topics you are thinking about to help you lead more strategically and care for your soul more intentionally.
Phil is the pastor of Connecting Church in Abingdon, MD. He also trains church planters with the Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delaware and serves as an adjunct instructor at Liberty University. Phil is married to Pam and has three children.
Richard is the pastor of Canvas Church in Salisbury, MD. He also serves as the Church Planting Leader for the Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delaware and as a Multiplying Pastor with Send Network. Richard is married to Payton and has a dog.
Ministry Mix
6 Reminders When Dealing With Criticism
In this episode of the Ministry Mix podcast, Phil and Richard discuss the topic of criticism and how it is a favorite, unavoidable part of leadership in ministry. Hear stories on experiences with personal criticism, but also learn how some criticism can be constructive learning opportunities. Leaders can maintain a balance of having a soft heart while fostering a strong mindset, allowing them to lead effectively amidst criticism.
Here are the six reminders shared:
1) Develop thick skin
2) Learn from criticism
3) Focus on one's calling and mission
4) Remember your value
5) Evaluate your soul
6) Shake off the dust
Reflection Questions:
1) Why do you think criticism can be considered a sign of effective leadership, and how does this perspective change the way you view criticism?
2) What are some practical ways to develop thick skin as a leader, especially when facing negative feedback?
3) Can you recall a time when you were criticized? How did it affect your view of yourself and your actions?
4) How can criticism be an opportunity for growth, even when the feedback seems unfair?
5) What are some personal goals or values you can remind yourself of when facing criticism to stay grounded?
6) In what ways can a leader create a culture where healthy criticism is welcomed and encouraged?