Lez Say More Podcast
Welcome to Lez Say More: the podcast where your favorite duo of best friends—together for over 20 years—gets real about the queer community. Join us every Wednesday as we dive into everything from health and wellness, to fashion, relationships, sex - and even the occasional celebrity gossip. With our trademark humor and brutal honesty, we’re here to share stories, laughs, and insights about the (queer) modern life and all the fabulousness it has to offer. Whether you're part of the community or just curious, grab your favorite drink and join the conversation—because we promise to keep it funny, relatable, and absolutely unfiltered!
Lez Say More Podcast
We're judging each other, spilling tea, and answering your questions
Solange and Ava dive into Hollywood scandals, reality TV critiques, and answer your burning questions with their trademark honesty and humor. They share unfiltered thoughts on everything from the Diddy controversy to what they'd never do for a million dollars.
• Discussion of recent Diddy scandal and allegations about other celebrities' involvement
• Hollywood rabbit holes and changing perspectives on once-admired celebrities
• Brutally honest thoughts on Love is Blind and contestant authenticity
• Celebrity life-swapping hypotheticals and dream reality TV hosting gigs
• Debate on what they would and wouldn't do for a million dollars (or a billion)
• Animal personality comparisons and secret judgments about each other
• Worst advice given and received
• Weirdest food combinations they secretly love
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If you could switch lives with one celebrity for 24 hours but you have to keep all their drama, who would it be, and why?
Speaker 2:All their drama. Yeah, it would have been Bieber before all this happened. Ooh Drake, because I love his song right now, the Nokia song.
Speaker 1:You would want to be Drake, I think so. Hey guys, welcome back to the Less Say More podcast. I am Solange, I'm Ava, and today we are going to be answering some of your questions again and we're going to talk a little bit about, like, current topics, Because I read something on Instagram today about the Diddy thing.
Speaker 2:Oh, you saw it, I didn't see it.
Speaker 1:TMZ talked about it. It was Diddy saying something about how he calls out Jay-Z, beyonce and somebody else for saying like they knew that they were at Freaky.
Speaker 2:Interesting that you bring that up, why? Well, remember one of the rabbit holes I told you I went through, uh-huh Right, well, it wasn't just like COVID, I went through like Hollywood. Yeah, and I love Jay-Z, loved Jay-Z. He was like my favorite rapper, all this stuff, and Beyonce was like my top. And after reading some things, you know, going down that rabbit hole and actually seeing what he was into allegedly you know whatever.
Speaker 2:Allegedly it changed my perspective on him, so I'm glad it's out there, so like, because when I would bring it up, everyone's like oh, ava, you're crazy and you know.
Speaker 1:I don't know. I didn't read the article.
Speaker 2:I know but I'm just glad that it's starting, because a lot more people are speaking out on Jay-Z and they're that, you know, just inappropriate things with under like underage people.
Speaker 1:Yeah, kind of like R Kelly and that whole.
Speaker 2:I mean, he was cool with R Kelly, don't forget that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, Listen, I think they were all cool with each other.
Speaker 2:at some point they were all cool with each other for a reason.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and I don't know I don't think anyone in that business is necessarily squeaky clean I think they all kind of knew whether you participated or not. I think they all kind of knew that something might have been going on that shouldn't have been going on, but they chose to like look the other way.
Speaker 2:I think if you're squeaky clean in the industry, you're either dead or you're not successful yeah.
Speaker 1:But well, that's like in everything, that's what I think. If you're squeaky clean in the industry, you're either dead or you're not successful. Yeah Well, that's like in everything, that's what I think. But I definitely think that there's probably something there. I don't know if I mean, do you think that he'll be called to like?
Speaker 2:testify or something. I hope so, because I truly think anyone that's done harm to children, to anyone innocent, right Like underage or anything like that, I do think that they should be brought forward and justice should be served. That's like what I would hope right. But we're talking about people with a lot of money, and with a lot of money comes a lot of power, and people get off all the time. So I I sure do, I hope. I do hope, though I do hope that if he is a part of of that, if diddy is telling the truth in that, I hope so, even if that means I mean I'm gonna assume he has receipts, yeah, I think like he has to have receipts because I mean everything was being recorded, yeah, so there has to have receipts because I mean everything was being recorded, yeah.
Speaker 2:So there has to be receipts on all these people there has to be something Right.
Speaker 1:I'm sure his list kind of like that whole Heidi Fleiss thing. Yeah, you know, it's just once it's out it's out?
Speaker 2:Did you watch the thing I told you to watch on HBO the Diddy thing? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:Or was it on Peacock? No, I watched the Peacock one and did you watch the HBO one? I want to say I might have did. You know was the.
Speaker 2:Peacock one did it have the the woman and that something happened to her on the pool table?
Speaker 1:no, okay, then you need to watch the HBO one no, I had the woman where something happened to her with a remote control. Okay, now you need to watch the HBO one. I don't think I found that one. Is it on Max? Yeah, I got to look for it, okay. Yeah, I didn't see that one. They probably hid it really well, okay, sorry.
Speaker 2:All right, all right.
Speaker 1:We're going to answer some of your questions because we had some spillover from our last episode. We didn't get through all. One of the questions is what are your thoughts on? Love is blind thoughts. Can you the show?
Speaker 2:yeah, can you do it? No, because I'm too shallow to do.
Speaker 1:Love is why I would totally do it if I but see I have like facial expressions that can't exactly hide how I feel. So I feel like if those doors opened and I was not happy with what I was looking at, my face would say it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and I also don't think I'm like the cream of the crop, so I also would be worried about what they would think of me. So that's a whole other insecurity that I would have.
Speaker 1:I feel like you would be somebody on the other side of the wall going so, like you know, like you know, if you were a celebrity, who would you look like?
Speaker 2:Yeah Right, and then they would lie and say Megan Fox, that girl.
Speaker 1:Jesus Christ. Oh no, this last season I did not like very much. No, I didn't like at all. Only one couple got married. I feel like now that it's getting so big, do you feel like people are just jumping on the bandwagon doing the show and it's all just like?
Speaker 2:for fame. I think majority of the people you know you have to look deep within to see if I'm right. I think majority of people are shallow. I don't majority, I'm not saying all right, I'm saying majority of people. So I think when you go on that show for you, I think it's bull crap to be like, yeah, I could fix you. No, you can't Like the woman who wanted the prenup. I liked her, okay, I liked her in the sense of like she was no nonsense and this is what she wanted. And he just he has to he didn't have balls. He has to remember he wasn't bringing much to the table with her.
Speaker 1:Okay, balls. He has to remember he wasn't bringing much to the table with her. Okay, he A had no balls. B couldn't even stand up for the things that he believed in. He should have said straight out, like straight out, what was he afraid of? If you have certain beliefs, and those are your beliefs, you should voice your beliefs.
Speaker 2:You know what I think it is. I think that, unfortunately, society has made it hard for people I'm not for, whatever you believe in doesn't matter to to have that belief yeah, but this is somebody you're gonna marry, yeah but he was afraid. I think he was afraid of it being um televised. Well, that's what you sign up for televised and then getting the backlash for it. I think he's gonna get backlash for it.
Speaker 1:I think he's going to get backlash for it regardless, because all he kept doing was running to mommy, mommy and daddy for everything. And it was like oh, I'm going to go talk to my mom and have her look over. Yeah, I would have just straight up said if she was like what's your stance on A, b and C?
Speaker 2:I would have just been like this is my stance on it and at least at the end of the day, people don't like what I said. I spoke my truth.
Speaker 1:Same thing as the other guy with the girl that had the lesbian sister he was. I forgot their names, but he was super weird and he would be like oh yeah, I go to the church. I don't know what my church's stance is on that. And it's like no, I think you do. I think you just say it.
Speaker 2:Just say my church is a church that doesn't believe in it and, at the end of the day, that's what the church believe. Cool, it's up to you not to make the decision on what you want to do with it.
Speaker 1:You shouldn't like I'm not going to be mad because you go here that believes in this, like you didn't know you were going to meet me, I was going to have a gay sister, like right, and then you can simply say you know, this was my belief, but prior to meeting you and prior to meeting to your sister, right, and you know like I'm much more open minded and I'm more open to hearing about it or talking to you guys about it or having a different experience, people change their minds and their opinions on things every day because you're exposed to new thoughts and new experiences and new people and your mind expands, right, yeah, you learn new things all the time, or you become more narrow-minded and you close everything off.
Speaker 1:But I feel like if you're going to go on a show like that and you're going to put yourself in a position where these things are going to come up, you're going to like the marriages are real, unless these people are coming on the show just to get to the altar and then at the altar they're going to say no.
Speaker 2:Maybe I don't know. I didn't like anybody on the show. There wasn't anyone that I liked. I didn't like anybody. The one who I really couldn't stand was the guy who said that the girl Was messing with a guy that he knew. Oh my God, that guy that had the sister that the sister didn't approve.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I didn't like him. He was another one running to his sister every five seconds about like can I date her? I don't know if I can date her. That's weird, can I like? It was totally weird. Yes, he made it very like weird. He did. I'm like are you in a relationship with your sister? Are you in a relationship?
Speaker 2:with this girl. Yeah, that entire cast I did not care for. I didn't care for it. I know that this next season is going to be in Denver and there was a meme about it. They're like I know what every conversation in the pause is going to be Do you go rock climbing and do you go skiing? They were saying that. I was like, oh great, another boring season of Love is Blind.
Speaker 1:They need to have. Like Love is Blind, I don't know.
Speaker 2:No, you guys just need to all come over to the side Atlanta or I don't know. You guys need to all come over to the Spaniard side and watch Temptation Island in Spain. I can't watch those things. It is so good. Did you watch Temptation Island in the US? It just aired on Netflix.
Speaker 1:No, I tried to watch one of these episodes for you, and I could not get through the first five seconds of it.
Speaker 2:We need to bring a guest on here that matches my. What is it called my reality TV? I know a few friends of mine that do. I like reality TV?
Speaker 1:No, you don't like the dating stuff. No, I like Love is Blind. I like the Ultimatum. You don't like Temptation Island. I don't like. You know what I don't like. I don't like things that have a lot of drama Like this is why. That's america's guilty pleasure is I know but like I can't watch, for example, like the housewives right, and then they get into like these catfights and it's like over the stupidest things and they're so shallow vanderpump I could get into. In the last season I watched.
Speaker 1:This is the only season I ever watched, the best seasons were the and I was kind of like, okay, this is somewhat entertaining, only because of all the drama that was happening that I watched but it wasn't like straight out going for the jugular kind of drama. You know what I mean. I like to watch the Housewives New York, and that's probably the most boring one, but I like watching it because Jenna Lyons is in it and I love her, but also because it was just very like I don't know, not so.
Speaker 2:I think people can see our personalities now. They see the difference. I like the drama, I don't like the confrontation. You don't like the confrontation? Well, that's the guest we need to bring on. A guest, yeah, that can talk reality TV with us.
Speaker 1:Like I don't like the first five seconds of the one that I saw that I think might have been Temptation Island. Temptation Island, yeah.
Speaker 2:The one in the US is stupid. The one in Spain.
Speaker 1:The Spanish thing that you sent me, where the guy is losing his mind yeah, montoya, throwing things at the TV because his girlfriend is sleeping with somebody else, and then he's running across the beach to get to the other island. He did To see her. I'm just like he did.
Speaker 2:And he said in Spanish you destroyed me. I'm like this is so stupid. Whatever, I just couldn't get into it. What's the next question?
Speaker 1:Okay, next question. Next question is if you could switch lives with one celebrity for 24 hours but you have to keep all their drama. Who would it be, and why?
Speaker 2:All their drama. Yeah, it would have been Bieber before all this happened. That's a good question, drake, because I love his song right now, the Nokia song.
Speaker 1:You would want to be Drake, I think so. And you talk about. What did he do? He liked some young boo.
Speaker 2:What did he do? Boo, don't make up, don't give me a fake story I'm not giving you a fake story.
Speaker 1:Okay, let's rewind.
Speaker 2:Hold on. I really don't care for celebrity lives like that, but let me think Probably Caitlin Clark or Austin Reeves from the Lakers, because they're so swaggy right now and all the endorsements that they're getting and the attention it's just, it's like swag. I like that sort of stuff.
Speaker 1:Who would you? I don't know If I had to be somebody for 24 hours? Obviously I would probably want to be somebody with a shitload of money, yeah, but 24 hours goes by so fast. I know, but I would want to like enjoy it all you have to name someone.
Speaker 1:I know who I would be for 24 hours, jeremiah Brent, I was like waiting for you to say that I'd be hella good looking, rich, I'd have an awesome closet, I would have beautiful children and also a good looking husband. It would just all go away in 24 hours that I would be sad about. Yeah, you'd cry. I'd cry. What's the most ridiculous thing you've ever Googled and immediately regretted oh, I'm sure a lot. I have Googled so many stupid things. I have too. I just can't think of lot. Now I have to oh, my God, I've Googled so many stupid things. I have too. I just can't think of any Like acronyms. And then I'm like how did you not? That's stupid. How did you not know what that meant there?
Speaker 2:was an acronym that Mel said once.
Speaker 1:No, like stupid acronyms. Acronyms.
Speaker 2:Oh, my God.
Speaker 1:Acrony, like what was the one that you? Oh, what are you doing? I was like, what does that mean? And then I Googled it and I'm like, oh, stupid, clearly I spell my words out too much. I spell them out too, but like I should use more acronyms. But no, I don't.
Speaker 2:This is where I start showing my age. I guess I don't. I don't, I don't. This is where I start showing my age. I guess I don't know what I mean. I was like my mom, lol. Lots of love, lots of love. I google everything. I don't know.
Speaker 1:I google everything. Now this is really bad. Now I've been using chat gpt like for everything. Like the other day I was driving home and I'm like trying to do math in my head and I was like why am I doing the math? Why don't I just ask chat GPT how much it would be? So then I was like Siri, ask chat GPT, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Oh sorry, siri, nevermind. And she replied back to me with my answer and I was like, oh my God, this is going to cripple me, it is going to cripple you, like it was. It was bad, it's bad. What's the worst advice you've ever given or received? Get back with the person. That's the worst advice you've ever given or received.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's the worst advice I've ever given or received. Yeah, it's the worst advice I've given. Do that shit. The worst advice I've been given um shoot, I don't. I've been given a lot of advice. I don't take it all um. You look good in that shirt and I'm like I don't need that French fry.
Speaker 1:You don't need it. Is that what she said to you?
Speaker 2:Yes, that's when I was.
Speaker 1:That was some messed up advice.
Speaker 2:No, but people telling me I look good in a shirt and then I look at pictures. I'm like lies.
Speaker 1:Who's more likely to end up on a reality TV show?
Speaker 2:Between you and I.
Speaker 1:Between you and I, for sure.
Speaker 2:Put me on coach, for sure, for sure Ava. I've always wanted to have like my own show.
Speaker 1:I think you'd have a good reality show.
Speaker 2:I want to be a host of a reality show. I could see that, Like today on Keeping up with no, like a dating show, Like, oh Brad, why did you do that to Brian Bradley? And then Brian will like bullshit and I'm like stop bullshitting Because these hosts, they don't hold them accountable.
Speaker 1:They say, oh okay, Now hold these mofos accountable Because they want to be liked by everybody. That's the whole point of being the host, you're supposed to be neutral.
Speaker 2:But if you make them take accountability, then the fans will like you more, because you're doing what the fans are thinking, and I can do it from a fan's perspective because I'm tired of yelling at my TV.
Speaker 1:I think I'm going to set up a camera and, like, have it video you reacting to things on the television. It's hilarious, and then we'll make a reel out of that and have the show right here and my reaction. Yeah, that would be good. There used to be a show like that.
Speaker 2:There is a show like that for 90 Day Fiancé. It's called Pillow Talk yeah.
Speaker 1:Oh my God. But yeah, there was one where like people would be on. Yeah, they would be on a couch or in a bed watching a show and then they would react to whatever they were watching. It's silly. I think you should totally be on one of those. I think so too. That'd be great. Okay, if you had to choose a theme song for our friendship, what would it be? Huh, I mean, you're the musical one here, I know, but I can't think, I don't know.
Speaker 2:There's so many songs in my head. The boy is mine, what the girl?
Speaker 1:for context, that's because we dated a lot of the same girls a long time ago.
Speaker 2:A long time ago, lot of the same girls a long time, a long time, not at the same time a long time ago stupid, all right.
Speaker 1:What's one thing you'd never do for a million dollars for a million dollars. Yeah, kill someone we went dark real quick.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I wouldn't kill someone for a million dollars, either, or like commit a crime that I could go to jail for for the rest of my life.
Speaker 1:Okay, let's say there was no penalty on like like. Let's just say it wasn't a crime. Oh, it wasn't a crime.
Speaker 2:Well, what did I do? Yeah, like I wouldn't betray a friend. And like sleeping with like their For a million dollars. Yeah, no, sleeping with their partner. What?
Speaker 1:if it was a billion, I'd be like bitch, you better split that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, if we had an agreement and we split it. Yeah, let's split it.
Speaker 1:Let's split it. I'd be like you can, I'd offer her up for a billion dollars. I'm like, just make it real quick, make it quick, make it really quick, please Don't. There's no enjoyment in here. We're just going to split the cash. Yeah, I don't know. I mean there's a lot of things I wouldn't do for a million dollars. Like what? Like there were things I would, things I wouldn't eat there are, yeah.
Speaker 1:I wouldn't eat, like I would not eat like I don't know, like fish guts Like I wouldn't eat that. Or like brain no. Or like any weird organ or any of that crap no, because no, yeah, I wouldn't do that. No money in the world can make me. It may be a billion dollars, but no.
Speaker 2:No, I don't know. I would eat a brain for a billion dollars if I need to have the water.
Speaker 1:What if it was like a human body part? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 2:Absolutely not.
Speaker 1:I might like taste a little like human flesh. You just made my stomach turn For like some. No, I don some. No, I don't know, maybe like a billion dollars, not a million, but like a billion, like I'd be like who, what? Who is it? Is it, ava, I'll take?
Speaker 1:a little I'll take a little nibble. No, if is it. If is it like, is it like? I don't know, beyonce, I take a little nibble. Oh, you know I'm kidding, I don't know if I can do. No, what's the weirdest food combo? You secretly love Beyonce and Alva?
Speaker 2:Pretzels and cream cheese.
Speaker 1:Ah, Weirdly enough, mine was. This was when I was a kid what it was rice and ketchup. I loved it like my mom would make like something with rice. I would put ketchup all over it. I know it was weird. I haven't had it since I was a kid, but well, a teenager, but yeah that was my, that was my jam all right you got some over there.
Speaker 2:If you had to pick an animal to describe each other, what would you choose?
Speaker 1:What kind of animal would you be? I don't know, a cougar.
Speaker 2:Then you would be a puma.
Speaker 1:Hey, I saw a puma. I know they were stealth. They were so stealth On the grass, camouflage themselves. They were coming to get your ass. Yeah, they're very independent animals though. Yeah yeah, they're not like packs, so I don't know if I'd be a pooba.
Speaker 2:I mean, I'd be down to be a cougar.
Speaker 1:Cougar. I don't know much about cougars, I don't know what animal would you be, me? I think you would be like something that looks scary but is like really like cuddly and sweet and goofy, all at the same time. Like a fucking sloth, like a panda? A fucking panda, all right, you know. Like a little panda bear, all right. What would you be? I don't know. You tell me you'd be a bird.
Speaker 2:A bird, so, because you don't like confrontation, so you would have to be able to fly away. Okay, yeah, all right, why Wait? Oh, okay.
Speaker 1:Yeah, all right.
Speaker 2:I'll take it. Yeah, who's more likely to send a text to the wrong person? You, me for sure.
Speaker 1:I've done it. Yeah, I know, that's why I said you so many times.
Speaker 2:What's your worst habit that you can't kick? Oh my God, I have to have a sweet after a meal.
Speaker 1:Watching TV in bed before I go to sleep oh, that's very bad. That is one that I'm having a really hard time with. Don't do that I know I can't, I can't like not do it.
Speaker 2:Would you rather accidentally text your crush a meme meant for your mom or a meme meant for your ex? I'd say a meme meant for my ex. Read that to me again. Would you accidentally text your crush, a meme meant for your mom or a meme meant for your ex?
Speaker 1:Probably a meme meant for my mom? Meant for your ex? Probably a meme meant for my mom. Why would I want to text my crush something that's meant for my ex? No, it's an accident. Yeah, oh, so you're saying for your mom Like accidentally. I'd be like, oops, sorry, that was for my mom.
Speaker 2:Well, I would say it was for my mom, even if it was for my ex. If you can instantly become an expert in anything, what would it be?
Speaker 1:Oh, my God.
Speaker 2:Knowing what a woman wants to eat for dinner. That's what I would be. An expert in Fernanda would love me more.
Speaker 1:Oh man, Probably the stock market or something that would financially benefit me.
Speaker 2:Or who's more likely to accidentally break someone in someone else's house Me- you.
Speaker 1:I am clumsy as F Like oh my God yeah you. I look at something and it'll break.
Speaker 2:Yeah, for sure it would be you. I'd be like it'll break. Yeah, for sure it would be you. I'd be like, oh God, that's a lunge. If you were both stranded on a deserted island, who would eat the last snack, me?
Speaker 1:I don't know. I think either one of us would. I think we would both be like you could have it, boo, no, you could have it, and then we would both want, like you could have it, boo.
Speaker 2:No, you could have it, and then we would both want it. Split it, split it in half. What's something you both secretly judge each other for but would never say out loud? Oh my God, the fact that you don't tan your skin.
Speaker 1:And who is going to have the best looking skin when we're old?
Speaker 2:Me.
Speaker 1:That's up for debate. That's the truth. Because I don't sit in the sun and fry like a little, I don't Frito. I train my skin. That's not training, that's killing your skin. No fine, there's a difference.
Speaker 2:I'm okay, what's yours. I don't know if I can say mine. Yours is me frying my skin, oh okay no, I don't judge you for that.
Speaker 1:You have to say what is it drinking ice, drinks on air. Yes, I know so it won't happen again no, because now you know how it looks and how it sounds. It looks so bad. Yeah, sorry, and I'm the one that has to edit it. I know Sorry.
Speaker 2:All right, that's it.
Speaker 1:That's it. Yeah, oh, all right, I think we're going to wrap this episode up here and we'll catch you guys on the next one. We're going to try to get some people on the show. So if you guys know anyone that you want us to have on, send their details our way and we will reach out and hopefully they won't deny us.
Speaker 2:They won't be like bye girl. Who are you?
Speaker 1:Exactly All right. Anyway, thank you so much for watching guys, and we'll catch you on the next one. Bye guys, later boos. Thank you so much for listening to this episode of the let's Say More podcast. If you can, please show your love and support by writing a review on Apple Podcasts, rating us on Spotify and, of course, spreading the word and sharing us with your community, we would greatly appreciate it. The let's Say More podcast is produced by yours truly, solange Aurelio and Ava Mozaffari, and edited by myself as well, solange Aurelio.
