Self-love, Image, & a Motivational Message for you my Boo!

This episode is EVERYTHING you need to hear in this moment. 

Your self image, self love, perspective in how you see yourself, see others.

I also dive into all the noise and information out there and what to do with it and process it. There is so much good wisdom in this episode, you're welcome! 

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Transcript

Season 2 ep. 6

[00:00:00] I am sitting here, um, waiting to pick up my daughter. She just went on a few days birthday trip for a friend out of state and they had so much fun. I'm excited 'cause I'm gonna hear all about it and all the things she bought and the things they did and look at all the pictures and I love that. Um, I always miss her, but I think I just, I love seeing her live.

And experience life like so much. Like, yeah, she goes out there and I miss her and all that thing, but to witness your child living their life and having their human experiences, it's really freaking cool. Um, and it's a gift, right? Not everyone has had that luxury or gets that or to witness that, so I definitely am so grateful.

Um, but I got on here because I. Have realized that sometimes when I consume content, whether it's through a [00:01:00] podcast or other people's, um, work, however that might be, online socials, um, a book, anything. There comes a point where I kind of have these content boundaries where I'm like, okay, I'm not consuming anymore.

It's a creativity day, or I need a creativity week. Like, you know, it might be for a while. I don't really intake a lot, um, because I need to be able to put to. Express and get things out, right? Like it can't be a consume, consume, consume, and then never get anything out. And that could be anything like photography, art, writing, journaling, um, dance.

Like you need to be self expressing and putting something out there in some way, or creating something in some way. It doesn't matter what way, just make sure you're doing it. But it also had me thinking how so many people are going to tell you how to do something. And what's funny is it's just in so many ways, [00:02:00] and I know I come on here and I have my perspective and my approach to things, and I'm going to say what I'm gonna say, but sometimes it gets really contradicting.

Like sometimes you hear something from someone that worked and then from someone else that didn't work and they did this right. And that has me thinking like how,

how there's. There's a point where, try to collect my thoughts because I parked here and I could see through someone's window and it's clear they're blow drying their hair. But that's all I see. 'cause it's up high in the air and I'm like, girl, I hope no one else has a view into your window right now it's open with the lights all on.

Oh, anyway. Okay. Back to what I was trying to say. Get distracted. Um. But yes. So there's gonna be a lot of noise, right? Okay. What worked for that person won't work for that person, that person, that person. So this is where your due diligence, like your, your, what is that word? Um, [00:03:00] discernment comes in, right?

Like what works for you? What feels true to you? What feels good in your body, what aligns and how to take that and move with it. You might. Listen to someone and be like, okay, out of that whole thing, two things that I got from you are just, wow, they feel great. I'm gonna use them. Then you go on to the next and it's like, you know what?

That person, you know, I listened to them and they did make one good point. I think that's something I could definitely carry with me, and I feel like it's like a Frankenstein of things, right? And I feel like going through my own business and creating my community and my podcast and everything I'm doing.

I realized one very important thing. I can take tips and um, advice and things, but I cannot. I sure as hell cannot take someone's whole blueprint and whole method and whole. I sell like this. I can seem like this, I do this, I create this, I do exact like this. Here's all my [00:04:00] steps. I'm so thankful that worked for you.

And I know methodology wise, like there are things that work if you fall certain steps, but you have to remember the energy behind things. You have to remember, like there is more than just steps to things, right? And for me personally, it's like, that's not gonna work for me. 'cause that's just not how I'm, how I'm built.

I'm created how I work. Otherwise, I would be out there doing that exact same thing and be just fine with it. And I used to wonder, I'd used to think like, why won't my body do this? Like, why can't I just suck it up and do this and screw if I get burned out and screw if I do this and that? And I'm like, no, because what I'm building is not motivated by external things.

It's not motivated per se by like. Money, right? What I'm doing is motivated by peace and alignment and connection and cre. Creativity and love and gratitude and like I want all the internal things and I'm motivated by that. So how do I build that? So I think [00:05:00] this is just my reminder for you. Like whatever noise is out there telling you how to do something or what to do.

Pick and choose and take, but ultimately you're gonna have to find your own way to do it and your own path to do it. I think that's why I love, I love my community so much because the community I'm building is just a ver it's a place for you to not be edited by that, right? Like, don't edit yourself.

Let's move forward. How can we help you and guide you? Empowering yourself, you empower yourself. I'm not empowering you, you're empowering yourself. I am leading by example, but you, you have, you're not borrowing from my battery, although my aura and energy is amazing. You are. What the heck are these people doing?

You are, you are empowering yourself because you are taking like, oh, I'm gonna charge this internal battery myself and I'm gonna bring my power out and I'm gonna be able to power my whole self with this energy and this light, and all. That's what you're doing. I'm guiding you like, Hey, there's the on switch.

Hey, this is how you can plug [00:06:00] in and energize, Hey, this is, you know what I mean? Like, like, yes, I can guide you and be there and help you, but you are doing it all from within because everything you have is within you. You are so fricking capable that you don't know that. And if you don't know that, it's probably because no one told you that and you didn't learn that you were, and and society certainly likes to keep that from people sometimes depending on.

What you're consuming, and if you do know that, thank God, you know that now embody it and use it and go out there because. You're capable and if, if what you want to do and you're capable, if, if you know these things and you're like, I'm gonna be the best stay-at-home mom. I can be, I'm going to just engulf myself in being the the most present mom and hands-on and I'm just gonna be so grateful.

I just love it. I love it, love it, love it. Good. That is your. That's beautiful potential. That's success. That's what you need to do. If you're out here like, oh my gosh, I love painting. I'm gonna paint. You know what? I have my nine to five, but I'm gonna [00:07:00] paint and I'm gonna create worlds and I'm gonna express myself and I'm just gonna live this way and it's just gonna be so beautiful and 'cause I know I'm worth it and I know I'm capable.

And these are the beautiful things that you create. Yes, yes, yes, yes. The point is, whatever you are doing that brings you peace and passion and, and. All the thanks. Short circuiting. Do it like just, just know you're capable. Like, I don't know how we got to this point in the podcast, but like this conversation's going all over the place.

That's why it's randomly ready. 'cause I'm random, but like, just do it like you are so capable and so. You're like the perfect you in this moment. People are always like, what is your higher self? What is your higher self? What is your highest self? Well, I'm just letting you know right now is the best you are like, you are the best you've ever been in this moment.

[00:08:00] And if you're like, no, I'm like depressed and I lost my job and like two years ago I was happy and had a job. No, no, no. Up until this moment. The best of you has come to this point, like you have created a version of you that has experienced so much emotion and so many things that it's like, whoa, and you're just gonna keep building that.

Isn't that crazy? Like you, you don't even know if you've witnessed the most exciting day of your life yet, or the saddest day of your life, or the happiest day of your life, or the most confusing day of your life, or the most joyous day of your life, or the most magical day of your life, like. Because we get to, I think we get more than one moment because anytime we feel that it's just the next and the next and it's just a beautiful thing we get to have, it's like a gift that keeps on giving because we all, we all know we've had more than one joyous day of our life.

Like sometimes there's so many you can't even pick from, wow, which one was better. Right. And we know we've had more than one really hard day in our life. And so we can count on knowing [00:09:00] that we're just gonna experience things and they're gonna be beautiful and they're gonna. And they're gonna be there to serve us and to make us more ourselves.

The more I know shit, the more I go through some stuff. I definitely get to know ruhi a lot, like deeper and better. So, but this is just for you, just for you to know and to remember. Like you are literally the most perfect version of who you are and who you're meant to be. You were created perfectly. You are.

Everything you were ever meant to be in up in this moment. Now. Okay. Also now, no wait five minutes then too. And in 10 minutes also then like embody it. Just embody it. Just decide. And I, oh, and that's another thing I was talking to someone about. Please don't think like I want. Like this is what, like, listen, ready.

This is an example. I'm saying this to myself. I am the best. I'm the fucking best. Like I am so the best. My energy is the best. [00:10:00] My aura is the best, my wisdom is the best. Everything I create is the like and I, I can, of course, whatever else, I can always get better and I can always compete against myself, but I am the best right now.

You are also the exact same things, and I want you to say that about yourself and your friend is also the best, and your neighbor. And that person bagging groceries and the car salesman and the firefighter and the person that lives 10 blocks down the road. And literally, when you are telling yourself this and when you are embracing it and you have decided this about yourself.

Know. It's from a place where every single person should know this about themselves and decided about themselves. It is not in lieu of, oh, I'm the best. So that means you can't be. No, I'm the best. Oh my God, you're the best too. That's amazing. How awesome [00:11:00] we live on a planet where we're the best. So, right.

So it's uh, it's this thing where we have to get outta this mentality of me versus you, right? Like, no, I am the best and you're the best and this is awesome. And we came together. What is that? A supernova of awesomeness? I don't even know. Um, yeah. Oh, I could go on and on and on and on. Like, I just, I wanna hype you guys up so bad.

Because literally there's, there's just so much in so many ways that I see the world that I wish other people could and see themselves. Like sometimes I, I meet people where I notice where I've met them, like on their journey in their life. I see them, they're on this pathway, and I look at them and I'm like, you don't know it right now, but when you love yourself, like truly love yourself.

In a way that's like undeniable, like with no conditions. Like you should know that you love yourself. You're more [00:12:00] deserving and worthy and everything because of the fact that you just were born. Doesn't even matter how you were born. Boom. Your breathing air cool. You have skin cells, you have cells, you have anything life within you.

Then there you go, automatic. Right? But for you to like embrace that, um.

So that love, so you know that, right? Like so you are deserving and worthy. But that love, I meet them in this path and I'm like, deposit. 'cause I lost my train of thought. But that love you have, I'll meet them there. And I'm like, you don't know it yet, but you are gonna realize what it's really like to love yourself.

Like you'll know, you'll see that difference, right? But what's beautiful is I stand there and I'm like. I see, I see your potential and I see things you can't see because I love you without condition, and I love you at this point more than you love [00:13:00] yourself in a more 3D way. Deep down inside you do love yourself so truly, so deeply more than anyone could, right outside of usually your mother or God or other things.

But when I see you. I'm like, I love you and I see you in a way that you can't see yourself yet, and that is perfectly okay. And. Oh, people are riding up on their bikes one second, but when I'm able to see that, what I just can see what you can't get. It's almost like you ever get, you ever see a curve in the road or a turn, but there's trees and things in the way.

I'm like at that corner already. I see you coming up to the curve and I could see to the left and I could see who's coming up that way. So all I do is I could just see a little bit further ahead. 'cause I'm in a different position. I'm just in a, I just have a different perspective of you. Than you have. I have the perspective and the vision of you that hasn't been tainted [00:14:00] by limiting beliefs from other people throughout your life.

Right? We grew up, we hear things from our grandparents, our parents, our cousins, our sisters, our siblings, whatever brothers, our teachers, our classmates, our coworkers, all these things that we think were telling us about ourselves, and that kind of like create this self-image of ourselves and it's like, I don't have any of that.

Isn't that crazy when you really think about it? Like, I don't think you're annoying because I'm not your older brother who decided that you were annoying when you were seven and now you feel that you're annoying or you do annoy people. Or maybe if you do, you're too much and can't do that. Nope, I don't have that.

So of course when I tell you, go do this, and they're like, oh my gosh, I would never do that. 'cause I think I'm afraid of being too annoying. I'm over here. Like, look how amazing and big of a step this could be, because I would've never thought that's what you are and who you are. So why wouldn't you do that?

Does that make sense? Like your limiting beliefs will stop you from having certain ideas or [00:15:00] taking those giant leaps, but I don't have those limiting beliefs. So I'll know and I'll see them and I'll be like, let's do this. Let's take that leap. Like, oh, you didn't wanna go down, you know, you didn't wanna go down that path because you were told that you would never be able to build that skill.

I see that skill in you right now. What are you talking about? Let's go down that path. I'm gonna end it there because I really feel like I got a lot of good things out right now that I just needed to say because I feel like so many people need to hear this. And this is probably one of my favorite episodes of season two right now.

I think it's enough. Like sometimes I get ranting and then it just comes out and it's just a little bit easier. Um, but also just because I, I love pouring into you guys like this, like the podcast, my Instagram, things like that, that is like. A way I can pour into people and just build a community with that's AC that's accessible, like it's free.

And then of course you have my unedited community and you pay for that monthly, but it's [00:16:00] fucking totally worth it. Like literally between the calls and the messaging and connecting with people and also the things that come out there that will help you resource wise. Just ridiculous. Um, the price is so, it's so awesome.

And then of course. You have one-on-one telegram, which is how people work with me individually, and that's where all the voice messages of magic happen too. So it's kind of a, it's really fun, but there's all these ways to, to access. But I just, I had to pour into you guys because I was like, everyone should hear this.

No one should pay to hear what I just said. You should just hear it and know it. Like, is it gold? Could I get paid for this show? Sure. But I want you guys to hear it because. I feel like it's just a give, it's a right, like every human being should know these things about themselves. Every person should know that they're the best.

Every person should see that perspective and know that there's people out there to help 'em and. And just everything, all the things, all right. But I love you guys. [00:17:00] Thanks for listening. Um, until next time, my dears, uh oh. And don't forget to DM me with, uh, feedback or questions or po you know, and we'll get into, I know y'all voted on some topics for the podcast, so we're, I'll be recording those next, and I love you all so much.

Goodnight.