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Hi, I’m Jami… a mom of seven, professional counselor turned parenting coach, speaker, and author. And yes, even with training, I found myself stuck in the same cycle so many parents live in: meltdown… reaction… guilt… repeat. I was doing all the things that were “supposed” to work… but they didn’t.
Everything changed when I stopped treating behavior like the problem and started looking underneath it. When I learned to understand my child’s unique wiring (personality, sensory processing, executive functioning, and emotional needs), I finally had a roadmap. I didn’t need more tips… I needed clarity and a plan. And that clarity changed things.
If you’re ready to ditch the overwhelm and stop parenting in survival mode, you’re in the right place. We’ll talk meltdowns, emotional dysregulation, defiance, ADHD, DMDD, anxiety, and more… along with practical steps that help your family move from chaos to calm… one episode at a time.
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Calm Connection Parenting | Neurodivergent, Meltdowns, Emotional Regulation, DMDD, Tantrums, SPD, Defiance, Angry Behaviors
19-- Three Most Common Triggers for Emotional Dysregulation in Kids and What You Can Do to Help Find Calm
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Have you ever had parenting whiplash? You know, when your child goes from laughing to losing it in a matter of seconds? Maybe it’s because you picked the wrong-colored cup, said ‘no’ to a snack, or asked them to turn off their game—suddenly, you’re dealing with a full-on emotional eruption, and you have no idea how you got here.
But what if I told you there are actually patterns behind these emotional explosions? And once you see them, you can’t unsee them! Today, we’re breaking down three of the most common hidden triggers behind emotional outbursts—and, most importantly, what you can do in the moment to keep the peace and help your child regulate their emotions. Let’s jump in!
In this episode, you will learn:
· There’s more to emotional outbursts than meets the eye. What if your child isn’t just overreacting—but reacting to something deeper?
· Sometimes, the world feels too big, too loud, and too much. One common trigger might be hiding in plain sight.
· Changes and transitions can be harder than you think. The way you move your child from one thing to the next could be making things worse—or much easier.
· Even small surprises can lead to big emotions. A simple shift in how you approach the unexpected can make all the difference.
· Your response matters more than you realize. Once you see these triggers, you can’t unsee them—and you’ll have new tools to help.
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