Midlife Advice | Perimenopause, Hormones and Midlife Women’s Health

Why You Can’t Relax Even When You Have Time (And How to Feel Calm Again)

Jessica Long | Helping Overwhelmed Women Over 40 Feel Fully Alive Again Episode 72

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Why you can’t relax, even when you finally have time, and what it has to do with your nervous system.

You finally have a break. The house is quiet. There’s nothing urgent to do.
And instead of relaxing…you feel restless. Anxious. Like you should be doing something.

In this solo episode, I’m digging into why so many midlife women struggle to slow down (even when we want to) and why that uncomfortable, ants-y feeling isn’t a mindset problem, it’s a nervous system response.

After years (or decades) of being in go-go-go mode taking care of everyone, managing everything and always being “on,” your body has learned that slowing down doesn’t feel safe. So when you finally have time to rest, your system pushes back.

We’re talking about what’s really happening in your body in those moments and how you can start retraining your nervous system to actually feel calm again.

If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t even know how to relax anymore,” this episode will hit home.

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