ADHD or life? - A couples perspective!
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Join Adam and Donna as they dive deep into the realities of living with ADHD in a relationship. Each week, we share honest, no-holds-barred discussions on challenges, symptoms, strategies, and real-life stories. Together, we explore the journey of questioning ADHD and finding solutions. Tune in for authentic conversations that resonate! Each episode we ask - Is it ADHD or just life? 💬✨ #ADHDorLife #CouplesPodcast #realtalk
ADHD or life? - A couples perspective!
Is it ADHD or Life? – Special Guest Paul Nightingale | All Things AuDHD (ADHD + Autism), Masking, Burnout & Diagnosis
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This week on Is it ADHD or Life? – A Couple’s Perspective, we’re joined by special guest Paul Nightingale — an AuDHD content creator and events host who (in his own words) is completely “riddled”. Expect a funny, honest, and properly relatable chat about ADHD, autism, and real neurodivergent life.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re smashing it on the outside but burnt out on the inside, this one’s for you.
In this episode, we talk about:
- Paul’s life before diagnosis: comedy, events, being “on”, and the hidden burnout
- Depression vs ADHD (and how hard it can be to separate the two)
- “ADHD wasn’t a thing back then” and what we used to think ADHD actually was
- Why diagnosis can make your whole life suddenly make sense
- Being hyperactive in your brain even when you look calm on the outside
- Does ADHD get worse with age, or do you just have more to juggle?
- Family, childhood symptoms, and getting into trouble for asking “why?”
- The contradictions of ADHD and autism traits (and why it can feel confusing)
- Taking what you’ve learned into the workplace
- Masking, feeling like you’re “crazy”, and the emotional impact of not knowing
- Diagnosis feelings: relief, sadness, grief, anger, guilt, and imposter syndrome
- Relationships, emotions, learning curves, patience, and changing the narrative
- Mental health medication, OCD, psychology, and breaking stereotypes (no, not everyone likes trains)
- Online pressure to be “officially diagnosed” and why it matters to people
- Right to Choose, aftercare, lack of support, and broken systems
- Shared care agreements and supporting injustice (Paul’s sense of justice is next level)
At one point Adam and Paul both get distracted at the same time, and Donna has to keep the whole thing on track like a neurotypical air traffic controller.
We finish with Paul’s Good, Bad & Ugly — and it’s a belter.
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