Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
Kia ora, Hello! I’m Ruth Vercoe, a teacher-turned-mum, here on a mission to demystify Child’s Play through understanding play schemas.
If you’ve ever found yourself asking, 'Why is my child doing that?'—whether it’s throwing their soft toys, hiding stones around the house, or lining up their crayons —then you’re in the right place, and certainly not alone.
Here, we’ll explore the magic of play through the lens of play schemas—those hidden repeated patterns in your child’s behaviour that hold the key to unlocking more meaningful play and connection.
Join me each week as we dive into playful insights that will help you bring more joy, connection and understanding into your parenting journey.
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Email Ruth@Playschemas.com
Facebook and Instagram @Play_Schemas
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
003 Reducing Frustration through understanding Play Schemas
Ever wonder why your toddler insists on throwing toys, spinning in circles, or hiding your kitchen towels? Believe it or not, there’s a method to the madness—it’s called play schemas. These are natural, repeated behaviours that children use to explore and understand their world. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re uncovering how recognising these play patterns can revolutionise your parenting.
🎯 What You’ll Learn:
- What play schemas are and why they’re key to your child’s development.
- How understanding these behaviours can reduce frustration and bring more joy to your home.
- Real-life examples of parents transforming chaos into connection and creativity.
- Practical tips for supporting your child’s schemas and making playtime a collaborative, fun experience.
Join me as I share insights, stories, and actionable strategies to help you lean into your child’s natural tendencies instead of fighting against them. From the trajectory schema (hello, flying food!) to the enveloping schema (goodbye, tea towels!), you’ll discover how to turn everyday challenges into opportunities for learning and bonding.
💡 Bonus! Grab your free cheat sheet outlining the 10 most common play schemas at playschemas.com/free.
💬 Let’s Connect:
Share your parenting wins, struggles, or aha moments with me!
Social: @play_schemas
Email: ruth@playschemas.com
✨ Parenting doesn’t have to feel like a battle. Tune in to learn how understanding play schemas can help you foster curiosity, connection, and calm—one play session at a time. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with other parents on this journey!
🎧 Listen now and discover how today is a great day to play!
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I would love to hear your playtime stories—whether you’re celebrating a win or trying to crack the mystery behind a new behaviour, I’m here for it. Reach out on social media or drop me a message.
Facebook and Instagram @play_schemas
Ruth@PlaySchemas.com
www.playschemas.com