
Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
Kia ora, Hello! I’m Ruth Vercoe, a teacher-turned-mum, here on a mission to demystify Child’s Play through understanding play schemas.
If you’ve ever found yourself asking, 'Why is my child doing that?'—whether it’s throwing their soft toys, hiding stones around the house, or lining up their crayons —then you’re in the right place, and certainly not alone.
Here, we’ll explore the magic of play through the lens of play schemas—those hidden repeated patterns in your child’s behaviour that hold the key to unlocking more meaningful play and connection.
Join me each week as we dive into playful insights that will help you bring more joy, connection and understanding into your parenting journey.
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Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
007 Christmas Play Schemas: Tips & Scenarios
Is your child tossing baubles, spinning ornaments, or carrying presents across the room? Before you wonder if they’re being “naughty,” take a deep breath—they’re not being difficult; they’re being explorers! In this episode, we’ll decode these behaviours through the lens of play schemas, helping you see the magic in your child’s play this Christmas.
✨ What’s Inside This Episode?
Christmas can be a magical time, but for parents of young children, it’s often filled with unexpected moments. Your toddler’s fascination with spinning decorations, piling presents, or mixing food can leave you feeling frustrated or embarrassed—especially when relatives raise an eyebrow. But what if you could make sense of it all?
In this episode, I’ll help you understand these quirky actions as play schemas—a natural part of your child’s development that allows them to learn, grow, and make sense of the world. You’ll gain practical tools to:
✅ Recognise the most common play schemas in action this Christmas.
✅ Redirect your child’s play in ways that support their development and protect the festive vibe.
✅ Explain their behaviour to family members with confidence and clarity.
🎄 Real-Life Festive Scenarios & Solutions
Here’s a taste of what we’ll cover:
- Trajectory Schema: Throwing baubles or tossing wrapping paper? They’re exploring movement and physics—offer soft balls or paper snowballs instead.
- Transporting Schema: Carrying gifts across the room? They’re mastering coordination—set up a ‘delivery station’ to channel this energy.
- Enveloping Schema: Wrapping themselves (or the dog!) in blankets? They’re exploring boundaries—provide scarves or a box they can crawl into.
- Rotation Schema: Spinning ornaments or twirling in circles? It’s all about balance and coordination—encourage safe spinning toys or activities.
- Transforming Schema: Mixing food or tearing paper? They’re little scientists experimenting—give them playdough or edible ‘safe science’ tasks.
These scenarios—and more—will give you simple, actionable tips to turn potential chaos into calm, all while fostering your child’s natural curiosity.
🎁 The Cheat Sheet You’ll Love
To make this even easier, I’ve created a free cheat sheet summarising these insights. Whether you print it for quick reference or share it with family, it’s a practical way to front-foot those awkward conversations and keep everyone on the same page. Download it here: 👉 playschemas.com/007 or playschemas.com/free
✨ Why This Matters
When you understand why your child behaves the way they do, you can replace stress with connection. Play schemas aren’t just about play—they’re about learning, discovery, and growth. This Christmas, let’s celebrate your child’s curiosity and help others see the beauty in their actions too.
Get your free cheat sheet and show notes here: 👉 playschemas.com/007
🎙 Coming Up Next: We’ll explore more play schema insights to help you connect with your child in fun and meaningful ways—because, as I always say, today is a great day to play!
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