Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
Kia ora, Hello! I’m Ruth Vercoe, a teacher-turned-mum, here on a mission to demystify Child’s Play through understanding play schemas.
If you’ve ever found yourself asking, 'Why is my child doing that?'—whether it’s throwing their soft toys, hiding stones around the house, or lining up their crayons —then you’re in the right place, and certainly not alone.
Here, we’ll explore the magic of play through the lens of play schemas—those hidden repeated patterns in your child’s behaviour that hold the key to unlocking more meaningful play and connection.
Join me each week as we dive into playful insights that will help you bring more joy, connection and understanding into your parenting journey.
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Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
018 Acts of Service = Love in Action!
Unlock the Secrets of Your Child’s Play: Play Schemas & Acts of Service in Parenting!
Have you ever wondered why your child insists on lining up their toys, spinning in circles, or moving objects from place to place? It might seem random (or even frustrating!), but these repetitive behaviours are actually part of their natural learning process. They’re called play schemas, and understanding them can transform the way you see your child’s play—helping you to nurture their development and reduce daily parenting struggles.
But there’s more! When we connect play schemas with the love language of acts of service, we unlock an even deeper way to support our children. In this episode, we’ll explore how simple, everyday acts of service can show love, model responsibility, and empower our little ones to serve themselves—and eventually, others.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ What play schemas are and how they shape your child’s learning and behaviour.
✅ The love language acts of service—why it’s more than just doing things for your child.
✅ How recognising play schemas can strengthen your bond and make daily life smoother.
✅ Practical ways to support your child’s play while fostering independence and confidence.
✅ How small, intentional acts of service help children understand love, responsibility, and community.
As parents, we’re constantly serving our children—meals, clean clothes, cuddles, bedtime routines—but when done with intention, these daily tasks become powerful expressions of love. In this episode, we talk about how acts of service should go beyond “doing everything for them” and instead guide children toward learning, responsibility, and meaningful connection.
💡 Ready to see your child’s play in a whole new light? Grab a cuppa, pop in your earphones, and let’s dive in!
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