Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
Kia ora, Hello! I’m Ruth Vercoe, a teacher-turned-mum, here on a mission to demystify Child’s Play through understanding play schemas.
If you’ve ever found yourself asking, 'Why is my child doing that?'—whether it’s throwing their soft toys, hiding stones around the house, or lining up their crayons —then you’re in the right place, and certainly not alone.
Here, we’ll explore the magic of play through the lens of play schemas—those hidden repeated patterns in your child’s behaviour that hold the key to unlocking more meaningful play and connection.
Join me each week as we dive into playful insights that will help you bring more joy, connection and understanding into your parenting journey.
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Email Ruth@Playschemas.com
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Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
052 A Playful Christmas: Understanding Your Child’s Play for Calm, Joyful Holidays
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Is your toddler more interested in the box than the toy this Christmas? You’re not alone, and there’s a reason behind it!
In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re kicking off our festive three-part miniseries, A Playful Christmas, exploring how understanding play schemas can bring more calm, confidence, and connection into your holiday season. If you’ve ever wondered why your child throws, spins, hides, or moves things around, this episode explains exactly what’s happening in their brain and why it matters for their learning and development.
Ruth Vercoe shares practical tips for matching toys to your child’s natural play style, simple ideas for using everyday items creatively, and strategies to manage toy overload so your home stays playful, not chaotic. You’ll discover how to choose gifts that truly support your child’s growth, boost their independence, and make play more meaningful for both of you.
Tune in to transform the way you approach Christmas playtime, reduce stress, and celebrate the joy of play.
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