Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
Kia ora, Hello! I’m Ruth Vercoe, a teacher-turned-mum, here on a mission to demystify Child’s Play through understanding play schemas.
If you’ve ever found yourself asking, 'Why is my child doing that?'—whether it’s throwing their soft toys, hiding stones around the house, or lining up their crayons —then you’re in the right place, and certainly not alone.
Here, we’ll explore the magic of play through the lens of play schemas—those hidden repeated patterns in your child’s behaviour that hold the key to unlocking more meaningful play and connection.
Join me each week as we dive into playful insights that will help you bring more joy, connection and understanding into your parenting journey.
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Email Ruth@Playschemas.com
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Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas
062 Play Schema Series - Age Specific Trajectory Behaviour
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Trajectory Play Schema by Age: What Movement Play Looks Like from Birth to 5+
Ever wondered why your baby keeps dropping things, your toddler throws everything in sight, or your preschooler builds elaborate ramps and obstacle courses?
In this episode, we explore age-specific trajectory play behaviours from birth through to five years and beyond, giving you a clear roadmap for how movement play naturally evolves as your child grows.
The Trajectory Play Schema is all about a child’s deep, instinctive urge to explore how objects, and their own bodies, move through space. This isn’t random behaviour or “naughty” play. It’s your child building early foundations for physics, problem-solving, emotional regulation, and confidence through movement.
We’ll walk through four key developmental stages, covering:
- What trajectory play typically looks like at each age
- Why behaviours like throwing, splashing, climbing, and jumping are so important
- How you can confidently support trajectory play at home (without shutting it down)
- What’s developmentally normal, so you can reframe frustration into understanding
From babies tracking movement and dropping spoons, to toddlers testing gravity, to preschoolers designing ramps, chain reactions, and movement-based games, this episode helps you see the learning beneath the behaviour.
If you’re parenting a child aged 0–5 years (or beyond), this episode will help you:
- Understand your child’s movement urges
- Support big body play safely
- Reduce power struggles around throwing and climbing
- Feel more confident responding to messy, energetic play
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