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Jess & Hids Season 2 Episode 13

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Boop boop boop. Okay. See now I have one and you have one. Oh cool. Yeah. Good times. Okay. Yay.

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Yeah.

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The cat is uh screaming. Yeah.

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He is.

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Hi, hello, and welcome to our podcast. Justin Hids make a podcast.

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There's cat hair just flying in my face. Hello. Welcome. Hi. Hi. How are you? Your energy just dropped. Like five minutes ago, we were having an animated discussion and I hit record, and you're just like, hi. I want the opposite. Come on. Nope.

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I don't perform on command. I do actually, but hi.

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Welcome to episode 13 of Jess and Hits Make a Podcast. I'm Jess. I'm Hids. So we haven't introduced ourselves in a while. Oh we rarely introduced the podcast.

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No. So here we are. You're listening to Jess and Hits Make a Podcast. Hey, did you know we made a podcast? Hey. We've been doing it for um You're listening to it. A year and a half now.

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Right now.

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Almost.

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Yeah. Well, no.

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April? Wait.

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We started in November.

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May. May will be a year and a half. Yeah. I don't know what time is. Time has no meaning. No. It's a construct. Cake, I love you. Stop painting, please.

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Ah.

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I love that this episode is uh recording late and not going to be edited. This is great.

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Oh, right. That's a thing. Oh my goodness. Yeah, we have to drop this in an hour and a half. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Right about the time we finish recording, possibly. Actually, this is probably gonna be a shorter episode. It will.

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Yes. Because it's deviating from our usual format, which has become the usual format. The usual us deviating. Like, oh, okay, this again.

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Look, we're ADHD. Deal with it. Yeah. What? What?

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You're ADHD?

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I had no idea. I mean, it's something I've learned about myself recently. So I yeah. Hey, Jess, I have ADHD.

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Wow. You know what? Now that you mention it, I think I might have ADHD too. I'm pretty sure you do. I have this weird, vague, vivid memory of me having to go to the nurse's office every day to take my pills.

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Vague and vivid. I love it. Yeah. That's I can't stop laughing now.

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If you weren't sure about having ADHD, a vague vivid, vivid memory. If you're having a vague, vivid memory, there's a clue. There's a clue. Anyway. So yeah, this isn't gonna be a normal episode.

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Oh my god. I forgot what we were talking about. Um, we're gonna do a couple announcements and then we're gonna talk about some other stuff that's coming up. Yeah. And we're gonna talk about some fun things. Yeah. And um then we're gonna go to bed. Yeah. There will be war members. Oh, yeah, the war members. That was the fun thing. Part of the fun thing. Yeah.

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Um first though, we are starting off with a little bit of bad news. Sad news. Sad news. Um, nothing crazy. No.

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We're like, yeah, that that sounded like we were like, it's really terrible. No, it's not. It's just uh an adjustment.

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Yeah, we have decided to move the schedule of this podcast to be bi-weekly.

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Nope. Well, yes.

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Sorry.

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What does bi biweekly monthly? Bi-monthly? Well, I see, this is the annoying thing with that word, bi-weekly or bi-monthly. Yeah. Is like it could be bi-weekly is twice a week or every other week. Well it's the same thing.

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I think language is hard. People who listen to the podcast won't think it's bad news if we ever dis decide to do two episodes a week.

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No, that would be cool.

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I know. I wish I'm saying like based on context. Oh, I get wishing. Bi-weekly. Yeah, we're moving to twice a month instead of every week.

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Every other week.

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Yeah. So yeah.

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We tem it's a temporary thing, hopefully.

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It is. It's a temporary thing. Um and yeah, we uh we have a note on here saying, don't apologize. And both of us are struggling so hard not to be like, and this is why. Here's why we're so sorry. It's been and we're so sorry. But we're not gonna do that. But we're not gonna do that because yeah, it's like, I don't know. I I'm trying to be better at not giving, you know, trying to give reasons for why I can or can't do things. Yeah. Well, usually can't do things. So yeah.

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So it's it's self-yeah, self-care. We're moving to a every other week episode release for this podcast. Yeah. And that's my sago into the next topic that we're gonna talk about. The new podcast.

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We have a new podcast. So you might have noticed that earlier this week, was it on Sunday? Sunday, the fifth. On Sunday, we just kind of casually dropped a trailer for a new podcast. This is separate from this podcast. Uh, you'll have to, you know, look us up and follow that podcast. Um, but we are so excited about this one. It's gonna be an actual play DD podcast. And it's called A Tale of Two Kobalds.

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Yay!

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We're both playing cobalt.

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I'm so excited. Yeah, and uh, it's only gonna drop once a month on the first of the month, and it's going to be the story of these two little cobalds who are off on an adventure with uh a group and they get separated. The tall people. Yeah, and they get separated, so it's their story of finding each other, yeah, and it's gonna be interesting because it's just the two of us.

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So Hid's will be the GM of my character's adventure, and I'm going to be the GM of Hid's character's adventure, and we don't really know, like we sort of kind of decided what what's happening in the like we don't have a big bad, like we don't know where this is going because we can't give you give it away.

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I know normally we plan stuff together and go like, hey, wouldn't this be cool? Wouldn't this be cool when we're running like games for our patrons or whatever?

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Yeah.

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And um it's weird that we can't do that.

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We don't really have an ending, which is a little scary.

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We'd yeah.

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But I'm also excited because we've we've tossed out some ideas and we have like the world that we're building, and we know the ultimate goal, but cake, my love. You're gonna have to stop.

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She's pacing. Yeah, I don't know what's going on. All her needs are met. She just I don't know.

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I don't know either. Okay, but yeah, we we know the goal. It's just gonna be uh getting there.

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Yeah I have ideas, and um one of the things we've worked with with our patrons, which is like really fun that patrons are getting involved at in this, they've helped us with um some of the world world building. We actually um did a live tea time and did drew like the roughed out the map of the continent.

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Yeah, we did the thing where we took like a ton of dice and just like rolled it all onto a big piece of paper, and then we traced the outlines of the dice, and that was our continent.

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Yeah, and we have like mountains and we have frozen areas and desert and jungles and plains, and it's really fun. We had a lot of fun. Um, we I drew it like sketch stuff out live, um, and we had people watching, and they were saying, Oh, hey, what about this and what about that? And so we got a lot of input. Um, it was really fun doing, and then we had another tea time later on, like a couple weeks later. Yeah. And um we named places and we named locations and kind of got some stories behind some of the places um and decided kind of where our the main part of our story is gonna take place, yeah. Or at least the beginning of our story is gonna take place. Yeah. Um, so it's been really fun, like building this world and kind of coming up with you know things that are known to people who live there, yeah. Um and we've we've recorded the first episode and it's fun.

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I had so much fun. You recorded half of the first episode.

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Yeah, we well, most, yeah, yeah. We still have a little bit to do. Um but I really had fun with the first half of the episode. Um we started with uh Jess's character's story. Yeah. Because hers uh was more dramatic the way she was separated from the party. So yeah. Um if you listened to the trailer, you know. You know, so if you haven't listened to it, go look for a tale of two cobalds, um, Spotify, it's on Castbox, Podcast, couple other places. It will be in more places soon. Yeah. Um and I had another thought. Oh cat cat on the back of my chair. Oh my gosh, he is just like sprawled out. All four feet are just oh my gosh, this cat. Um I think episodes are gonna run right around two hours. That's our goal to keep them there. Well, yeah-ish probably ish. And then we're gonna have a little um fun intermission part where we're gonna do uh DD or RPG tips for GMs and for players to have to kind of make it uh give you a little more tips and tricks that we've learned over the past nine years that we've been hasn't been that long. 2017? 2018. I figured this out the other day because I was like, wow, it's almost been 10 years. Okay.

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I don't know. Anyway, I thought it was 2018, but I think we ended our I don't know.

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It's fine. Yeah. It's been a while that we've been doing this and we've uh learned some stuff and we've kind of had some fun with things and yeah. Yeah, it's fun. So that'll be our little intermission uh in the podcast. And I think it's gonna be a lot of fun.

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Yeah, I hope so. I I will apologize if it's boring. We're gonna make sure it's not.

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I mean, we have cats running through the recording sessions, it's not gonna be boring. Yeah, we're gonna have dice out. We actually bought real dice. We bought real dice, we'll talk about those later.

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Yeah.

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Because we needed more dice because we don't have like two giant boxes full. Yeah. But you need dice for your characters, specific characters, yeah. They get their own dice. Yeah. That's our first trick and tip for you. That's a freebie right here outside of the pocket.

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If you have a character you really love, you gotta get them their own dice. And they will roll really well. I carry them around for a few days in your pocket.

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Attuned to them. Yeah.

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Yes. Okay. Um what else we got? Another announcement. April is coming up. April. And scavenger hunt time. April is when we usually do our scavenger hunt. Yay! And it's happening. I the way I said that made it seem like I was about to be like, but we're not doing it this year. But we are.

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I did have that feeling.

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Yeah, sorry. I had to take a sip of my tea. We're gonna do a scavenger hunt in April. And do we want to talk about the theme?

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Do we usually do?

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Do yeah, do we? I've pretty I'm pretty sure we have before. I don't know.

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I've slept since then, so I don't know. Let's talk about it.

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Um, the theme of the scavenger hunt is going to be finding magic in the mundane. That's all I'm gonna say about that. It's gonna be it might require a lot of creativity. But yeah, if you don't know what we're talking about, if you have not participated in one of our scavenger hunts before, we are starting in April, we will release a big old list of scavenger hunt items. And this is a virtual scavenger hunt, and we we sort of uh make it so you can participate from wherever you are in the world. Oh, there's a cat rubbing up against his mic.

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Oh gosh. We gotta make sure not to edit that. Oh, we're not editing it never mind.

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I'm just putting the music, the intro and outro. Nice and yep. Aw. Okay, anyway, sorry scavenger hunt. Big list of stuff, and it could be items for you to find and take pictures of and submit, or it can be like things to do, uh, things like that. So we we try to get creative and get a good mix in there of so it's not just like you walking around around your house and taking pictures of crap that you see around your house. Like we want not saying your house is full of crap, but you know, uh, we want we want creativity, we want to encourage creativity and we want there to be a little bit of a challenge. So yeah.

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Like some of the things might require you to go see something special in your town or get out and do something. A popular place in your town, or yeah, you know, or just visit a library.

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And if you are actually unable to get out and do things, that's also where creativity can come into play.

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Yeah. You can um if there's a place that you would love to visit, but for one reason or another you can't, you could tell us about it if that fits one of the item descriptions.

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Yeah, I know in the past we've said like describe your dream vacation or something. And I I think that was one of the things. I don't remember.

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It's been a few bit. We've done five. This will be our fifth scavenger hunt, I think. Oh, don't leave, kitten. Yeah. April third. Oh, we only did one the first year. Wait, right? No, now I'm I don't remember. I don't remember either.

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No, this will be this will be our third. Yeah. Yeah, because the first year last year was the first time we did it. Last year in April was the first time we did it, and then we did one in October, and now it's April.

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I thought we did in October and then in April, then October, and then this is our fourth. Oh, okay. Yeah, you're we did start in October. We started in October with because that's our anniversary month.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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Anniversary of when we started the Patreon.

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Yeah. Oh my gosh, I can't make. Okay.

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Oh boy. I have a wonderful white kitten in my back. Yeah, he's cute.

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Very cute. I love him. Um anyway. So yeah, that's our scavenger hunt. And so how it works is when you uh purchase access to this scavenger hunt, we give you access to a Google Drive and create your own personal folder in that Google Drive. And that's where you submit all of your sort of proof, I guess.

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Yeah. Pictures or whatever, if you write something or whatever. Yeah. Um, it's worked out really well. And we love it, and it's very easy to use. And you we do point, it's a point system, so you can kind of oh yeah.

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It's not like you never have to get all these items. You you don't have to be the first to get all of the things. Uh you don't have to get the most things, but yeah, it's a it's a point system. It's really fun.

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Yeah. And then we have a really cool uh raven, a 3D printed raven statue that just came in the mail last week and it's on my shelf right now, and I want to keep it. It's very cool.

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Also, in April, we're not gonna do a 5k. No. Nope. No run. No run this time. We decided that I don't know.

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It's it was a it was a lot of work, um, and a lot of like the postage prices have gone stupidly insane.

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So and not a whole lot of people signed up. There was there didn't seem to be much interest.

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So yeah, it was fun. We tried it. It's okay. We made some donations off of it, but that's okay. We're also going to do um, so in our Patreon, uh, for our patrons, we run games throughout the throughout the every month. We have a rotating schedule of RPG games. Um, and in April, for the month of April, we are gonna open that up to the public. So if you're listening to this and you would like to play some games with us, we have like DD one-shots and we have some D6-based gaming one-shots. Um, and you want to try it out, we are gonna have that available um for free.

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For free.

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For you can just pop into our Patreon and there will be all the details there in April. And um, you can try it out and see if you like it. Yeah.

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It's gonna be a lot of fun. Come play with us. Play games with us. Play games with us. Okay. Um what else? What else? Oh, I am like determined to revamp the website by April and merch. Merch? Question mark, question mark, question mark. Gonna be some merch.

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I saw you working on some uh cobalt stuff.

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I did. For the logo might be a sticker in the works for our uh new podcast logo. It's gonna go on there. It's gonna be nice. I have already started making changes to the website. Um, but yeah, it's gonna uh it's gonna be refreshed because it's it needs to be refreshed.

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It's been a bit yeah. We've changed the names of the tiers. Yeah. We things just get away from us sometimes. Yeah.

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It's and like I remember the design I had in my mind for all of that, so hopefully I can conjure it up again.

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You have a vague, vivid memory?

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I have a vague, vivid idea. Awesome.

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Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool. Yeah. Uh okay, I think that's it for April. I think that's our April announcements. If you if we have anything else, it'll be on Patreon. Yeah.

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New podcast launching April 1st. Ah. Scavenger Hunt also launching April 1st. Ah. Uh RPG Games open to the public launching April. Wow. I've got we have all of our guest DMs have stepped up fantastically on our offer of games.

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Can I just give a shout out to our guest DMs? We have three. We have three. We have Steph, Nicole, and Ernie. Um, three completely different styles of gameplay. And uh you guys, I if you're listening to this, thank you. I know you do listen. Thank you so much. Yeah, you guys are awesome because like we get to run some games and also we get to play. Yeah, which is great. So great. Yeah, I like it is so we have so many offerings. Everybody gets to do something, um, you know, schedule-wise, because not everybody can do when we play or run a game. But um, yeah, shout out to our guest DMs. You guys are awesome and we love you.

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Yeah.

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Thank you, thank you, thank you for uh volunteering your time for us. We appreciate you guys so much.

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We're having so much fun in all of your games. We get to play.

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I know.

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It's great to play. I know.

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Also, I want to shout out to my play by post players. That's something New we just started doing. You guys are fun. This game's fun. I'm having fun with it.

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Now that's feeling a little clickish.

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Okay, no, I'm sorry.

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Well, it's because from Don't Do It's not in your play by post game.

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It's weird. Um it is really fun. And it's something that I've never um I've never ran a play-by-post game. And so I'm I'm like nervous to do it, but everybody seems to be having fun and is jumping in there. And it's it's fun. So I'm gonna do it again in the future.

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If you don't know what a play by post is, it's just all text. It's all text. Yeah, it happens in our Discord. There's a whole channel for it in our server.

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And uh yeah, it's it just runs like like today while I was at work, a whole bunch of stuff happened between the players, and then at lunch I was like, hey, here's all the here's what happened, you know, like get everybody caught up, and then some days it's quiet, some days it is you know more happening, but it's kind of just a player-paced game and it's really fun. It's something we definitely are gonna continue to offer to our patrons in the future.

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I would like to offer one.

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I want you to do Strahd as a play-by-post. Okay, I need to read it. We have time, I have to get through this one. So boy. But yeah, I think that's it. Do oh, we have one more shout-out. It's actually a lot of shout-outs. We're gonna do a patron shout-out. Yeah.

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Because we haven't done that in a while. We love our patrons.

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We love you guys.

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I need to find that tab of all the names. Found it. Found it.

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For some reason, it's like really tiny. Okay, here we go. Go ahead. Okay, um, I just have a huge list of names, and I'm just gonna go down there. I'm gonna say the first one is Kat M. Carrie D. Candice V.

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Shitra F. Amanda R. Sarah H. Amy K. Alessander B. Tom L. Mary Michelle, Sheila G. Jill S. Rob L. Alan H. Sue M.

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Katie F. Ernie H. Colleen H. No relation. Phyllis.

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Mandy Cat. Cat Cat.

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Catherine S. I almost said her last name. I'm so sorry. No.

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Uh Jennifer C. Jim, Jimmy, and Cohen. Hi. Uh sorry, that that high was specifically for Cohen. Yes. Cohen's the dog. Um, Julie R. Caitlin. Kimberly G. Lizzie. Faith L. Stacy B. Amy A. Kat P. Ray L. Brandy S. Joanne.

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Nicole B. Kate L. I'm gonna do these two together. Lori and Wheat. My parents.

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Hi, mom and dad. Uh, Louisa S. Robin B. Sarah S. Mo. Kimberly and Will. And Steph.

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Yay, we love you guys. Love you guys. Thank you for being awesome and supporting us on Patreon.

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If you want to join that list of names in the future, uh, and you're, you know, not already on it. Join our Patreon.

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Patreon.com slash Jeff Hids. Yes. Um we had uh I'm trying to look at my list of things. We actually like we don't usually do this on these random riff uh episodes. We don't plan out things, but we actually made a little bit of a.

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I mean, we had like the announcements, and I wanted to make sure we got everything in there. So I'm like, let's just bullet point it. We need to be able, like, we need to talk about these things.

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And we did. We did all of them. I know. I'm so proud of it. I think it went well. Good job.

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Yeah. We're done. We're not done yet.

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Okay, I know. But hey, we did our Patreon Patreon shout-outs. We seriously love you guys. Yeah. So much. For reals. Like for reels, though. For reals. For real. So much. For reals. Hey. Hey. I feel like there wasn't a name on there. Hold up. Did I leave off a name? I don't know.

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Alan's not on there. Yeah, I said Alan. Uh right here. Wow.

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Totally missed that. Sorry. Get a double shout-out because my brain just went, didn't hear that name.

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Alan should feel complimented and a little bit not. That was just my brain. Double shout-out. Oh, didn't hear me. Okay.

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Alan shouldn't feel bad. You should feel bad that I didn't hear you. You should be mad at me. I mean, that's not new, though.

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Ouch.

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Sometimes I talk and you don't listen. I'm kidding.

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Blame it on the ADHD baby.

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Blame it on my ADD baby.

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Sale. I love that song. Me too. It came on randomly the other day on a YouTube playlist, and I was like, I haven't heard this song. I love it.

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Yeah.

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Anyway. What's next on our list? I haven't heard the song in a while. Long time.

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Yeah. Yeah. It's all just been stray kids and X Love. Yeah. ETs. X Love.

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Yeah. Anyway, what's next? What's next on our list? More members. No, wait. You skipped.

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We have uh more exclamation marks.

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No, we're down here. We've just did this part. We're here now.

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Oh. Oh, sorry. I was just I was reading that. I didn't skip. I went back. The patron shout-outs fall under the warm embers category. We need to get better organizing.

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Oh my god. I struggled to follow uh directions. That was always a thing that got set home in school. I'm good at following the same thing. It's difficult to following directions. Well, it's mostly because I didn't hear them because I was reading.

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Yeah. Anyway. So a couple weeks ago we sent out an email and uh I'll call in our Discord and on Patreon asking for uh questions for us or for warm embers that you wanted to share. Which I forgot to look up on Discord because we did have some responses there. I can go and uh we of also offered to give shout-outs from you, our listeners, to other listeners. Uh we're gonna start. Are you almost there? We're gonna start with the war members that were just gonna scroll back a little bit.

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Okay. Wait a minute. I'm in the wrong channel.

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I think it would be in one find it. It was in the announcements channel. Okay. Yeah, we got some responses on Discord.

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Yeah, we just had a few, and then there was one that isn't in the Discord but was told to us. Um and I'm gonna do that one for Phyllis, who had back surgery. Oh yeah. And last weekend logged 10,000 steps for the first time since her surgery. In a day. In a day. Yeah. So that is, and like Philip used to do like or Philip. Who's Phillip? Phyllis. Oh my gosh. Phyllis used to do several miles a day on a regular basis. Um, so coming back into that movement has been awesome for her, and that was a warm ember. Yeah. So shout out, Phyllis. Thank you. Yay, Phyllis, for sharing that. And uh thank you for being a part of our our Discord community. I also realized that I have scrolled back, but you have not, so I have to read Yeah, you have to read them all. Um Jenny says the warm ember for me this week is being able to take my dog for a walk at the park. We had a lovely day yesterday, not cold and no rain. They were able to get out and enjoy just meandering. Spring is coming, you guys.

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Yeah, the weather's getting nice. I mean, we've been nice here.

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Yeah. Like we did not get a winter, and I'm very upset about that.

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Yeah, I thought we had a cold snap coming in March, but I don't know.

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It was 80 something today. Yeah. Excuse me.

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Yeah, I mean it might still come in May or whatever, but yeah. I mean, I'm not no, okay. I'm not complaining because the weather has been nice. It has been really nice.

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Yeah. I just wanted more snow than like our four hours of snow that went away. I just I like it. Especially we don't have to do things in it. Um, Louisa says the warm ember for me this week is literally warmth. A couple of spring days and sighting of grass amid the snow that's still thawing. Yay! That's one of my favorite things. Yeah. It's just that the grass.

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You see the grass little yeah.

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And the like the little the little croces and the daffodils are always the first ones to kind of peek through. I don't know what a crocus is. Oh, it's a little purple flower. They're the first, they're the first spring flowers. Okay. My goodness.

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The first. The first. I believe you. I just don't think we have those around here, so you know.

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Yeah, you probably don't. They I don't think they're desert dwellers. Hmm. Anyway, um, Amy says, My warm ember is that we have an official completion date for the house we're having built, May 11th. My husband, dogs, and I finally get to put roots. Wait, finally get to put down roots again after all the upheaval of the last couple years, and that is awesome. That is so happy for you, Amy.

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Great warm ember, because also like Amy showing up in the Discord to share the warm ember with us. I know. We hadn't heard from Amy and her for maybe in a while.

SPEAKER_02

So it was just nice because of the whole house upheaval thing and moving uh I across the country a couple of times in the past couple years, it's just been a little chaos. So crazy.

SPEAKER_03

But like, congratulations, Amy.

SPEAKER_02

That is so awesome.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02

I just I'm happy for you. I've never had a house built, but moving houses and getting things ready to make your home livable is always just it's like it's stressful and then exciting, and then stressful and then exciting, and then you're just like, I just want, I just want to sit down and not look at boxes. Yeah. Or I don't want to pick any more paints out. Yeah. We just want it to be done now. So congratulations, Amy. Yeah. And that's that's the that's it. There are some more um somewhere down in this channel. But that was the one.

SPEAKER_03

I think those were the ones that yeah, those are the things.

SPEAKER_02

We have a warm embers channel in our Discord where people can just pop in and out um and ask for warm embers if you're having kind of a down day. You could go and be like, hey guys, send me some warm embers, and people jump in there and we'll post pictures or we'll just send little cute, cute little things that made them happy throughout the day. Um Susan posted that they got a a sword. Uh-huh. And I'm super jealous because Susan is taking sword fighting classes, and I'm jealous. And and she posted that she got a sword and I want one. I have some swords, but I want I want more. You can never have. There's no such thing as too many swords. More swords.

SPEAKER_03

More swords. Uh oh, that's gonna be a sticker someday. More swords.

SPEAKER_02

Do it. Do it. Do it, do it, do it. Do it, do it. And uh Jenny posted some succulents that she just got that I absolutely love. Oh, yeah, they were pretty. I love succulents. Yeah, I had a bunch of them, but um Sirin doesn't like succulents.

SPEAKER_03

I mean, the plumeria is still alive. That's not a succulent. It is not.

SPEAKER_02

It actually kind of is, though. It is a succulent.

SPEAKER_03

Oh my he's looking at me. Okay. He had like his eyes were all wide and his ears were kind of back a little bit. I just turned around and he was just like staring.

SPEAKER_02

He's like, I'm gonna go kill that plumeria now.

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What?

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Because you said you liked it.

SPEAKER_03

She can't hear me. Oh, right. Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_02

Um, doot do do do so fun. We did before we go into the question I'm gonna do, we did got one message from an anonymous listener who wanted us to uh anonymously shout out, and they wrote to my moonbeam, you are my warm ember every single day, which I think is just adorable.

SPEAKER_03

Love your sunshine. That's so cute. So yeah. Uh whoever Moonbeam is, I'm assuming you know who you are. I hope you're your sunshine had a message for you. If you don't know who you are, well, that's gonna be a weird message. Yeah, they're just gonna listen to the podcast and be like, well, cool. Nice, cool. I that was cute. And then and then poor sunshine is gonna be like, Did you get my message?

SPEAKER_01

I didn't hear it.

SPEAKER_03

Oh, do you call me? Have you listened to that episode yet? I don't know. Oh, it's gonna be awkward. Oh no, I'm kidding. I'm building all this up in my mind. I love it. I'm here for it. I know, but that that was a cute message. Thank you for giving that to us to today. I know, right now on this podcast. I think that'll be a fun, like it could be a fun thing to do in the future to have listeners give us shout-outs to other listeners.

SPEAKER_02

It's that way throwback to like, hey, I'm gonna call into the radio show and request a song. Yeah. Hi, this is for my special someone, you know who you are. And then you play like Richard Marks, Hungry Eyes.

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Okay.

SPEAKER_02

That song played on my YouTube like mix today, and I was like, I haven't heard this one in a while. All right. Sometimes YouTube's on point. Sometimes it's really wild. But yeah. Can we also talk about Richard Marks' hair? It was totally 80s mullet, like big poofy.

SPEAKER_03

Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_02

Wow, it was something.

SPEAKER_03

I can't conjure an image of that in my head right now. Is it just like the typical like tight perm poofy?

SPEAKER_02

Not tight perm. He had waves. He had some really like some waves. Wow. Okay. Yeah. Anyway, it was uh it was totally awkward.

SPEAKER_03

Okay, wow. Uh that was weird. Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_02

But yeah, so if you would like to do a shout-out, you can send us an email, jessinhids at gmail.com. Yeah. And we'll uh we'll do a shout-out. Yeah. I think that'd be fun. It would be super fun.

SPEAKER_03

Cake is I don't know. She huffed at us. She's so upset. Okay, questions? Questions? Question mark? Um, we did get two questions. Submit questions for us, but they're also questions that we're probably gonna talk a lot about. Yeah. So the first one is from Steph. Uh, what are your top three songs that put you in a good mood? I don't like picking just three.

SPEAKER_02

Narrow it down, right? Narrow it down to three it really depends on the mood I'm in. Yeah. And the mood I want to be in. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

Because like sometimes I can listen to like happy poppy k-pop. And that puts me in a good mood. But other times it's like emo goth punk.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah. Which is some weird little conglomeration. And sometimes it's like metal, you know? Okay. All right. Really, we're gonna do we're gonna do a quick fire. Top three K-pop songs. Oh shoot.

SPEAKER_03

I can't quick fire that either. Um, okay. Um my gosh, what's it called? The energy song. Give me energy. Energy. Um this isn't in order. It's uh it's X Love.

SPEAKER_02

Oh my gosh, why can't I name the I I know it, I can hear it in my head.

SPEAKER_03

Um one and only?

SPEAKER_02

Yes.

SPEAKER_03

Yes, that's what it's called. Okay. Uh by X Love. That one's great. And then um I love you. Top to cake. See, asking for my top three. There are only three K-pop bands that I listen to, and so under the name. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna do. That's what I was saying. Okay. So One and Only by X Love. Bouncy by ATs. Okay. And um, pick a straight kid song. Uh Get Cool. That one always puts me in a good mood. I like that. Yeah. It's not one of their well-known ones, apparently. I don't know. It's an older one. Yeah. I like it. I'm here for that. It's so cute. It is just a good song. Okay. Other genres. Oh man. Um I will always get happy when um Ready to Go by Panic at the Disco comes on.

SPEAKER_02

I was listening to Panic at the Disco today.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. That's a good one. And then um Time of Your Life by Green Day. I love that song. And that's just like the recent songs, but there's like a whole slew of like classic rock and all kinds of stuff that yeah, yep. Makes me happy.

SPEAKER_02

Jamie Bauer is releasing a new song tomorrow. Tomorrow.

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In an hour. In an hour.

SPEAKER_02

It's already be released on the East Coast. Yeah. Excuse me while I go to YouTube and look that up. Okay, no, what are yours? Oh. Oh, god, okay. Um the X-Love song, a love. I love that one. That one. What did what oh my gosh. One and only. One and only. Geez, I don't know why I can't get that name. I just call it the energy song. Give me energy. Um, I also love uh One of Love that they do. Oh, yeah, that's a good one. It's one of my favorites of theirs. Um, don't judge me, but I like Lucifer by AT. Okay, yeah, I like that one too. Um and there's a lot by ATs that I I know, I really do like a lot of ATs.

SPEAKER_03

Um their new one, adrenaline, is really good too.

SPEAKER_02

Yes. Strike hits.

SPEAKER_03

It's hard, isn't it?

SPEAKER_02

I think right now, recently, cinema is just kicking me. Cinema just hits every time. It hits every time, and it just I don't know. I just love it.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. Yeah. It's such a good one. Aww.

SPEAKER_02

Uh, other genres? Um uh obsessed with Youngblood lately. Right, yeah. And I know I'm late to the party of discovering him, but so is all of America.

SPEAKER_03

So I mean, yeah, I um every time I talk to somebody about it, like in my actual life, they're like, who? Who?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah. Um he's great. I love him. Um, I love that style of music, and he so he crosses genres on a lot of levels, and I just love it. Yeah. Um the other day, someone sent me uh a little clip of kids today, kids like listening to November Rain by Guns N' Roses. Oh boy. And they were like, wow, this is great. And I'm like, yes, I know it's great. Yeah, it's wonderful. Um, but they were talking like how the mood shifts and the the whole vibe of the song shifts. And I'm like, yeah, classic Guns N' Roses from the 80s is just fabulous. Yeah. Um and also like today, my chemical romance was playing. Aw, girl, you don't even know how much I love aha, okay? I love them. And I'm still, still mad at my sisters that they went to the aha concert and didn't take me. Rude. So rude. Wow. Also, they painted their shirts because it was the 80s. They painted like uh Norwegian stuff. And puff paints? No, just regular. Um I know, I was two. 90s, okay. Yeah. Um, they just did like stenciled like some Norwegian like hello or I don't know what it said on their shirts. And um the band like recognized and waved at them. They were just off. Yeah, this is really cool. So yeah. I'm super jealous. Yeah. But um I'd beat you. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know. What else?

SPEAKER_01

What else were you gonna ask me? Oh, that's wonderful.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah. Other songs, like I guess. Yeah. So like 15. Yeah. Which is nuts. Just for like the one music video. No, they won like I think they won like six for Take on Me. And they won a bunch for Hunting High and Low, too. Man. Yeah. I think it's like 15. 15 awards in like two years, which is great. Yeah. Um, oh, cake or do. You'll get you'll get a whiff. Uh what's the next question?

SPEAKER_03

Um I could talk about music all day. Music. So um the next question is also gonna take a while. It is. It's from Sarah.

SPEAKER_02

What D D classes, what D D classes would all your pets? Be.

SPEAKER_03

Only definite answer is cake. Paladin. Paladin for sure. For sure. And like if you don't know what that means, paladins are like the knights of the round table. They're always like valiant, just doing the right thing.

SPEAKER_02

Doing the right thing because it's the right thing to do. Not leaving their party behind, defend like stepping up, putting themselves in in harm's way to protect their party, and just being good. Just being good. And cake is just good. Cake is just good. She's just good. She's a good just doggo. She's asleep. Yeah. Finally. Stray is a little druid. I've decided that.

SPEAKER_03

Oh, interesting.

SPEAKER_02

Because Stray is named after a bard. I know. But she's a little druid. She was um sitting in the window when I got home and she was uh talking to the bird out there.

SPEAKER_03

She's going, Oh, so she can speak with animals. She can speak with animals. I just assume that all animals can communicate with each other.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, she definitely could. She was just chattering away to that little bird.

SPEAKER_03

She's also right here on the table. She's so cute. She's prowling, she's looking for food. Yeah. So okay. Okay, what about fighter?

SPEAKER_02

Fighter. But like, well, no. I like that was my first thing. And then I was like, but she doesn't really she so she's a torty and she looks like she would kill you. Yeah. But she won't. Like, even when she like, oh, I got your hand, I'm gonna bite it. She's like so gentle. Yeah. She she defies the typical torty attitude. And she's such a few. Except for her tail. Her tail will be. Yeah, her tail will whip you. A massive fighter. But the rest of her and her her personality, she's very cuddly. She loves to just snuggle and cuddle and be chill. Yeah. I would maybe cleric? She's not helpful. She's got healing cuddles. Aw, okay.

SPEAKER_03

Well, that works. Yeah. Well, no, I would say Kiercy's our cleric because she's always like checking up Kiercy.

SPEAKER_02

100% is the cleric. Yeah. Every night Kate comes in, like she goes back and forth between our bedrooms until we both like shut down and everything. And then she comes and gets on my bed, and Kiercy runs with her and jumps on the bed and then just mews encouragement for Kate to get up on the bed. And then she like, while Kate's like getting settled, Kiercy's like walking around her just mewwhew mew mew mew mew mew until Cake lays down, and then Kiersey lays down next to her, and it's the cutest thing.

SPEAKER_03

Kiercy tucks Cake into bed at night. So adorable.

SPEAKER_02

So cute.

SPEAKER_03

But yes, she is the cleric when I'm gonna be able to do that. I imagine that's cute. I one of these days you're gonna have to record it and send it to me.

SPEAKER_02

I know, it's just it's like always I've turned my light off and put my phone away, and then it happens. Yeah. But yeah, it's it's super adorable. Okay, so Cake's a paladin, Kiersey's the cleric, Stray's a druid, Tink. We might have to circle back to the. I could put Tink like in Druid.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. Uh trying to think of others.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, I don't hmm.

SPEAKER_03

We'll come yeah, if I I don't know, we'll come back to that one. Okay, Shen and Anigan. Let's talk about our little our little void cats. Anagan just likes to hide all day. He's a rogue. I think he's a rogue. A shy rogue. Yeah, because he moves around so quietly.

SPEAKER_02

And then he's gone. He is yeah, he's a rogue.

SPEAKER_03

He is a rogue.

SPEAKER_02

Which fits because the character he's named after is a rogue.

SPEAKER_03

Yep. Shen. Shen's just a little princess. I don't know. A sorcerer. Yeah. Both Shen and Tink can misty step. Oh. They just appear randomly.

SPEAKER_02

And then they will be gone and they'll be like three rooms away.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

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And you're like, how do you do that?

SPEAKER_03

Maybe Tink is a wizard.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, maybe.

SPEAKER_03

Just kind of like wants to snuggle up with a book, but can do some magic. I like it. Yeah. Yeah. I'm here for it. Yeah. And then Shen would be a sorcerer. Yeah. Wild magic sorcerer. Wild magic sorcerer.

SPEAKER_02

Also, like she is a princess. Like she definitely came from the noble roots and had the money and everything and just is like, do my bidding for me, please.

SPEAKER_01

And thank you. Yes.

SPEAKER_03

Okay. Can you see how delicate I am? I cannot do this for myself. Human. Get my food.

SPEAKER_02

My gosh, yes. Which leaves us uh Jedin. I mean Ziren.

SPEAKER_03

Who is Ziren, who most definitely should have been named Jeddin. He's just the big bad. He's the lunch of the party. I cannot think of a class that he would be in. Barbarian? Fighter? Like, I don't know, because he's not like he's only aggressive occasionally. And it's mostly just like intimidation. So he's like he uh he is a fluffy bear that just rolled really high on intimidation. Yeah. He's got no other skills. He's got intimidation and charisma. Which is annoying. Oh, does that mean he's like a bard?

SPEAKER_02

No.

SPEAKER_03

No. No, he's just a very charismatic lich.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, he's he's the big bad of the group. Yeah. He really is. Yeah. And he's like, but he's so sweet. He's like the big bad that you just like, well, I mean, can we maybe we can we can change him? We can change him. He's the reluctant. He's the toxic big bad. Everybody falls in love with. Yeah. And he like really should be disciplined and reprimanded, but then he looks at you and makes little purr sounds and trills, and you're like, oh, that's so cute. He's fine. He won't murder anymore. And then he does. You're like, he's just misunderstood.

SPEAKER_03

I didn't love that mug. I guess it's a good thing.

SPEAKER_04

Oh my gosh, the mugs.

SPEAKER_03

We have lost a lot of mugs. And plants. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02

And other things. Anyway. But moving on.

SPEAKER_03

It's okay. We can change him. Holly needs his love and understanding. Um, what about Bowie? Bowie's my goldfish. Bowie is just Bowie's undead, I'm pretty sure. Shh.

SPEAKER_02

Bowie is the the the what's it called? The McGuffin? Bowie's the magical thing that everybody's looking for. He's the artifact.

SPEAKER_00

Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

I like it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

Bowie is the Bowie is also Chekhov's gun introduced in the beginning, and you don't really think anything of it, but you know it's gonna be a clue later, and like turns out it was all about Bowie. Yeah. In the end.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. Always is.

SPEAKER_03

That's our pets. Yeah, that I think that's everybody. We got all the cats. Yeah, I think Shen, Anagan, Tink, Stray, uh, Zeren, Kiersey, yeah, Cake, Bowie. That's it. We have a lot of pets. Wow. Eight.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, yeah. Eight. See, I forgot about Bowie, just right there. It's just yeah. It's his magic power. Yeah. You see nothing here. Yep. Pay no attention to the fish in the table.

SPEAKER_03

He's the game master.

SPEAKER_02

Yes. Oh, puppet master.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02

I heard Master of Puppets today too. That made me happy.

SPEAKER_03

Oh, that's a good one. Yeah. Anyway, what else are we doing?

SPEAKER_02

Those are questions. And I think like uh we have to drop this in like 40 minutes. So oh yeah. Um ish, ish.

SPEAKER_03

It's fine. So we can end the episode the same way we normally do with our warm embers.

SPEAKER_02

Our warm embers. Okay, I have two. Okay. Just popped in my head. Okay. I'm gonna have to make. Go ahead. We we mentioned it earlier, new dice. Oh, yeah. I got new dice. I have I used to buy a lot of dice. It was a problem. Uh-huh. And I didn't let myself buy dice, and then I bought new dice. And they're beautiful.

SPEAKER_03

We just found a really cute shop on Etsy that had all their dice on sale, 50% off.

SPEAKER_02

And then they've got liquid core sharp edge dice. So when they roll, they have little glittery centers that roll around and move, and it's beautiful.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. And they roll really well. I've been doing great. Yeah, mine roll well too. I didn't get the liquid core kind, but um, I still like them. Mine are like di the diamond cut kind. Yeah, they're a faceted. Yeah. They're really pretty. It's really cool.

SPEAKER_02

Um, and my other one is this beautiful little sign I'm gonna hang on the house this weekend.

SPEAKER_03

We finally got a street number for yeah.

SPEAKER_02

Well, we have had the number, but it's not been on our house. Yeah. Um, and it's uh it's a mid-century modern vibe. It's got the cat, the little atomic cat. Arching cat on it. And I love it. And it's red.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. Oh, it's not an arching cat. Sorry. It's the downward dog.

SPEAKER_02

Downward dog cat. It's a stretching cat. Yeah. Um, I absolutely love it. And I'm gonna hang it up on the house this weekend. Yeah, and I'm gonna repaint our mailbox and we're gonna put numbers on our mailbox again. I haven't haven't been there for a while. Yeah, they fell off. No problem. The mailbox got smacked and we had to put a new mailbox up.

SPEAKER_03

No, the the new one used to have numbers in it. Oh, wait, no. No, it never did. Never mind. Yeah. I was like, really? It did. I don't know. Whatever. I have a vague, vivid, fake, vivid memory of letters.

SPEAKER_02

No, no, no letters on that mailbox, but you have a vague memory of letters, apparently. What are your warm embers? That's that's me. That's my warm embers.

SPEAKER_03

Okay. My my warm ember is gonna oh it's gonna start with a sort of sad story. But um Shen, the little princess sorcerer cat, the other day really, really freaked us out because she had a seizure.

SPEAKER_02

It was so sad.

SPEAKER_03

It was a grandma's seizure, like her whole body was seizing up, and it was very scary for 30 seconds until we were able to like like not we were able to calm her down, it was a seizure. You can't, yeah. Um, but yeah, she it lasted for about 30 seconds, and it was really scary. Very, yeah. And it's still scary because we have to monitor her now and like keep track of if it happens again, when it happens again, and if there are any warning signs and stuff like that. But um, my war member since that happened has just been all the pets, all the cats. Yeah, and like Shen, I just I love her so much. And yeah.

SPEAKER_02

She was my sweet girl. She is, and she oh, she adores you. And I'm gonna tag on this war member because like in the past couple weeks, Shen has been like really. She's been affectionate towards you too, yeah. Which is like, oh my gosh. Yeah, it's like she likes me. Finally, finally warmed up to you. How many years? Um But yeah, she's always been like your cat. Yeah, like she has just been yours and tolerates me, but she's been like really sweet recently, and I'm I'm I'm here for it. And then when she changes her mind and doesn't like me anymore, I'll just cherish these moments.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02

I love that.

SPEAKER_03

So that's my war member, and we just like spent a ton of time talking about all of our pets, so but they're they're always my war member. They are.

SPEAKER_02

I'd love, I say it like regularly. I just love our little our little conglomeration of animals here.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, it's a lot of fun.

SPEAKER_02

Even our little bad boy who's glaring at Stray right now.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

And Stray's just sniffing cake's head. She's so weird.

SPEAKER_04

Okay.

SPEAKER_02

She's weird. But we love him. Yeah. I think that's all for this episode.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. So um, thank you so much for listening. And um what else? Uh blah blah. Follow us. I I'm forgetting all the usual the plug. Um exciting stuff happening in April. Be sure to join our newsletter. Uh, sign up for our newsletter on our website. Uh, join our Discord, which you can always find the link to on our Patreon page, patreon.com slash Jess and Hids. You can find it if you scroll to the the weekly sort of calendar schedule post that I put up every week. It's never too far down the the feed on our Patreon page. So super easy to find. And um I don't know what's happening over there.

SPEAKER_02

I don't know. I keep hearing something. Yeah, something's happening in the other room.

SPEAKER_03

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