Tough Love with Lucy Char Tay
Welcome to "Tough Love with Lucy Char Tay" – the podcast where you get the truth you need to hear, without the sugar-coating. Life can be messy, but we hold the power to shape our emotions, our mindset, and the seasons we go through. Each week, Lucy dives deep into topics like insecurity, jealousy, and self-doubt, sharing her raw, real experiences of transformation from fear and doubt to confidence and clarity. This isn’t about quick fixes or fluff – it’s about embracing the hard truths, owning your choices, and taking control of your life. If you’re ready to ditch the excuses, confront what’s holding you back, and finally step into your worth, this podcast is your no-BS guide to doing just that. Buckle up for some tough love – it’s time to transform.
Tune in every week and take charge of your life.
Tough Love with Lucy Char Tay
027. Stop faking confidence
You look confident… but do you feel it?
This episode is for the girl who’s showing up online, posting the Reels, hyping herself in stories — but behind the scenes, she’s cringing, second-guessing everything, and relying on praise to feel enough.
I’ve been her. And I’m calling her out — with love.
In this episode, we’re exposing performative confidence for what it is: survival mode in a sparkly dress. I’m diving into how to spot when you’re faking it, why it’s burning you out, and exactly how to start building real, grounded confidence that doesn’t need to be loud, perfect, or praised to exist.
Get ready for some tough love, tangible steps, and a reminder that true confidence isn’t a mask — it’s self-trust.
It’s time to stop pretending and start becoming.