Tough Love with Lucy Char Tay
Welcome to "Tough Love with Lucy Char Tay" – the podcast where you get the truth you need to hear, without the sugar-coating. Life can be messy, but we hold the power to shape our emotions, our mindset, and the seasons we go through. Each week, Lucy dives deep into topics like insecurity, jealousy, and self-doubt, sharing her raw, real experiences of transformation from fear and doubt to confidence and clarity. This isn’t about quick fixes or fluff – it’s about embracing the hard truths, owning your choices, and taking control of your life. If you’re ready to ditch the excuses, confront what’s holding you back, and finally step into your worth, this podcast is your no-BS guide to doing just that. Buckle up for some tough love – it’s time to transform.
Tune in every week and take charge of your life.
Tough Love with Lucy Char Tay
033. Fall faster, learn quicker
Most people are waiting for confidence to show up before they take the leap… but the truth? Confidence doesn’t come before the fall — it comes after the recovery.
In this episode, I’m diving headfirst into why failure is not the enemy — hesitation is. If you’re constantly second-guessing yourself, playing it safe, or waiting for the “perfect time”… this is your wake-up call.
We’ll talk about:
- Why falling faster actually speeds up your growth
- How trying to avoid failure is keeping you stuck
- The difference between surviving and learning
- Real-life stories (mine included) of falling flat — and getting back up stronger
- Tangible steps to rewire how you think about setbacks
Because growth doesn’t live in perfection — it lives in motion. And if you want to become unstoppable, you’ve got to stop fearing the fall.
This one’s for the girl who’s tired of waiting and ready to start doing.
Let’s get uncomfortable. Let’s get better. And let’s fall a hell of a lot faster.