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Hard Wig, Soft Life Podcast
Hard Wig, Soft Life is a space for the women who know what it’s like to carry a little too much but still show up anyway. It’s for the ones who’ve had to make life work—even when their hair wasn’t done, the money wasn’t right, and life felt like it was happening to them instead of for them.
I’m Melissa, and this podcast is a lot like a late-night phone call with your best friend—honest, unfiltered, and full of those “girl, same” moments. I’ll share the stories I’ve carried—navigating my 30s, surviving hard seasons, leaving toxic relationships, and learning (the messy way) how to build a life I love.
This isn’t about being perfect or pretending we’ve got it all figured out. It’s about creating space for softness—because if we’ve learned anything, it’s that life isn’t always easy, but we’re in this together.
Come hang out with me every other week as we laugh, cry, and figure out what it means to live life on our own terms—one episode, one wig, one moment of growth at a time.
Hard Wig, Soft Life Podcast
Episode 2: Surviving The System, A Conversation With Ricky Lane
In this powerful and eye-opening episode of Hard Wig, Soft Life, I sit down with Ricky Lane, who courageously shares his story of navigating life during and after incarceration. From missing out on his 20s to being released in 2020 during a global pandemic, Ricky reflects on the challenges of rebuilding his life and reclaiming his future.
We discuss the friendships he formed in the most unlikely circumstances, the emotional toll of being away from loved ones, and how he coped with FOMO (fear of missing out) while the world moved on without him. Ricky also sheds light on the flaws in the justice system and the resilience it takes to thrive despite them.
I’m honored Ricky trusted me to help tell his story, and I know his journey will inspire and challenge you to think differently about survival, growth, and second chances.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
- Ricky’s reflections on losing a decade of his life and adjusting to the world after release.
- The unexpected relationships and lessons he learned while incarcerated.
- The flaws in the justice system that make survival so challenging.
- Ricky’s advice for anyone facing seemingly insurmountable setbacks.
Links Mentioned in This Episode:
- Hardwigsoftlifepodcast.com
- Follow Ricky Lane (@rickylaneofficial)
Connect With Us:
- Follow Melissa on Instagram: @melissalaboriel
- Share your thoughts on this episode by tagging us or leaving a comment @hardwigsoftlifepodcast
Next Episode:
Melissa takes a step back from the heavy topics with a more fun and lighthearted conversation. Be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss it!