
Hard Wig, Soft Life Podcast
Hard Wig, Soft Life is a space for the women who know what it’s like to carry a little too much but still show up anyway. It’s for the ones who’ve had to make life work—even when their hair wasn’t done, the money wasn’t right, and life felt like it was happening to them instead of for them.
I’m Melissa, and this podcast is a lot like a late-night phone call with your best friend—honest, unfiltered, and full of those “girl, same” moments. I’ll share the stories I’ve carried—navigating my 30s, surviving hard seasons, leaving toxic relationships, and learning (the messy way) how to build a life I love.
This isn’t about being perfect or pretending we’ve got it all figured out. It’s about creating space for softness—because if we’ve learned anything, it’s that life isn’t always easy, but we’re in this together.
Come hang out with me every other week as we laugh, cry, and figure out what it means to live life on our own terms—one episode, one wig, one moment of growth at a time.
Hard Wig, Soft Life Podcast
Episode 3: Renegotiating the Price; The Real Cost of Growth
"Renegotiating the Price: The Real Cost of Growth"
Growth isn’t cheap—it’ll cost you your time, energy, and even relationships. In this episode, I’m unpacking what it means to set your price, protect your peace, and align with the life you deserve. Inspired by Jay-Z’s 4:44 and my dad’s timeless wisdom, we’re diving into the layers of growth, from letting go of stagnant relationships to recalibrating your mindset.
Tune in as I share personal stories about navigating friendships, the emotional toll of leveling up, and how setting boundaries has shifted everything for me. Plus, I’ll challenge you to think about where in your life you might need to renegotiate.
💡 Key takeaways: Growth isn’t always glamorous, but it’s always worth it.