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Ep 27 - Foreplay as a Lifestyle: Beyond the Bedroom
Episode Summary:
We’re diving into the idea of making foreplay a lifestyle, not just something that happens right before sex, while sharing our unfiltered thoughts on celebrity crushes and intimate routines.
💋 Foreplay as a Lifestyle – It’s about creating moments of connection and anticipation all day long.
🕯 Setting the Mood – Lighting, cleanliness, and a cozy atmosphere can totally transform the vibe.
🛁 Self-Care & Confidence – Taking relaxing baths or rocking those outfits that make you feel amazing totally enhances desire.
🗣 Communication is Key – Talking about your fantasies and desires makes foreplay last way beyond the physical.
✈️ Vacation Sex – It’s always better because the distractions and responsibilities are on pause!
💏 Small Gestures – Lingering kisses, intense eye contact, and sexy texts all build that tension and desire.
⏳ Slow Down & Savor – Taking your time creates deeper connections and way more satisfying experiences.
💖 Celebrity Crushes – They can tell us a lot about what we’re really drawn to in a partner, beyond just looks.
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okay, recording, recording, and we're recording, and we're here. Max moseley podcast, because apparently I've never been on live television. I'm gonna be in for halloween one year. Oh my god, can you imagine in the? I need to know what he looks like now. I mean, how many years ago was that? That was a long time ago, five, no Longer, like 10. He's like a teenager. No, yes, okay, okay, I'm going to look it up. Who is it? The guy from the? Apparently Ellen DeGeneres, apparently kid. Yeah, because he was just kind of like a chubby little white kid. Oh my god, the funniest, freaking thing ever. Alright, how old is he now? Let's see him. Our producer's got it up for us. This is what he looks like now. Let's see him. Oh my god, he looks exactly the same. Oh my God, that's hilarious With the red hair. Yeah, yeah, that's funny. Everyone look him up. Ellen DeGeneres, apparently kid. We're going to post them too. God, I love that kid, I love him, I love him. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1:Okay, so here we are, we're on our podcast. We didn didn't introduce ourselves, but if you're listening, you should probably know who we are. All right, welcome to maximalist life. I'm your host, brianna, and I'm tamika.
Speaker 1:Um, one little question that we were gonna say today is uh, what, what's a? Uh, celebrity? What does, okay, I guess there? Like two, it's like a two-parter Okay, that's fair. Like, what's a celebrity that, like, most people think is hot? Or they're kind of like, oh, it's like a hot celebrity, but you're kind of like I don't think so, I don't see it. Okay, or or not, or, but and who is like a male celebrity that most people don't think is hot, but you think that they're attractive? Okay, so more like, who's my celebrity crush? Both times, but one of them might be kind of weird, yeah, yeah, no, the other one wouldn't be your celebrity crush, it's the one that you're like.
Speaker 1:I don't know why people think this guy's hot. I don't know. I think people are like, oh, he's so hot. I mean, I feel like a lot of people really like Ryan Reynolds, which I think he has a big forehead and he's not that funny. Yeah, and he's so basic. Yeah, he's just like, okay, yeah, and I don't know why, over time his voice has become like nails on a chalkboard to me. He's really on my nerves for some reason, maybe because he's married to Blake Lively. Yeah, that could be it. Yeah, I mean here's the thing with all those kind of like white guys. They all just kind of look the same. Not that I don't enjoy looking at them.
Speaker 1:Yeah, like I really love, uh, chris evans, but I mean he could just be anyone. But I just, I mean, my thing is I always tell people I like characters, oh yeah, so like I fall in love with these characters, like I love him as Captain America, like that's what I think is hot about him, like he's Captain America, I see. So I think, okay, cute, I really like that. But day to day, chris Evans, you're like meh, I would think that Chris Evans, when he's sleeping with me, he wants to talk about how he's going to like do better in the world and how we're going to save society. And I'm just like I mean, can you just fuck me harder? But like no, he wants to be this gentle giant and he just wants to like save the world. I'm like, okay, fine, fine, grandpa, because he is a hundred years old, you know as the. So it's like all right, grandpa, fine, you can just make love to me tonight again for the 15th time, you know, in a row. So yeah, I mean I I think that I really like characters more than I like than actual actors. I can see that it makes sense.
Speaker 1:It's like when you read a book, you fall in love with these characters and their personality, and it's like the same thing for me too, I think, because really I don't know any of these fucking guys. Yeah, yeah, so it's like, okay, this is really. Yeah, it's totally based off purely looks, because who knows what their personality is really like? Yeah, yeah, I think that I mean, and this is kind of maybe like getting up in a little bit in age, like, actually, I don't know how old this guy is at all. Okay, I think this guy is a lot of guys like male celebrity crush and I don't understand why.
Speaker 1:Okay, fucking Keanu Reeves. Oh, well, here's the thing. Wait, you like him or you don't like him. I don't like him, okay, yeah, I mean, he's going to be really big with the Asian community. So, like, all of us like him because he's half Asian and so that was like a big part of when he was younger too. Like, like a big part of when he was younger too, like he was one of these guys that wasn't just like this white guy. He was actually something for us to like feel a little bit like he's something you know, and so I mean we all talk about how we fucking love him, but it's not necessary. I think that's the guy that we like him.
Speaker 1:As a guy, he yeah, not in the culture, he's like hawaiian. I think he can speak filipino, all these things. Like we love him. Like I see all these clips of him. He's on the subway now and he has a lot of money and he gets up for women and pregnant women and like you see him like riding the subway and he's made $250 million off.
Speaker 1:You know Matrix and I think that is a guy that people feel like, oh, he's cute because he has a good personality. Yeah, I guess, right. Yeah, I mean, I think he's a good guy. Yeah, more just like looks wise. I'm like, yeah, yeah, he's like. Oh, he's so hot. I'm like, really, he's so regular. I think he's just cute. But you know what's so funny about me saying that is, I find the most regular people to be attractive. Yeah, like my celebrity crush is glenn powell. How fucking more basic can you get? I mean, it could just be another blank white man's face. Yeah, yeah, just like any other white man hot, but do you think it's because you find him hot in like the wardrobe? Yeah, probably in the in the movies. Yeah, I love him in twister.
Speaker 1:I don't know what that movie is what? Yeah, I never even think. I've heard of it. Oh, my God, yeah, it takes place in Oklahoma, of course, and they got, you know, they got a little Twister's going on. Oh, I do, I do, it's like the remake of Twister. Okay, yes, yes, it's a new version. So I never even heard that they remade this or whatever. Yeah, I think it's a pretty good, but I liked it.
Speaker 1:Um, glenn powell and, uh, we call it hidden mothers, but it's called hidden figures with the black lady. My dad always does it. Oh, the hidden mothers, you know, that's what he always says. Uh, because, about those women, I liked him. He was the astronaut in that one and I thought he was cute and he went and he, uh, he, like, the whole story was that he said hello to the black women that worked at nasa when no one else wanted them to go, and so I'm like, oh, I like touched my heart.
Speaker 1:So maybe, yeah, I don't know, maybe it is characters for me too. I don't know. I think so, because how could we? We don't know these people. I mean, I guess keanu reeves, you hear these stories right also too, like I mean, yeah, I liked him since speed, he was cute in Speed or whatever. But, yeah, besides, if you, I mean, tell me some stories about Glenn Powell that you know, yeah, nothing, right, no, I just only like what he looks like. I don't give a fuck what his personality is, so then that has to be that you like his characters in the movie. Oh, yeah, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I think that I would say my top so this is kind of silly. Okay, let's hear it my top celebrity crush.
Speaker 1:This is such like a D-list celebrity, first of all, uh-oh, but I think he is so attractive and he's really not traditionally attractive, okay, but it's like his personality I really like. Yeah, from Catfish, the TV show, neve, you like him. I love Neve, although Neve kind of looks like your ex-boyfriend. What, anthony? What? He reminds me of him. He's like petite. They have darker hair.
Speaker 1:No, neve is so tall, though at least I thought he was little. No, he's not little. Are you sure he's little? Are you sure he's like? I think he's like like thinner. Yeah, I thought he was short. No, he's not short. How tall is he? Wait, are we looking at a catfish?
Speaker 1:He's this main character. He's the main guy, yeah. And then there's Max. Oh, he's 6'1". Yeah, I thought he was short for some reason. No, I mean, he's thinner, he Skinny, he's pretty skinny. Yeah, he got no muscle, yeah.
Speaker 1:So I guess it kind of reminds me of the same as Anthony a little bit. He has, like, darker features, slimmer face. You know that whole thing. Yeah, I don't know what it is. And he's just, I don't know what his like background, like his ethnicity, I don't really know. Is he jewish? Oh, maybe, maybe he has a huge dick, huge jewish, russian, jewish and russian. Yeah, I don't know. And it's just. Also, it's for sure, his personality. I just love his personality. You just like it. That's like I really love him.
Speaker 1:But it's funny too that you're thinking of a guy like is on a reality show that you actually get to see their personality. It is him. Yeah, it's really him. It's not a character. Yeah, I just really, really like him. I just and you know what it is about him. It's like I mean, he is a nice guy, but what I really like, like about him is. He's such a great communicator and he knows how to connect with people and like diffuse situations and things and I'm like that would be such a great person to be in a relationship with. Yeah, so, but it is, I don't know. It makes me think he's hot, but I know he's like, not hot, you know. I mean, why can't he be hot in that way? Just because he's not like, you know, like to me, I'm like, yeah, I would, I would totally bang me, yeah for sure. So those are mine, those are mine, those are yours.
Speaker 1:Glenn Powell and Neve from Catfish yeah, I mean, I think my celebrity crush would be Michael B Jordan, probably. I just thought he was so hot in Creed, his body was so fucking nice in Creed. Yeah, he just had them fucking wide-ass shoulders, his back was hella nice and like he worked out so hard for that movie, I really liked the way he looked. So he does it for me with the smile oh, just that million dollar smile. Good teeth, like just everything. That's right here. The jawline yeah, all of that part.
Speaker 1:It's funny because my family hates on him so much. They hate him like they hate on him in the marvel movies and I'm like I really like him. Leave him alone. That's my favorite. Yeah, you know, that's your. My family is just like come on, you can't do better, you can't like him. Yeah, you're not even allowed to like him. So I'm like, okay, well, that is so funny.
Speaker 1:And I think, you know, I have a couple weird like I think are cute, like I think that timothy chalamet I know that's not how you say it, but Chamelet, you know you just say whatever comes out of your mouth, quick. You know, I think he's so cute in his little Dune Dune movie. In Dune he's such a good actor and I just think he's so cute. But traditionally looking he's a little different looking, the little wacky hair and he's kind of got a big head, really thin, you know, and you don't really you don't usually like guys that are like thin, it's not really normally your thing, although drew was really skinny in high school and stuff. Yeah, yeah I mean. But so him, and then even you know it's funny because both of them and then adam driver I think is kind of hot, but also because he played in star wars and I like that character, oh my god, and he just is like this weird, like kind of hard, kind of like, just like, has this mysterious thing about him? Because he's kind of weird, you know. Yeah, so I can't with that long nose. Yeah, I know that's weird, yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1:So, talking, we on our last like kind of sexy episode Well, actually, on the last few that we talked about little spicy ones, we have talked about like, we tapped into like foreplay stuff, but then, like we were saying, how can you like, can you just make foreplay a whole lifestyle? We were saying, how can you like, can you just make foreplay a whole lifestyle? Like, how can you weave it into more of your life to make your sex life more enjoyable, without it just being this action that happens right before you have sex? Mm-hmm, you know, houseplay, like you do your chores together? Yeah, yeah, you know, yeah, yeah, I mean there's so many ways to incorporate it and and just like teasing and like, like bringing the sensuality of that, the idea of that, into like leading up to it. Where you could, you could be doing that the whole day leading up to having sex, whether you're like texting, sexting, you're like flirting, yeah, whatever it is.
Speaker 1:I, uh, I was working out with drew the other day. I know that he likes when I work out, not because he thinks I'm ugly or whatever, he thinks that it's really good for me and he just like, likes to train me or whatever. And so I was training with him and he just looks at me and he goes I'm gonna fuck you in here one day. Oh, just came out like he he's not usually that like, you know, kind of like, and I think he saw me and I was like bent over doing like flies or whatever, and he was just like, yeah, I'm probably just gonna fuck you in here. And I'm like, had we probably been alone in the garage, you know, in the house and the garage door was down, and maybe if I wasn't like I mean I don't really sweat when I work out anyways but he might just fuck me right there and then you never know, yeah, if we just didn't have anyone in the house, maybe. Oh my God, so working out is your foreplay. Apparently for Drew, he liked that one.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean really, it's like anything that can build anticipation, yeah, anything that's like pleasurable, it like creates more of a connection, that could be foreplay. It doesn't have to just be like oral. Yeah, I think too like a lot of people talk about aftercare. You know I like to. I think what turns me on and what could be foreplay for some people is, like, before the act, you know, taking care of me.
Speaker 1:Before the act, I think, giving me the time and the space to like take a shower and to, like, you know, feed me. You know, like, whatever it is, like, you know whether it's like at home dinner I didn't have to think about it, or are you taking on a day or whatever, like, I think all those like for me it's like before after. I don't really need you for me, I don't really need you to do anything for me. But before I go, what are you gonna do? Brush my teeth after? I gotta do that myself. Yeah, like, I mean, I guess you just want to do some like heavy petting with me after or whatever. I just need you to do a little cuddle, you know, after. That's like my aftercare that I need. But before, before, I think I it would be nice like candles lit or the house is clean, or you know all that stuff. I think that that's really letting your mind get in the mood, for sure, and I I touched on this on one of our episodes when we were talking about like our best sex experiences.
Speaker 1:And actually, yeah, the one that I talked about, yeah, the guy he did, he like I showed up at his house and it was just like completely like clean, had candles everywhere. He was like cooking me dinner, listening to like music, all this stuff. That, yeah, that definitely added to the experience and made the sex so much better than had I just like shown up and it just went straight into it. Yeah, I think too. I mean think about when you I mean I don't know if this is true for everyone, but I'm sure this is true for some and it's true for me it's like when we're on vacation or we're like staying in a hotel or whatever, just to get away or whatever, the sex comes at more of an ease.
Speaker 1:Like you don't have the stress of home and taking care and all this stuff. You're just in a nice hotel or a nice Airbnb and you get to just kind of like it's a little freeing, a little bit right, it's just you and them, that's it. And it's like, okay, I'm prepared for this. Yeah, you know. Yeah, there's not like you don't have like dishes in the sink laundry to put away. There's not like all these little reminders of like real life, yeah, or like that you got to take care of everything. You know it's stressing you out the way that sometimes it does when you're like at home, um, yeah, so I mean it could be something physical, emotional, mental, uh whatever.
Speaker 1:And so I think, like trying to make foreplay into a lifestyle, yeah, it could be with your partner, for sure. Um, like we were saying, like texting or doing some type of like teasing with them throughout the day, or even just like talking about what you want to do later. Uh, a little bit of sexting, I think is fun. Yeah, like talk about fantasies, um, or even just like, even it could just be so simple, like maybe you just like kiss them or something as you're, but it's kind of like a slower like, maybe it's like a slower kiss. You kind of like let things linger a little bit longer to let your mind wander more, to like what is to come. And I don't know that could be. That could be fun.
Speaker 1:I know the nights, that I well. I guess it would be like the evenings, the early evenings, when I can tell when Drew wants to have sex. He is a little bit more touchy, he lingers a little bit more in my space and I'm like do you want something? You know, even though I'm always open for it, but I'm like you're trying to do me tonight or something. What are you trying to do here? I know what you're trying to do here, you know, and so I think those are good, you know, and I think I talk about it, about my husband doing it, but I, I think we have to be, as women, open to like doing the foreplay too. Yeah for sure, until like ease the stress off them, you know. Oh, yeah too. Yeah, I totally agree.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I can't just be always about us, as much as we want it to be. Yeah, I want it to be, but it can't be always about me, you know, and it could just be stuff too, like maybe the floor, floor, floor plate isn't necessarily about like something that you are only doing with your partner, but maybe it's just yourself, like maybe you just take like a really relaxing like bath before and you're like I'm gonna like, or even just like getting yourself I don't want to say like ready, but like maybe you just like spend a little bit more time on yourself, whether that is like a bath, or you're using like really good moisturizer, or you're doing all these like little like I'm gonna wear my good perfume and I'm yeah, and it just kind of like makes you feel more desirable, leading up to whatever's gonna happen too. So it could just be stuff that you're doing for yourself, um, and then, obviously, things in your house too, like we said, the lighting like create, just like creating some type of mood that like gets you in the mindset and already like ready for whatever it is you guys are sexting about so you're not stressed, like you're feeling good. And then you're also like I'm using this shampoo and it smells good or whatever. Say like that, or putting perfume on, but then your husband also like smells it and it's a little bit of like foreplay for them too. Okay, what's she trying to do over here? Yeah, uh-huh, this is so okay, this is just so random, okay. I just it has nothing to do with this, but I just thought of it because you're saying, like shampooing your hair.
Speaker 1:So I was reading a thing about, um, people it was like a thread people were talking about like romanticizing their life. I don't I might have already told you this, but this girl, she said she sometimes, when she takes showers, she just takes showers in the dark, like she'll have all the lights off in her bathroom, and she takes showers in the dark and puts the water like a little bit colder and then she just pictures herself being a little like a wood, like a little woodsy fairy. She's just taking a shower in like a tree. That's what she said. Yeah, she's like it's just like the rain is coming on me. I'm like a little fairy in the woods and that's how she like romanticizes her, like her week sometimes. That's how she takes a shower.
Speaker 1:Let me tell you something I want my water boiling hot, me too. I like it to burn my skin off. Drew wants to die. He always turns it down and because we take a shower together every night, like that's just of course you do, I mean most of my I I asked a lot of my couple friends say most everyone takes a shower together. Really, yeah, I hate that. Yeah, I don't want to do that. Yeah, it's like I don't know, I just like I like it. Drew's like okay, you ready for the shower and I'm like, yeah, I'm ready.
Speaker 1:So what would piss me off is, first of all, I don't want to be, you know, one person's in the water, one person's kind of out of the water a little bit. You can't really both be in the water at the same fucking time. So one person's cold in those showers, one person's hot which you know, yeah, of course, which of course I don't and then if they're like taller than you, like I feel like sometimes because, like I'm not trying to get my hair wet depending on what type of shower we're talking about, yeah, and then it's like, so I got my hair, maybe it's like clipped up or whatever I'm trying to keep it mostly dry and then the water's like hitting off of their like shoulders or their back, because they're taller, and then it's just like spraying the water onto my hair, which fucking pisses me off and I'm just like you know, I gotta go. You know what the solution to that is and I think that it's better anyways is wearing a shower cap. I'm not doing that and I wear a shower cap and it is actually so much better, because even when I would take showers by myself and still my hair is getting a little bit wet, but now I wear that damn shower cap and I'm like this is so much better. Why wasn't I doing this all the fucking time? But that is what was happening. I didn't want the spray. I'm like you're all this spray's coming out like kind of come back a little bit. But now that I wear that little cute shower cap every time, I'm like this is so much better anyways, like I'm like can get my face fully in and can like get my back fully in without like having to worry about all that stuff. It's like so much fucking better anyways with the shower cap. So that was like that. I feel like that was a game changer as far as our showers, because it was just like spraying.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean, I can see a single shower doing that, and also maybe with your husband you've been with for 25 years. But I'm not taking a shower with no dude with a fucking shower cap on. Sorry, I'm not gonna look like a potato in the shower. I'm just like here I am and I'm just a little bit bald, like no, I'm not doing that. I would do it.
Speaker 1:I think that I think it's cute. I think especially like I got a cute one with like a little bow and that's just my personality anyways to be more cutesy. And so I'd be like, okay, I'm going to put my cute little shower cap on and I just, I don't know I I want the boys. They're so funny. Yeah, I don't know, I feel like I'm so not like. No, that's not me. Yeah, at all, I would be like so many more sexy. Yeah, it's not really my style. Yeah, yeah, I don't want or I just want to be like, or it's not even really this like sexy, like maybe it's still kind of cute, but it's more like girl next door cute, which I don't know. It's like I want to be like. Oh, I'm just so naturally beautiful. I don't know, I'm high maintenance. I got a lot going on. I'm wearing the shower cap. That's how we go. Yeah, you can't do that. Yeah, I can't be doing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1:There's just so many things like. There's so many things I mean okay, and you could just do stuff like, and some of the stuff I mean some of the stuff could be so silly. If you're not, if it's not in relation to like, doing stuff, like with a partner, and we're talking about some stuff like by yourself, the bath, whatever, but then even just like, maybe you just kind of like have this little altered ego and you're just kind of like this flirtier person in your day-to-day and not in a way that's like you're. You're trying to like start something with someone or flirt, but it's more just like you just have like this little pep in your step and you're a little like maybe you just get a little wink or you just do a little, just a little wink. Who knows? I feel like who knows, and my whole eyelash would get stuck together. You're just like not rushing, like you're not rushing through your day. You're just kind of like you're just a little bouncier during. Yeah, when the starbucks guy gives you your cup, you just go thank you, thank you. You're like staring his face and you're like thank you, have a good day.
Speaker 1:No, and now you know, at starbucks they draw this shit on your cup. You know, the other day they drew or they put a sticker like I've seen the sticker. I think this sticker is cheating. They're supposed to be drawing. I don't care. Yeah, no, I mean I don't care, but I'm saying that's the rules. They're supposed to be drawn. Yeah, sometimes I've seen a sticker.
Speaker 1:Someone drew this thing on my cup. The other day it was a full-blown like cartoon and masterpiece and they wrote all these words and I was like what the fuck does it say so? Cecily and I were trying to figure out. We finally figured out he drew this thing and it was like a sponge bob. No, I wish it was like a sponge bob.
Speaker 1:And then it said like something about like being a krabby patty and it was like this like, like he really is taking his job. He had like a spatula holding the krabby patty. He was like so nice, here's one krabby patty for you, or something like that. I was like, oh, my god, that god, that's so cool, that's so cute. He just took all his time and didn't do any actual work that day. He was just drawing. What a nice guy Should have kept it. And your drink wasn't correct either. It wasn't, it was just disgusting Because he was just drawing instead. He didn't have to. He's an artist. It was just milk, just hot milk. She'll forget, because I drew the scrappy patty and he wrote my name is brian. Oh, no, not the brian one. Yeah, but it's okay.
Speaker 1:I just think there's so many different things that you could do and I think, just like giving yourself these little opportunities, it's very similar to romanticizing your life. I think it's just like taking the time to slow down and make things more enjoyable and kind of like, give yourself, like, set the mood for things, and it puts you in a different headspace, and then I think it could make if, if you end up actually having sex that day, then it can make it so much more enjoyable and it's something that you then were looking forward to all day and almost kind of like working towards that. And then the build-up the build-up is almost better sometimes. Yeah, I think so too. I don't want to just go just like turn over and you just like touch me, and then we're just thrusting, shove it in. Yeah, I don't want it, I don't shove it in. Take your time a little bit. Yeah, I got my. I got my bonnet on.
Speaker 1:Okay, don't, what's it called your cap? This is your shower cap, your shower cap, yeah, yeah, your shower cap on. Yeah, mine has like a little bow and it's like polka dot. It's so cute. Oh my, I love it. Okay, so we'll be posting a photo of you with your shower cap. Yeah, I have one for everyone. And like drew worries about it too. He's like don't forget to put your shower cap on, babe. Like you, didn't he all step in? My hair's just like clipped up and you're like wait, don't wear your shirt cap, don't be raw talking in the shower. Yeah, you're gonna be mad that the water's spraying and stuff. Like put your shower cap on. What are you doing? Don't forget, put your cover. Yeah, come on. Oh, my god, that's hilarious.
Speaker 1:Well, let us know if you guys, uh, if you have any foreplay tips or is there anything that you specifically prefer? Yeah, you like fingering or like a pussy? Which one look in the clip? Which one do you like? Which kind of foreplay is your favorite? What's your favorite foreplay? Just let us know. Yeah, send us, send us a photo, a video, a voicemail, the video, whatever you of the sounds of your foreplay. We won't repost it, we'll just describe it. Yeah, give us like a novel, a descriptive novel about your favorite foreplay. Maybe it's something you have done or maybe it's something you want to do. Yeah, it's something. Give us some fun, spicy stories. Let it just break up our day, please, something. All right, send us these stories and any of your foreplay ideas to our instagram at maximalist life podcast and we will see you guys next time. Hope you're having fun. Tits up, dicks out.