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Maximalist Life
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Ep 36 - Why Sex Over 30 is Better
Episode Summary:
Sex after 30 just hits different. If you’ve lived through your 20s and crossed into this new era, you know the vibes shift in the best ways. We’re talking confidence, communication, and actual knowing what you want (and how to get it 😏).
✨ Confidence is everything — you stop obsessing over how you look and start focusing on how it feels
💬 You get way better at speaking up about what you want and what’s not working
🔥 You actually know your body now, and that makes everything more satisfying
🧬 Hormones change the game — HRT can be a huge part of keeping your spark alive
😈 Sharing kinks and fantasies isn’t scary anymore (when you’ve got the right partner)
🤣 Weird or awkward moments in bed? We’re grown now — we just laugh and keep going
🎧 Talking about sex is way more normalized thanks to podcasts, books, and badass educators
🤝 Partners who are all about mutual pleasure? 1000x hotter than the selfish 20-somethings we used to entertain
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Today I got out of my bed at 420.
Speaker 2:Okay, so usually like 415, 420 is when I actually get up and then what are you doing, like today, yeah, you don't have to be here for three and a half hours. So what the fuck are you doing?
Speaker 1:So I mean today what I did well because my most productive time is in the morning is in the early morning and so what I almost was. Like you know I don't have to be there till eight, Like I'm going to sleep in whatever, but I know if I do that I'm going to go home, I'm going to eat lunch and I'm like I'm going to take a little nap.
Speaker 2:And I'm not going to get my shit done.
Speaker 1:So I was like I need to get up and get my like most important stuff. So I got up, I like made my coffee. I had to schedule them to send so they don't send up fucking five in the morning. I did all my stuff like check and make sure clients sign their contracts and do their questionnaires and la, la, la, la, la la. And then I was setting up stuff for our Shades of Beauty campaign. That was getting the questionnaire ready, the ManyChat automation, getting all the shit ready to go. So once Christina has our reel, I could just Okay okay, so what time did you start getting ready?
Speaker 1:6 45. I was supposed to get ready at 6 30 but I was like in the middle of doing the automation, so at 6 45 I went up with the plan of leaving my house at 7 30, and then I actually left my house at 7 40 so when we come at 7, we have to start getting ready at 5 40.
Speaker 2:that's why it's killer for me, yeah.
Speaker 1:And I hate that because I'm like I get up and I'm like I only have like an hour, hour and a half to get work done, which is like not a lot of time, yeah, so I'm annoyed, pissed, fucking mad about it. Yeah, which I mean. Once Aerie starts working, a lot of that stuff will be.
Speaker 2:You don't have to answer any emails. I mean everything you did this morning you wouldn't have to do right.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:What are you going to do?
Speaker 1:Well, that's where I need to be doing like the big dog tasks. Big dog, erase that. Okay, edit that out. No, we're not, we're leaving it in there.
Speaker 2:Big dog, I'm going gonna start calling you now, what are you doing today, big dog?
Speaker 1:oh my god, I hate myself, I know. Oh my god. Sometimes I open my mouth and I go. What just happened, I don't know vomit big dog, that is your new name. I'm changing your name in my phone I'm not gonna be able to get it together. Okay, I'm gonna be laughing like I'm at a funeral. Oh so inappropriate. Okay. I have the weirdest co-host oh my god, sometimes, once I start laughing, I I can't stop.
Speaker 2:I know, I know how you get Okay. Okay, welcome to Maximus Life.
Speaker 1:I'm your host, big Dog, and I'm Little Dog. And here we are Today we're talking sex after 30. Why we think it's better. Maybe everyone doesn't think it's better we do right. You do yeah. I mean maybe because I'm over 30. Well, yeah, dummy.
Speaker 2:Well, you only can have an opinion if you are right, but I'm saying like maybe when I was like you know, yeah, like maybe when I was in my 20s, I would think like this is the best sex Mm. Hmm.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but now that you're over 30, you're like, no, it wasn't. Yeah, yeah, I mean. I think sex after 30 hits a little different.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so wait when I think in our third mid 30s to 40s or whatever, that's when women are in their sexual prime, that's what I've heard, yeah. I can believe it. So I could see why. So that brings it out in us Mm-hmm Nature, not the nature.
Speaker 1:You know, I think it's like a confidence thing. I think you're better at communication. I think you give less fucks too you've been through more stuff too.
Speaker 2:You understand your body more. You know like more experience.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I think, yeah, yeah, there's so many reasons why it's better.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean let's do a compare and contrast, oh okay, well, let's talk about confidence.
Speaker 1:Okay, compare and contrast confidence. So I feel like when I was in my 20s, oh God, it's like I just. I mean, I think I've always been generally a confident person, yeah, but when it comes to like, having sex with somebody, yikes, not so confident in my body and just worried what I look like, about, like, oh, what angle they're looking at me from and all this stupid shit.
Speaker 2:That's like what does it matter about that?
Speaker 1:yeah whereas now I'm like you're welcome okay, you're welcome from big dog although I still like the lights pretty dim yeah, you're not trying to have a full-on blast spotlight yeah, like right now, right now, yeah, this could not happen yeah, I mean I don't, I don't like, I don't like heavy lighting anytime though yeah, you don't I don't like overhead lighting.
Speaker 1:It gives me a headache. I don't like when shit's too bright. I just always like when it's like kind of dim. But then during sex I do feel better if it's like, yeah, the lights are lower. Also, if I'm being totally honest, I don't really want to see the other person in full-blown light either. I like it Like. I just feel like everyone's like a little sexier. It's like, yeah, it sets the mood.
Speaker 2:It sets the mood. Yeah, I don't want to be in like this sterile environment. I don't mind it either way. You have a like aesthetic thing with your sex I think yeah, yeah, and like your angles and the way people, like you know, with the hair and stuff, like I want it like wild, oh yeah, like I only could have sex with my hair down.
Speaker 1:I'm not having my hair up. Don't ever ask me to put my hair up. Actually also, I hate if I'm like giving someone a blow job and then you know they like want to hold up your hair and stuff. I'm actually just leave it alone.
Speaker 2:I mean, I think it's nice of them, but sometimes it's like they don't really do it right and then half my hair is falling out and I'm just actually annoyed like yeah, let it go I don't what a thing to be upset about let it go, yeah yeah, you know, the funny thing is we were, we had our little barbecue yesterday, and we're talking about blowjobs and we're like you were yeah, and we're like blowjobs are so boring. I don't think so yeah, I just like is it gonna come out?
Speaker 1:yet when's it gonna come?
Speaker 2:out, like even if you're doing all these things and you're just like I mean and then I think about that though like with boys eating you out, like is it boring down there?
Speaker 1:I'm sure it is. They're just like Jesus Christ.
Speaker 2:And I I mean Drew's a lot down there, a lot longer than I'm giving them blowjobs. You the blow job. There is like there's a cut off. Yeah, you have a deadline, you haven't?
Speaker 1:well, like we're trying to do something here. I mean, you have a goal in mind yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:I will say that, like I don't give a lot of blow jobs, that it's gonna like end that way, like right yeah, that's like the ending, like I'm on my period or like you know it's like that.
Speaker 2:That's like the ending, like I'm on my period or like you know. It's like that's typically, like it might be a little suck here and there, but I'm not like full going. Yeah, drew's like no, we need to have sex, like that's his like you know he's always like no, come up here, let's have like sex, like let's you know. Yeah, so sucking, sucking, sucking sucking, sucking sucking, sucking. Where's the poison? Come on, put it in my mouth. You know, I don't know. I know you enjoy it. I think I enjoy it more.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you do.
Speaker 2:I mean, I think that there are times where I do enjoy it and I think it's like hot or whatever.
Speaker 1:But sometimes I'm just like okay, the time that I don't enjoy it is when they want you to do that after you already were having sex I know you hate that I'm like I don't want that yeah, I, I don't, I don't want to do that one it's just like a little bit weird and but also, if you do it, it's just like it's only kind of gross, it's so, it's so hot already.
Speaker 2:Because you've been inside here your warm temperature. It's already hot. How can I put my mouth on it?
Speaker 1:It's hot and wet, yeah, but actually it's only kind of gross to me for like not that long Once. Once you get it going, you just got to do it and then it's like, okay, okay, here's the thing too. This is going to be gross. It depends on how much body hair they have down there too. Do you find that a lot of men don't?
Speaker 2:like groom.
Speaker 1:No, I mean, I think most of them do. Okay, I only have had a couple where I go wow, we didn't make any effort, we just kind of let it go. Huh, wow, yeah, did you know you're supposed to do something down here like I don't know?
Speaker 2:if you knew that just take some little buzzers and just do a buzz, buzz or something I literally.
Speaker 1:I literally shaved my entire body from the neck down.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you're like, you're prepping couldn't have even been bothered to like and now I have to look at it and put my mouth around it and now it's just like this poof in my face oh my god.
Speaker 2:So now I'm like picturing like just poof going up your nose or whatever and you're just like trying to suck and the poof's also trying to get in your mouth too and like I mean let's not say like I have gotten a hair in my mouth before yeah, oh, that's the worst. And you feel it tickling. Or you have you ever had it where you're like sucking dick and then you feel like there's a hair in your mouth but it's I don't know if they're really one and then you do a little and then you're just like sorry, that wasn't really sexy or whatever, but like it's like, yeah, sometimes I just stop and I'm like pulling it out.
Speaker 1:Pulling it out, it's like in my throat, uh-huh, because a lot of times it's my own hair. I think, yeah, I think it's my own hair. You hope that's what it's for myself.
Speaker 2:It's my hair, don't worry. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but whatever it is, that's like the, that's like the ugly stuff people don't talk about, like yeah, sometimes you're giving a blow job and it just really just it just rams it. Yeah, and you're just like a little gag or there's a hair in there.
Speaker 2:It's kind of like ah, so I started using those little mints, those little plinth mints or whatever I was telling them last night that you it was just me and Fern and Christina or whatever and I was like well, brianna said, like she uses these mints, maybe it makes it more fun, it does make it more fun?
Speaker 1:Yeah, because I do feel like I get, so, I do feel like my mouth gets a little dry during sex. Yeah, your little dry mouth, big dog, and I think it's because, just I mean, like the medication that I'm on doesn't give you a little bit At least.
Speaker 2:It doesn't make your puss dry, it doesn't.
Speaker 1:Yeah, which I'm surprised. You would think it would, but nope, yeah, but like so these mints, I mean it makes it better and because then there's like a flavor, like I have like watermelon flavor and I'm like, ooh, this is kind of nice.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we were talking about how our friend told us that she could put like a fruit roll-up or something around it and we were talking about like I was like. To me it was like, yeah, I guess that could be fun or something.
Speaker 1:And then I was like Christine and I were both like our husbands would be like get you're not putting any sticky shit on me.
Speaker 2:Plus it's so thick, it's like going thick around, like can they even feel like you're giving a blow job? I'm sure I think she said it was good, it was fun. Okay, I think she said it was fun, but I'm like I don't want to try that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, maybe I need to try some new stuff well, I will say, the only thing that is annoying about the mint thing is sometimes it's hard to keep it in your mouth. Yeah, because where are?
Speaker 2:you putting it. I know, are you cheeking it Like, is it like.
Speaker 1:I mean, I just have it regular.
Speaker 2:Yeah, can you put it up here, like what is it called?
Speaker 1:One of those baseball players, uh, you like two yeah, like yeah, can you just put it up on your lip, I don't know, or like a zinger you know they have. I want to put it like under my tongue no, you have to move your tongue around yeah, I feel like my mouth just does so many things during it and then it just keeps falling out yeah and then I'm like, oh, sorry about that yeah, you know you put it up here you might get a cut yeah, I'm scared damn butt.
Speaker 2:So that's, that's one thing yeah, I never had a cut until I was 40 sucking dick so hard yeah, I don't know how that happened to us.
Speaker 1:That's crazy, yeah, I mean. So I think. Is this just a blowjob episode? Yeah, I was gonna say so like confidence wise I think, there's confidence-wise, in terms of like what you look like, confidence in your own body, yeah, but also confidence in your skills.
Speaker 2:Yeah. Like you've been like practicing for a while now.
Speaker 1:And I'm like I got this down.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Like I would venture to say, based on the reviews that I've gotten.
Speaker 2:Your Google reviews. I think gotten your Google reviews.
Speaker 1:You are pretty good at blowjobs.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:But then again you go. Who's going to tell you that you're bad though?
Speaker 2:Yeah, for me it's like If they want to keep getting blowjobs, they're not going to tell you Is the stuff coming out, or if the stuff isn't coming out, then I don't know if you're that good, yeah. Yeah, I mean it's also probably probably biological, like men, like some guys. Just don't come that way, yeah for sure yeah, blowjobs are a weird thing. You're just putting this thing in and out of your mouth who's going to this for real, I mean I guess eating pussy too.
Speaker 2:You're just like looking around there. You're just like look, like, like like like yeah, wet open thing.
Speaker 1:You're just like look like, like, like, like, like, that's kind of.
Speaker 2:And then kind of touching it sometimes or like fingering it sometimes.
Speaker 1:You're just doing all these things what I don't appreciate is if they're doing that and then they're kind of like jack hammering their fingers in there, I'm like that doesn't feel too much it's a lot like yeah, down a little bit and you don't need to do a straight finger either. Just a straight one. Yeah, what so aggressive? Stop stabbing me Also.
Speaker 2:I just don't really love aggressive eating pussy.
Speaker 1:I don't like aggressive almost any part of sex. I don't like it to be overly aggressive.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's too much Nah. Yeah, and I feel like when people do aggressive I mean I don't know if this is true I feel like your face might turn into something weird, just think about like when you have to like do something that's hard like and like motion wise, and your face kind of scrunches a little bit thinking yeah, yeah, yeah like if I had to like move something or, you know, do something repetitive.
Speaker 2:Like you're pressing this button and your face goes like this, Like I feel like that's how their face is going to end up looking. You're just like your finger's so hard. Yeah, I feel like that's not really sexy.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so I don't really like to look at them. Anyway, if they're down there, I don't want to see your forehead. I don't know, I feel like it's weird, I don't know, I don't. It's For some reason. It feels awkward to me. Also, I think too, I don't want to look at you from that angle, and then you're just looking at all my double chins Mm-hmm, what yeah? You're just looking at me from that angle too yeah. No, it's fine, we don't need to. I don't want to, but I think they want me to.
Speaker 2:Oh, they want you to look at them. Yeah, like you know, you're batting your lashes at them and you're getting a little teary-eyed and they just think it's so hot or something. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:Sure, I'll look at you a couple times and then I got to go back to poof in my face. I have to do my job. Yeah, I can't. I got to mint falling out of my mouth.
Speaker 1:I got like all this stuff happening. Yeah, it's a lot of work. Yeah, it's pretty nice. Um, yeah, I think boys like it. I think most of the time. Yeah, yeah, I mean, I definitely feel way less weird about what I look like during sex than I used to, and I feel like I used to be really weird about it.
Speaker 2:Even with your husbands.
Speaker 1:Uh yeah.
Speaker 2:Oh.
Speaker 1:Mm-hmm yeah.
Speaker 2:So what would that like? I guess, what would that look like, or what would that make you not want to, like you wouldn't do certain positions, or like what does that?
Speaker 1:look like yeah, I feel like okay, okay. So like, if you're on top again, like what we're just, you're just looking up at my chin and then, like I, maybe. I just feel like, oh, just, I, well, okay. So here's the thing too. I mean, I had a breast reduction and breast lift when I was. How old was? I was in 2017. How many years ago was that? Eight, so it's like 29, um, so for pretty much all my 20s, I just feel like my boobs were so big and I feel like they're like saggy, and so I was just like I'm just on top of them, just like my boobs are just flopping around and stuff like I hate that yeah and or if you're like on top, and then you're kind of like you know, you're like leaning over on them, and then it was like just like punching you in the face with my tits yeah, I think they think that's hot, I don't know yeah.
Speaker 1:I don't think. I didn't think so, yeah, felt really self-conscious about it, where now I'm like sure, you just look at my tits whenever you want. Yeah, I don't know like that would mainly be the thing. And then I feel like sometimes guys want to do these like weird not weird, but like different positions. They want you on your like. They're like sitting normal, like on their knees or whatever, but then you're kind of like you're laying down but you're like on your side. Yeah, you hate that position.
Speaker 1:You said that you and then I got like all squished up and then I got like my side rolls are going and then my tits are like hang to the side and it's like what am I supposed to be looking at you? Am I supposed to be looking at the side? Like I feel awkward in that position, like I don't really know what I'm supposed to be doing, so I don't love that yeah but otherwise like pretty much anything else you're like whatever do whatever.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's fine. Yeah, yeah. Also, I wonder, too, what I look like if I'm getting choked. That's probably not cute, but you wanted it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean, I mean that's what I I kind of always thought that about sex, Like if they like it like I don't know it's, it's such a raw thing to have sex with someone Like you're in your like kind of rawest form, I think, and so I don't ever think about like how is he looking at me like this, or what is my chin looking like? I never kind of like think about those things, you know, because before and after they're like that's so hot, or like blah, blah, I'm like all right, then you must like how all this looks. Yeah, like that's so hot, or like blah blah.
Speaker 1:I'm like all right, then you must like how all this looks. Yeah, well, and I think there's sometimes like, uh, we overthink stuff. So because, like, because I don't have like a boyfriend or a husband like a partner.
Speaker 1:In that way, I think I'm more, um, I'm especially more aware of like, okay, like every time I go to have sex with someone I'm like, okay, I gotta shave everything again and like, do this whole routine and look all put together when, like, you wouldn't really do that all the time if you're with someone. And like the other day I had, so I hadn't shaved in like a couple days, and Mr Monday was coming over and I was like, so I hadn't shaved in like a couple days, and Mr Monday was coming over and I was like God, I don't even have time to do this.
Speaker 1:And I was like you know, whatever, fuck it. And but then, like, once things got started, I was like God, I really wish I would have just like so. Then he's trying to like go down on me and I'm like you don't have to do that, I don't know. And he's like what is your problem? Like what are you doing? And I'm like I mean, I haven't shaved in a few days. He's like that's, that's what this is about, like that's why you don't want me to do this. I'm like I don't know, it's just like weird, I don't know.
Speaker 1:And he was just like that is so stupid and so we talked about it after and he full bush and it's fine and whatever.
Speaker 2:But I saw this TikTok one time and was like you think that I'm worried about that. I used to eat wet lollipops off the carpet, so what I know, and I thought that was hilarious and I do feel like most men actually. I'm going to say this Men that are actually men and not boys, they don't give a fuck about that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, mm-hmm, I agree with that. Yeah, I don't know, but it doesn't matter.
Speaker 2:Like, whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident. That's what you're going to do for yourself anyways. Yeah, yeah so.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and I don't think like I really thought too much about it. It was like during that moment I was like maybe don't do that Whatever, but let's just do everything else, and then I just like kind of forgot about it, Like I wasn't thinking about it when I feel like, if I was like 25, I would have been like, oh my God, no-transcript, whereas now I'm not thinking really about any of that.
Speaker 2:Usually, yeah, and if I do start to think about things I'm like get out of your head before you just kind of let it take over. Now you can just kind of recognize it and then kind of like, move on.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, do you feel like you have had like changes to your body that you know, because some people have like hormonal changes or they have like different, like recovery time, like maybe when you're younger?
Speaker 2:it's like, oh sure, I could have sex four times in a row and maybe now you're like, I don't know, maybe it's a little no for me. I'm, I've been pretty consistent. Oh, like I can have sex, like I don't, I didn't have as much sex as I'm having now. I think we're having so much more sex now than we did before. Anyways, but like recovery time or anything like that lubrication, I have a fucking wet waterfall, let me tell you yeah okay, I'm not a squirter.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you know, like I don't squirt, I never have, like that's not something that we've ever accomplished, uh, but I've always been just like pretty wet down there all the time, pretty consistently. I haven't hit and you know, I turned 40 this year, so maybe that will change as my hormones are kind of like changing. I'm a little bit of a late bloomer. Um, with everything Like I didn't. I still have my baby teeth. That is so crazy, yeah, so stuff like that or like even like I didn't lose all of my molars and stuff until I was 16. I started my period really late. So that might be like consistent with my like hormones. I might like go through menopause a little bit later.
Speaker 1:I don't know, I have no idea. Yeah.
Speaker 2:But um, so I haven't really had a lot of like hormonal like changes in my body yet. Um, but we'll see. Kind of like I feel like I'm pretty spray.
Speaker 1:Oh, do you. Good for you.
Speaker 2:Yeah, for now, but that could change, you know? Yeah, what about you?
Speaker 1:Yeah, you, yeah for for now, but that could change, you know? Yeah, what about you? Yeah, I mean, I feel like libido wise. Yeah, I feel like it's way better now well, yeah, same with.
Speaker 2:I mean, like I said, we're having so much more sex now yeah, I think so.
Speaker 1:Okay. So for me maybe it's like opposite. So when I was in my 20s, I feel like I don't know. I feel like I don't know. I feel like I mean I definitely liked having sex, but I definitely just wasn't as like all about it. Yeah, Maybe I don't know other 20 something year olds, which, who knows, who fucking knows? Yeah.
Speaker 2:Nobody really knows, because no one really talks about like how many times they're having sex, how many partner. I mean. You don't really need to know how many times they're having sex, how many partner. I mean you don't even really need to know how many partners people are having, but how many times like single people are having sex or married people are having sex. It's not typically like a common conversation that you have with people you know, so you don't really know. I have no idea.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I think they say married people are supposed to do it like one to three times.
Speaker 2:They're saying like even, like, yeah, even you're doing good if it's like once a week when, but when I look at that, that's four times a month, like and I'm in a very healthy relationship, you know, um, but, and even drew's like yeah, if we don't do it every other day, like he kind of is like it's too much pressure to say we're going to do it every day on ourselves. You know, if that happens and that happens, and it has been like where we've done it like every day for like seven days or something and then or whatever.
Speaker 2:But like he's like, if it doesn't happen every other day, he's like I don't really like that and not in a way that it's like I need to come, it's more like I just feel like we need to be intimate with each other, like, yeah, connected every other day.
Speaker 1:So, yeah, I mean, you don't really know what people, how many times we were having sex fucking nose, yeah, yeah, I feel like too. So when we're talking about like wetness types of, I feel like I always used to have issues with that.
Speaker 2:When you were younger, like from the beginning.
Speaker 1:yeah, okay, I feel like that was always like yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I don't know, okay, so tell me this have you always been like on medication?
Speaker 1:no, okay, so I mean other than birth control yeah like I wasn't on. Like now I have like my anxiety medication, stuff like that, which I just started that like a few years ago and so I wasn't on that in my 20s or anything, and so I was like so I just like didn't have few years ago and so I wasn't on that in my twenties or anything, and so I was like so I just like I didn't have anything to like blame it on yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, I was like why am I, why do I feel like this? And so I feel like it was kind of an issue for me. And then, um, a couple of years ago, I started or not a couple year, so maybe a year and a half I started hormone replacement therapy. And I did that for other reasons. I did it for like fatigue and all this other stuff that has made a drastic difference in like sex drive, wetness, whatever. So now I'm fucking waterfall too and I'm like damn even all my medication.
Speaker 2:I'm like what the fuck.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and I feel like if I sleep with guys that are like my age, I feel like they seem surprised so it makes me think like okay, maybe other people aren't, I don't know. Yeah, like, like. It makes me think like okay, so the way that I was more it's more common, it's more common.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, and here's the thing no one talks about it. Girls don't want to talk about they have a dry puss, just like boys don't want to talk about like they can't get it up but they can't stay hard. Yeah, they can't stay hard, but all that have sex longer. The girls want to be wet, you know. It just has, like you know, our chemical breakdown and we just might need some help. But also, I think, because people don't talk about it, people don't know about it, and then people it's so hidden and so then like we can't help each other and be like, okay, this is what's happening, like I think I've seen this interview a lot with Halle Berry and she talks about like when, once I started taking testosterone, my libido went up. She was like I had no libido.
Speaker 2:All of a sudden I did the testosterone and my libido went up and she was like and it's been really helpful for me and it's like but women don't talk to each other about this stuff, you know just like men don't want to talk about, like they're on testosterone or they're on whatever, but not because they want to be like these huge, fit guys, but because, like, they have low testosterone.
Speaker 2:But that doesn't make you any less of a man, right? It's just like your chemical breakup. What do you want to, you know? Like, what do you expect us to do? Yeah, yeah, you expect us just to have low estrogen or low testosterone, like, like for me, I have very high testosterone, too much testosterone in my body. That's why, like, my periods are really bad, like all those things. That doesn't make me more of a woman than anyone else. Like, I'm not such a woman because I have all of this estrogen running through my body, you know. And so I think that people don't talk about that enough, and like, so that we can help each other deal with that.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, the, uh, yeah, the hormone replacement therapy with the testosterone game changer. Yeah, I'm telling you, check it out if you can. I mean, the thing that sucks about it is it's expensive. It's a little expensive. In most places it is not covered under insurance.
Speaker 2:Yeah, which is fucking ridiculous, is another thing of why I think you know health care sucks. I'm not saying like the health care necessarily in, uh, like america. I'm saying like across the board, we don't like go to get our hormones like looked at once we start our periods like.
Speaker 2:It's not like that and like yeah, like those are the time, and why is it that we have to have money to like find out this information, to get these test done, done, and then also to like find a like a solution. Yeah, for it. Right, like we have to do all that on our own. It's like it's happening to so many people and no one wants to help anyone I know it's so ridiculous.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I hate that yeah, what about, uh, what about like things that are embarrassing during sex, now versus then?
Speaker 2:I I think, uh, the quiff. I think I used to be like so embarrassed when, like queefing which I do think like that doesn't happen anymore to me.
Speaker 1:I was going to say I don't that, I don't even know the last time that happened to me, Me too.
Speaker 2:But I remember it happening like kind of often before not often, but I feel like it would happen Now. I feel like it's probably been years since that happened and so I wonder what was happening?
Speaker 1:Like was just not going in right, or I mean it's like air pushing in, so like well, I don't know how were drew and I having sex before that.
Speaker 2:We're not currently having sex like that now, I don't know so I would be embarrassed, probably that. I mean it was with drew, so I would probably not be like so but.
Speaker 1:I would think like this is kind of embarrassing yeah, yeah, it sounds like you're like fucking farting yeah yeah yeah, so I had a threesome one time and their girl literally cleaved so many times so, and you could tell she was so embarrassed and it just kept and it was her boyfriend. It was not like this other random. Yeah, it was her boyfriend and like she seemed so embarrassed and I couldn't believe the amount of times that she bleeped like I was like, oh my god like all this air just getting stuck up there.
Speaker 1:What's happening?
Speaker 2:I don't know.
Speaker 1:I mean I felt really bad for her. I was like because, also because she was so embarrassed, I feel like if she was, if she didn't seem embarrassed, I'd be like, wow, okay, whatever, maybe people do this all the time, I don't know but she was like almost like when you fart at a yoga studio, when you're like downward dog or whatever, like that, like everyone's looking at you, like that's how she felt. Yeah, I mean, she seemed pretty embarrassed.
Speaker 2:Yeah, poor baby oh man, that's also the thing that, like you, can't help. Yeah, what are you going to do? Yeah, it's not like you can hold in your like, you can hold in your fart, you can't hold in the quiff, it's coming out.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean actually okay. So now that I say that I do, oh, my God.
Speaker 2:Where are we?
Speaker 1:The ambulance. I do remember the last time I quiffed and I was so embarrassed because I feel like it was like big kind of. Wait, I think you told this I don't, no, no, okay, this is different.
Speaker 2:It was that guy that I slept with, who I found out later lied to me about his name.
Speaker 1:It was that Mexican guy and then he had a boyfriend, a girlfriend like a live-in girlfriend, and they were not like polyamorous.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:Like he was just cheating on her Right right right, right. And I was so bummed because it was pretty good sex, but I was like I don't even fucking know who you are.
Speaker 2:I remember Wait, because it was pretty good sex, but I was like I don't even fucking know. I remember wait, this is the one that used to massage you to sleep yes, yes that one. I have a pretty good memory with all your guys.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I can pretty much pinpoint they have some memorable stuff sometimes yeah, I mean the fact that he was soothing you to bed like a little baby. Oh my god, to me. Yeah, I was like wow, I never experienced that before, like we would have sex and then immediately Getting you to bed like a little baby is crazy to me.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I was like wow, I never experienced that before. Like we would have sex and then, immediately after, he's like just relax and like kind of give me a whole body massage, and I was like what this is after? It's not like he was trying to get me to have sex with him, we already did and then like we would have sex again and they would do it again and I'm like this is crazy. Yeah, if anyone needs some tips and tricks, that is a good one.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I was like damn, I'll have sex with you anytime.
Speaker 1:If you're gonna give me this full massage, I'll suck your dick and let you fucking just shove your dick in me all the time yeah, so I, I don't know, it was like doing it from behind, it was like a weird, I don't know, it was like a weird angle or something.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it must have been.
Speaker 1:So then I'm like turning around and just like hella queefing, and I was like, oh, I was so embarrassed Also because, like that never happens to me and so I was like so caught off guard and I could not stop laughing. I literally was laughing so hard and it was like he wasn't laughing, like he was just like I don't care at all about it and I could, so he wasn't laughing, which was making me laugh more. Right, and it was so awkward that I couldn't stop laughing and it's like he just kept so then he just kept going with stuff, trying to just get like okay, like shut the fuck up.
Speaker 1:Yeah, get back in the mood here and so then he just kept going and I continued to laugh for another like two minutes and he just continued on.
Speaker 2:That and he just continued on. That's so weird. That's making it more awkward.
Speaker 1:Just take a second, let me breathe for a second, so I can stop laughing and then I'll continue fuck god, oh my god. It was so funny, but I feel like if that happened before I literally I would have just died like if I was in my 20s and that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:I'd fucking die. The queefing thing, I think, is like a thing um what about a uh cramp in your hip? I've gotten that a couple times, oh god, that means we're getting old I get a couple.
Speaker 1:It's always on my right side a couple of times and I go, oh, and I had to tell him, hold on, I gotta look, sorry, yeah I'm not even, and I'm not embarrassed about it at all, I'm just like sorry give me a minute.
Speaker 2:I think some things that happen with drew that I think that should be embarrassing, but they're not. I'm more just like oh, it's like a pain in the ass is. Sometimes I'll like start my period like during or like I won't know until, like right after, and then like I'm wiping and then there's blood and I'm like fuck. And then I look at drew and there's blood on him, yeah, but I there literally wasn't you know before, and so it like started.
Speaker 2:It was like hitting back there and then it was like okay, starter period, which that's happened a couple times, and I'm not. I mean, maybe I would be embarrassed before, like before. Yeah, I think that would be more embarrassing if it wasn't your partner for sure yeah, I don't know, if, like, even in my 20s, if it, you know, like if it just wasn't your partner, then you would be embarrassed about that a little bit, because I think the blood.
Speaker 1:Thing but you know most guys they don't really give a shit and if they do go fuck yourself, like, what am I supposed to do? Yeah, also, I wasn't on my period.
Speaker 2:And then now I am what do you? I don't.
Speaker 1:I don't know for sure, you at least got off yeah.
Speaker 2:I know, yeah, so that I think that's kind of a weird thing that happens like during sex or like you know, I know also.
Speaker 1:Do you feel like there's stuff that turns you on? Now that was like that is different than it used to be um. I feel like I used to expect. It's like I wanted guys to be more dominant.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you want to be the more dominant person. Now, right, yeah, or no?
Speaker 1:no, I don't know. I feel like there's times where I'm like, oh, I want to be, and then I go no, I don't, I'm just kidding. But, like I feel like okay, Like the massaging thing or like things when they're just so like soft with me. Yeah, I think I was just like not turned on at all, Like don't be soft with me. That is gross.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean, I uh, yeah, I mean I would agree. I don't want anyone to be soft with me, that's just not really my style. I'm the girl, such a girl girl that I'm like no, you can't do weird stuff like that to me. Yeah. Yeah, we're going to cut that out? Yeah, probably. So I don't know. I don't have a lot of things that I feel like there's like stuff would turn me off or on.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I don't know. I feel like now I'm just like, oh my god, like if they're like that and they're just kind of more softer with me, I'm just like that's so sweet of them, like I feel like you feel like it feels more like a like they're such a sweetheart, yeah it makes me feel more like, taken care of, and I feel like and so this is weird.
Speaker 1:It's like the opposite of how I used to feel like they, if they acted like that before, I would be like like it didn't seem as manly to me, and where now it's the opposite where I go, where I think like they're so comfortable in their masculinity that they can be so soft with me yeah, I love that.
Speaker 2:It feels uh, loving. It feels very like taken care of, which. That is maybe too for you. Now you see that that is a trait that you want to have in your partner, where you before were just like, nah, I don't really need that.
Speaker 1:Also I used to really so. I mean, I'm a huge fan of aftercare, but I feel like I used to be like I really want to cuddle after and all this stuff, whereas now I'm like meh.
Speaker 2:I don't really need to cuddle you.
Speaker 1:I mean I don't really need to cuddle you. I mean I like it, I do. I mean I like to like hang out after and like talk and stuff. I don't necessarily need to be like laying on you.
Speaker 2:I would love every night if I could just sleep on top of Drew. I just feel like I just I wish I could just sleep here. Yeah, I just want to sleep here, um, because I'm a weirdo uh, what about like.
Speaker 1:Uh, I think, okay, also in your 30s you're uh what like your kinks or fantasies? Yeah, I think you're explored more.
Speaker 2:I think so. I think as you're getting older you've had like all this sex and you're just like. I mean, this might be the opposite for people. People might have thought people might be like I did all the kinks and like weird. It's not weird, but all these like different things before, earlier and then now it's like maybe they're getting married or they have a partner and so it might be the opposite for some people.
Speaker 2:Right, totally For us, though I think, as I'm first of all, as I'm reading these stupid books right, I am reading about a lot of things you know, and so I think that that is opening the door a little bit. Yeah, um, like wanting to like get done in the butt. Oh, my God, that's never going to happen, cause I don't. I know I really don't want to. I don't think I would even have said that out loud if I wanted to. I definitely was not curious about it before. Now I'm like curious about it, scared of it, but still curious. Yeah, where before it was like you are not sticking that fucking thing in my ass ever, don't even put that near me, you know when. Now I'm like hey, like, hey, maybe maybe you should put it in.
Speaker 1:Yeah, maybe just try it. Yeah, maybe just shove it in there, who knows? No, it's not gonna be fun and no um but like also, I think, on the topic of like things that would turn me on before or now versus before.
Speaker 1:Whatever, I think like guys who share more of their fantasies and kinks, even if it's stuff that I don't want to do, if they are more sexually explorative, that's a turn on to me. Yeah, I, I agree, like if they're telling me like oh, I did all these things and I'm like, holy shit, like this stuff. I'm like, oh, I would never fucking do that. But I'm like I like that, you're like bold and you're kind of like you'll try stuff. You're not like afraid, like you're gonna like look stupid yeah stuff like that yeah, so I like that too.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I think like turn-ons too, like for me was, as I'm like, uh, being more sexual with Drew and stuff he's really putting in the work the research.
Speaker 1:Oh my God, his research. I can't with him. And the research Looking up stuff.
Speaker 2:You know he's into it, he's not. I think this is what you're going to find different between. Like boys and men too. He is trying to find the best ways for us to be pleasured together Right and for, not just for himself, and I think that happens and that's why girls are just like this becomes like a boy's world in this like sex you know that's the natural theme, um of it, and where I have a partner, that's like what can like we do to like make it better for you too. You know he's always thinking of me, and so I think that that's that's kind of nice too.
Speaker 1:That is nice. I think too it's like sex for us. It's better in our thirties now, because I think in our thirties there's been a lot more. There's now like sex podcasts. There's more like the rise of, like smut books. There's like it's people are talking about stuff more, which opens our mind to more things. It allows for more conversation. Still, I think not enough conversation people are having about it, but I feel like in my 20s, like that wasn't happening.
Speaker 2:You never talk about it. You definitely weren't talking about it to like your couple friends. No, like last night we had a conversation about sex, uh, uh, just like with our friends or whatever, and it was like the boys were included too and it wasn't like, oh yeah, I fucked tamika this way or drew's dick looks like this way, but it was just like an open conversation about, like, sexual experiences or how they felt, like men should be or how we should feel, or like, uh, like just really open and honest and like that is like kind of like what we talked about before and how I said that's never done, like there's not a community where people are just comfortable talking about their experiences in a marriage, where you don't Okay, where you don't feel like.
Speaker 2:Please don't go through puberty, yeah, where you don't feel like judged or you're not embarrassed or like you could just say like this happened to me or like whatever, and you can get advice, or you just kind of look at things in a different way. It's just like also can just be a fun conversation too. It doesn't have to like be all this like deep thing either, but I think that the more like the books have come out and like the podcasts have come out, it's just like giving us permission to open up a little bit more and everyone feels a little bit more comfortable.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:But man, it needs to like even be more, like 100%, more open, Right, Like I mean. I think that's why we've kind of like this is kind of a running theme with this podcast too is just like why isn't someone talking about these normal people having normal sex and being able to talk to people about it?
Speaker 1:maximize your sex life. Yeah, okay, I want to play, okay rapid-fire okay, I know that's a fire, would you? Ever okay, spicy version okay, and I guess here's the thing you have to some of these questions. I'm like maybe you have to just pretend like you're not married.
Speaker 2:I don't know okay, yeah, I'll just answer whether I am like what, whatever, I would think yeah, okay okay.
Speaker 1:Would you ever sleep with someone 10 years younger or older?
Speaker 2:yes, those, yeah, I mean, I have this weird thing where, like we're 40, but then I think like, oh my god, these guys that you see and they're like 44 and I'd go, but I'm like my husband's 40 and he looks the best he's ever looked, I think so yeah, I would go, I don't know.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's a little different for me too. I date ethnic men and I think that they they look younger. I I'm probably not dating a 50 year old white man, please. I mean, I'm just saying it's vastly different for my from like what my husband looks like and my preference. Yeah, it's funny because my daughter fucking loves Gavin Newsom. She thinks he's so hot. She always goes. I'll let that man sit on my face. That's what my daughter says. She just fucking loves him. She's so she likes these old men like she doesn't like she doesn't like men that like I think it's weird like it would be like her dad's age or like in their 30s. She always says, like those people are old, 30 to 40. Oh yeah, but 60 or whatever. Oh sure Obama, gavin Newsom Loves it.
Speaker 1:She loves that. Oh my gosh, and she's 23. See, it's so funny, it's so fucking weird.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, I so. Yeah, I could go 10 years older, 10 years younger. I mean, that's a little young for me too, I think. I think I would be more comfortable in the five, yeah, five-year range, but I think I could do it either way. I don't see why I would have a problem.
Speaker 1:And we're just talking about sleeping with them, not dating.
Speaker 2:So 10 years older? I have you, yes, 10 years older. I have you, yes, 10 years older. Okay, both, I mean so both you've done 10 years and 10 years. Yeah, okay, so you remember that guy this is a while back.
Speaker 1:He was 55. Is that british guy? I told you I didn't sleep with him and I lied.
Speaker 2:I did which one? What was the date scenario?
Speaker 1:we had gone like we went on a date to like just get drinks. Then we went on like a coffee date in Benicia and he was like saying he wanted to take me to Napa, and then we went to Walnut Creek and we had dinner, and he's the one, and then he broke up with me. Oh the breakup. Oh, you did sleep with him.
Speaker 2:I did Okay One time. How was it?
Speaker 1:It was pretty good, it was very fast. It was just very fast and then over and then that was it. But I was kind of like I saw you should take Viagra. Huh, you should take Viag. Yeah, I don't know, I don't. It's like there wasn't long enough and like there wasn't enough going on that like I could really say if I would do that again, but I don't, I don't, that was a little old for me. I mean, that's like almost my mom's age. So yeah, how old's your mom?
Speaker 2:59, yeah, yeah so yikes yeah, 10 years younger.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean, I currently I'm sleeping with someone 12 years younger.
Speaker 2:He's fucking 25 yeah, I think for me I I mean 10 years, probably the max, because I feel like I have to be very careful because my kids, like to me, is only 16 years younger than me, yeah so I think for me, if I was single, like that is something in the back of my mind like I don't really want to go near that because also, I don't know, I have a weird thing about men dating really younger women.
Speaker 2:So I don't know why, I have an excuse for that, so that that's, uh, not like super younger, but I do have like. If Drew were to date someone that was 23, I would be like you, tough. So I also think that for myself, too, then an opposite. Why isn't that the same truth?
Speaker 1:yeah, it does kind of weird me out every time. Not weird me out, I mean, what if I hang out this guy? He's 25, mm-hmm, he is just really mature for his age, I think that's what it is, and so we can have like mature conversations and like he's very thoughtful, emotionally intelligent. He doesn't seem, but then I remind myself like this is a 25 year old and I go what am I doing?
Speaker 2:yeah, I think that's probably too close to Tamia's age and I be like can't do that for me. Yikes, because my kid you know I had kids so young.
Speaker 1:Yeah, would you ever go a full year without sex on purpose?
Speaker 2:No.
Speaker 1:No, what Like?
Speaker 2:why would you do it on purpose?
Speaker 1:though, why would you even go a full like month?
Speaker 2:Yeah, what that doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 1:What a dumb question Would you would.
Speaker 2:Would you ever have sex in a confessional booth? Sure, forgive me, daddy, let me get on my knees for you right now no I mean I read the book priest and I thought it was pretty fucking hot.
Speaker 2:But there were some weird things where he was like I'm gonna anoint her and he was taking, like what? Like the oils, and he got the oil so he could fuck her up the ass and like the holy oils and like this whole thing, like he's a priest and he's struggling with that, he wants to be with her but he's like fucking her, like he's like a catholic priest, so it's like you know, you can see like the, the stage or the altar or whatever, and so he's like fucking her up there, like so kind of hot. But so, yeah, I'd fuck a priest in a confessional, jesus, or I'd fuck you in a confessional.
Speaker 1:I mean, I'll fuck you wherever, I don't give a shit would you ever hook up with your hot therapist if ethics didn't exist?
Speaker 2:I guess if I like got or had a crush on him. I mean, I talked about this before too, speaking of inappropriate things. You know we were hearing about all these women that were lately they've been kind of in the news the teachers that have been having sex with these little boys. You know there's one major one going on right now. But I also know that I was a huge fucking slut in high school and I would have definitely fucked one of my teachers Me too, fucking slut in high school and I would have definitely fucked one of my teachers me too, yeah, and I and that's really bad because I would have put the pressure on because that's like how I am like super confident and I, if I really like, if he was nice to me, because I have such bad daddy issues if he like was nice to me and showed me that attention, I would have started to put the pressure on, which is fucked up you know, because I know my mind, how my mind worked then too, especially, and I would have tried to fuck that.
Speaker 2:I would have let him fuck me for sure, but I would have taken that to my grave. Like someone else would have had to like find some shit out, to like go against him. Like I'm not that type of person either where I would be like, oh, he tricked me, but I would have definitely done that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, for sure. Sure I had one teacher in high school. For sure that I would have too. Um, would you ever?
Speaker 2:so I guess, yeah, I would have fucked my therapist oh, the therapist yeah sorry, you so um, yeah, probably yeah, so.
Speaker 1:I had a male therapist for our marriage counseling with my ex-husband and I didn't.
Speaker 1:I like I didn't find him attractive, like, but so I can see, okay, I didn't find him attractive when we first, but I mean, I didn't, also didn't think he was ugly, just like a regular guy, whatever. And then, but as we had, we went through this whole process and he's like getting to know us. And then, of course, this person is like saying kind of like all the right things, like they're not the one in the situation who's like getting to know us? And then, of course, this person is like saying kind of like all the right things, like they're not the one in the situation who's like unhinged, it's you and your stupid husband and so then you're sitting there with your dickhead husband who's saying this stupid shit.
Speaker 1:You're like what? And then there's this guy and he's just like so smart, right, and like level-headed, because you know he's completely not in the situation.
Speaker 1:Um, and I do feel like I started to feel this like pull towards him like where I go and I had to keep checking myself and be like, what are you fucking thinking? Like, remember, this is his job. He doesn't actually, not that they don't give a fuck about you, but like this is his job to say this stuff. So don't think that like he actually cares about you or whatever.
Speaker 2:I had to so, but I, because of that experience, I can totally see how people would like fall for their therapist yeah, I think that that's why, like, for example I guess we're talking about therapists, or like teachers right now they have to have such strong boundaries and within themselves too, like the teacher thing, like I think that they shouldn't just like as much as they care for their students because girls do that they have to be very aware and not put themselves in any weird positions where, like that could get misconstrued or whatever, and like that happens because, like you know, even with just someone coming onto them and them having to stop it, that's a whole thing too, you know.
Speaker 2:And so, and then with a therapist too, like that's a whole thing too, you know. And so it. Their, their jobs are really tough because they are kind of like figuring out our emotions and like being nice to us and trying to teach us stuff. And then they also have to like okay, I have to teach you not to fall in love with me too, I want to have sex with me.
Speaker 1:Or they have to be able to draw that boundary and say like okay, this uh uh working relationship thing like has to end and we have to now, like you have to have a different therapist or right, yeah, right.
Speaker 2:So it's like yeah, so that's like such a tough thing for them. Like that sucks too when you build trust with like a therapist or whatever, and then now it's like it's this whole thing, yeah weird, okay.
Speaker 1:My last question. Okay, let's hear it. This one one's so weird, okay. I mean, I already know what you're going to say Okay, go. Would you ever have a threesome with your current partner and your hottest friend? No, that is so messy. What. Who would do that Also?
Speaker 1:so I guess for me it's like because I have had threesomes- it's not as weird in that sense that, like, maybe it's weirder to ask someone who's like not actually into the same sex, but like, for me, I'm like I don't ever look at any of my friends and think like oh, they're hot like I don't ever think, like it's just such a weird thing. It's like, that's like if you thought that about I don't know, I feel like it's similar to like your family or like your cousin or something where you go.
Speaker 2:No, I never want to sleep like I want to eat your pussy.
Speaker 1:That's so weird. And even if you're like in a scenario like, let's say they're, you're getting ready, you guys are going somewhere and you're just like, oh girl. Like you're like in a scenario like, let's say, you're getting ready, you guys are going somewhere and you're just like, oh girl, like you look hot, like I would be like, oh yeah, they look really pretty, or whatever, but I never would be like, oh yeah, I want to fuck them.
Speaker 2:No, that's so weird, like I have this thing where sometimes I'm like oh my God, your butt looks good you know, no, no, stick something in your butt Damn it.
Speaker 1:Yeah Well, and I think you wouldn't say that, if you thought that, like if you really did think that you wouldn't say stuff like that, and if I wanted to have a threesome with my husband.
Speaker 2:I'm definitely not having it with my best friend. That's weird One of my. Well, I guess it doesn't have to be your best friend, it's. It doesn't have to be your best friend, it's just your best looking friend, your hottest friend. I wouldn't do it with a friend that's so messy. I don't ever want to risk awful friendship to your friendship or your marriage well, both, yeah, like your husband, like falling in love with one of your friends, like weird shit like that. Like I mean, what are you? What you know?
Speaker 1:maybe it's worked out for some people. I'm sure it has, but yeah, I wouldn't. I can't even believe that question, yeah damn, no, this is I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it. Yeah, it's a good one, yeah, so, uh, yeah, if you guys have any um, anything to say about what your opinion is about, do you think that sex is better?
Speaker 1:after 30, or do you feel like you had better sex in your 20s? Let us know what you think. Send us a message on our Instagram at maximalistlifepodcast, and we'll see you guys next time. Hope you're having fun.
Speaker 2:Tits off, dicks out. Big dog, big dog, big dog, woof, woof, woof, woof.