Blending Motherhood + Business Without Burnout: My 3-Step Sanity-Saving Strategy

If you've ever been told, “just build your business during nap time,” only to find yourself with 22 unpredictable minutes and a baby already stirring... this episode is for you.

In this real af episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it actually looks like to run a business as a present, in-the-thick-of-it mom—and how I stopped relying on the nap-time hustle and started building smarter.

I’ll walk you through the three exact shifts I made that helped me blend motherhood and business without the burnout, the guilt, or the 3AM grind.

Whether you're juggling a toddler, a teen, or both (like me!), these hacks will help you create a business that works in the background of your life—not one that requires you to be online 24/7.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why “just work while the baby naps” is bad advice (and what to do instead)
• How to build your business around real life—not ideal conditions
• The exact automations I use to reclaim my time without sacrificing sales
• Why perfection is costing you progress—and what to focus on instead

Resources Mentioned:

• Brilliance to Bank Blueprint — Get my plug-and-play backend system with a DFY funnel + ManyChat flow that sells while you rest.
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• 🎧 Listen to Episode 9 – “You Built a Business… But It’s Built on You” (learn how to stop being the system and start building one) Listen HERE

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Transcript

I started my VA business when my son was in elementary school —and for the most part, it felt easy. He was in school, and only really felt the juggle in the summer months… so I worked from play cafés, used the WiFi while he ran wild and it was great.So when I got pregnant with my daughter in 2023, I thought, ‘I’ve done this before—I’ll work while I pump, nap time will be my power hour, babies sleep a lot… right?’

What I didn’t account for was the reality of round-the-clock nursing, pump part cleaning, and the never-ending cycle of care that left me with zero white space in my day.I kept moving the goalpost—thinking it would get easier when she could hold a bottle, sit up, crawl… and every time, the ‘easier’ phase kept getting delayed.And that pressure? The overwhelm? It became deafening. I was tired of feeling like I was failing at both roles… until I finally figured out how to blend motherhood and business my way.

So if any of this hits home, keep listening—because I’m sharing 3 simple hacks that saved my summer and helped me show up as a present mom and powerful business owner—without the hustle or guilt.

Let’s dive RIGHT into hack number one—and this one’s big if you’ve ever looked at your baby monitor like, “Okay… you’ve got one job. Just sleep for three hours like the schedule says.”

Right?! 😂

But You can’t build your business around the ideal baby.

You’ve got to build it around the real one—the one who naps 42 minutes on the dot, refuses to transfer from car seat to crib, and has a sixth sense for the moment you open your laptop.

So here’s the shift:

Plan for power pockets—not marathon work blocks.

Instead of waiting for that perfect 3-hour nap that may or may not happen, look for the repeatable 20–30 minute pockets you can count on.

Maybe it’s while the baby’s strapped into the high chair with snacks. Maybe it’s after bedtime, or during Bluey. Whatever it is—identify it, protect it, and capitalize on it.

And then? You batch your work smart.

• Respond to client messages (the ones that actually require your input) all at once.
• Schedule a week’s worth of content using a pre-written caption bank and pre-designed templates. If you don’t have these yet… then maybe you use a block one day to do this. It makes life later on way easier.
• Queue up email campaigns or ManyChat flows to nurture your audience throughout the week while sipping your reheated coffee for the third time.

The point of this is momentum doesn’t require massive hours. It just requires intention with the minutes you do have. As moms, we know we’re amazing at doing MORE with less… so let’s use it to our advantage in a business sense as well.

And here’s a pro tip:

Create a recurring CEO Pocket.

I talked about this in episode 9.

It’s not just about finding time—it’s about protecting it. Choose the most predictable quiet time in your week—maybe it’s Monday naptime or Saturday morning while your partner’s on toddler duty—and block it off like it’s a meeting with a high ticket client paying in FULL.

Inside that CEO Pocket, you do the needle-movers:

• Review your strategy.
• Clean up your funnel.
• Review metrics and KPI’s
• Record content for your lead magnet.
• Or, my personal fave — automate something so future-you has less on her plate.

That one recurring pocket will do more for your business than an inconsistent 5-hour window once a month ever will.

Because you’re not building your business later when life’s calm and perfect.

You’re building it now—in the middle of motherhood. And that means working with the chaos, not waiting for it to pass.

Yes! That’s the vibe.

Ok…

Hack #2: Your Baby Doesn’t Need a Babysitter—Your Business Does.

Okay, mama—lean in for this one because it will set you free:

Your baby doesn’t need a babysitter.

Your business does.

Here’s what I mean:

You are not your business’s babysitter — at least you shouldn’t be.

You are not meant to be glued to your phone, replying to every DM in real time.

You are not meant to manually deliver every offer, resend every link, or double-check every email reminder.

Your job is not to hover over your business like a helicopter mom.

Your job is to build a business (aka a system) that runs without you needing to be in ten places at once.

Because let’s be honest—when your toddler’s wiping peanut butter on the dog, or your baby just had a diaper blowout five minutes before a Zoom call…

You don’t have time to be the customer service department.

And that’s where automation becomes your business’s built-in babysitter.

Let me give you a real example:

Right now, if someone messages me on Instagram and types the word “JOIN”…

They get an immediate response with the link to Mama Business Academy—sent via ManyChat.

No delays. No copy-paste. No missed opportunities.

Just instant connection that happens without me while I’m wiping up a trail of Goldfish or washing pump parts for the 87th time today.

That one little automation?

It’s not just saving me time.

It’s helping me grow my business while I’m being a mom.

So if you’ve been stuck in reactive mode—constantly replying, delivering, and following up—please hear this:

You don’t need to do more. You need your business to do more—for you.

Automate the reply.

Automate the delivery.

Automate the follow-up.

Because every time you take your hands off those tasks…

You get your hands back for the ones that actually matter.

Like rocking your baby.

Or resting your nervous system.

Or just drinking your coffee while it’s still hot.

This isn’t being lazy or ‘taking the easy way out’. This is leadership.

This is what will allow you to scale, even if you’re still working your business by yourself, without a team. This is leveraging technology to your advantage — so you can scale smarter, faster, and with less overhead.

This is you building the foundations for a business that works with your life—not against it.

Which brings me to….

Hack #3: Trade Perfection for Progress

Alright, hack number three—

let’s talk about the one thing that sneaks in and steals your momentum faster than a toddler with your lip gloss:

Perfection.

Listen —you are not less successful because you’re not launching every month.

You are not falling behind because you haven’t gone live in weeks or because you’re rocking a messy bun and yesterday’s mascara.

You’re in a season.

I wish I could tell myself this a year ago… and I still try to remind myself of this when my teenager has that ‘last minute school project emergency’ or with every nap forgone because teething is in full force.

Motherhood is one big beautiful, exhausting, sacred, unpredictable season.

Consistency is going to look different.

But just because your hands are full doesn’t mean your business can’t grow.

So here’s the shift:

Trade perfection for progress.

You don’t need to post every day.

You don’t need to be everywhere, all the time, with curated content and trending audio.

You just need a strategy that works even when you don’t.

For me? That strategy is a funnel.

A lead magnet. A nurture sequence. One main offer.

And that one system runs behind the scenes like a full-time team… even when I’m off the clock.

Take the CEO Shift for example.

It’s my free masterclass that leads straight into my paid offer.

So while I’m at baseball, basketball, or volleyball practice, or binge-watching whatever action packed Netflix movie that took 5 hours to decide on, with my husband and a bag of popcorn—I’m still growing my email list, still building trust, and still making sales.

Because the strategy is working—even when I’m not.

That’s the power of progress over perfection.

Then, in your CEO block — you tweak the things that aren’t performing or improve what you need to.

It’s not about showing up everywhere.

It’s about showing up intentionally—and then letting your systems take it from there.

and please hear me on this:

Your value is not measured by the views on your reels or the conversion of your emails.

Your success isn’t defined by how visible you are—it’s defined by how sustainable your strategy is.

And if you're showing up with heart, building something smart, and choosing progress over perfection?

You’re doing it right.

I have a funny story actually. I had a reel that for whatever reason… it totally flopped. It was one I was excited about too… idk why it happens like that but whatever. Anyways… I ended up getting more followers from that reel! and it had NO engagement. It was wild.

I’ll study and dissect that later… but my point is… you can’t get metrics… you can’t figure out what’s working and what’s not if you don’t move forward with these things.

My 7 figure clients for example — ask any one of them. They were far from ‘overnight’ successes. Have a strategy — yes. Have a mentor, coach, strategist — YES!

But It’s going to take some throwing spaghetti at the wall to find out what sticks and performs best with YOUR audience.

Which is why I developed Mama Business Academy, where I give you access to my entire vault of courses, resources, and tools so you learn the strategies and have the information… but then you get time with me to review what’s working and what’s not.

I give you my expert guidance and suggestions on what to tweak or implement so you’re not running around blindly.

so if that’s you, and you need help sorting the chaos of your business in your head… just go to the shownotes of this episode and i’ve added a link there for you to check it out!

so, before we wrap up—I want to say this loud and clear:

You are not failing.

You are not behind.

You are not doing it wrong.

You’re just carrying too much… because the business you built doesn’t match the season you’re in.

And that’s okay!! because you can shift it.

You can build a business that runs with your life, not in opposition to it.

A business that flows alongside naptimes, school runs, teething, and snack tantrums.

One that doesn’t demand your every ounce of energy—but actually gives you some back.

And here’s the thing…

I KNEW I had to record this episode because lately, over on Threads, I keep seeing post after post from moms asking:

“How are we juggling this?”“How are we building businesses with babies and toddlers and a never-ending to-do list?”

And I felt that so deep in my bones—because I was her.

I did the nap-time hustle. I tried to work during feedings, I tried to show up everywhere, and thought,

“Once she sleeps longer, or starts crawling, or gets into a routine… then I’ll get ahead.”

But that version of business was so draining.

It wasn’t sustainable. It wasn’t scalable.

It sure as hell wasn’t fun — it made me question everything.

and if you’re in that season right now—let’s build flowy-er.

so Let’s do a quick recap of the 3 hacks we covered today:

Hack #1: Plan for reality, not the fantasy nap schedule—protect power pockets and use them strategically.

Hack #2: Your baby doesn’t need a babysitter—but your business does. Let automation do the heavy lifting.

Hack #3: Trade perfection for progress. Let go of trying to “do it all” and let your systems carry some of the load.

And if you’re like, “OMG Save me. I need to do all of this but idk where to start”

Start with Brilliance to Bank.

I pull back the curtain to the exact backend I use— plus I give you a DFY/plug + play funnel + a fully built plug + play ManyChat flow—so you can finally stop duct-taping your business together and start building from strategy instead of stress.

This is what I wish I had implemented from day one.

A backend that sells while I rest.

That nurtures while I’m momming.

That gives me time back—not another to-do list.

So if you’re ready to stop surviving this season and actually simplify your business so it works in the background of your life?

Head to the show notes or DM me the word ‘BANK’ on Instagram and I’ll send you everything.

Let’s stop winging it. Let’s stop reinventing the wheel.

Let’s build your business like the CEO and the mama you were meant to be.

Because the juggle doesn’t have to feel so heavy… in fact, you don’t have to juggle at all.

Not when your systems are strong.

Not when your backend is built to support you.

You’ve got this.

And I’ve got you.

Until next time—cheers 🥂