The Magic Is In Your Mess
The Magic is in Your Mess is a living archive of awakening, where healing gets honest, transformation gets personal, and feeling stuck becomes sacred.
Hosted by Parul Gupta—coach, creative, and transformation guide—this podcast explores what it really takes to come home to yourself after a life of emotional chaos, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or playing small. Through raw solo episodes and intimate conversations with guests across healing modalities, Parul unpacks the unseen patterns that keep us stuck and the magic that emerges when we choose to trust ourselves.
Expect deep truths, unfiltered stories, esoteric tools, and soulful reminders that your path doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s.
Whether you’re moving through heartbreak, starting over, navigating your spiritual awakening, or rebuilding your confidence from the ground up, this space is for you.
Because the magic isn’t in the perfect life.
It’s in the mess that taught you who you really are.
The Magic Is In Your Mess
Confusion, Fear and the Truth You’re Avoiding
Confusion and indecision can feel like quicksand — the more you fight them, the deeper you sink. In this episode, I’m breaking down what confusion actually is (and isn’t), the difference between confusion and indecision, and why your nervous system might cling to both. I’ll share how fear, conditioning, and the need to keep others comfortable can keep you circling the same choice for months or even years.
You’ll hear personal stories from my own life, including the times I’ve felt completely paralyzed in a decision and the shifts that helped me move forward without having every answer.
We’ll talk about why confusion isn’t always a problem, how to use it as a sacred pause, and the small actions that build self-trust when indecision feels safest.
If you’re in that foggy in-between right now, this is your permission slip to slow down, listen deeper, and take one small step toward what you know in your gut.
🎧 Listen until the end for a journaling practice you can use anytime you feel stuck.
Links & Resources:
🎵 You Can’t Rush Your Healing by Trevor Hall - https://open.spotify.com/track/7kdJcH97qbvW7ubH6ukOTf
🖋 Want to go deeper? Free Clarity Journaling Workbook & Clarity Codes – Download them here - https://app.flodesk.com/form/689d96b8dedd9ea62fd655a3 (Workbook)
https://app.flodesk.com/form/686748d37b55f41e12bfab8b (Clarity Codes)
🌿 Season Between Stories (Work 1-1 with me) - https://parulgupta.com.au/#coaching-program
🧬 Human Design Deep Dive - https://parulgupta.com.au/#human-design
🌐 Find out more on my website - https://parulgupta.com.au/