The Lulu Essey Podcast
Welcome to The Lulu Essey Podcast — a raw, unedited space for honest conversations about building a life that feels deeply aligned with who you truly are.
Here we explore the full spectrum of well-being: mental fitness, emotional resilience, authentic confidence, and the courage to create a life on your own terms. Through lived experience and evidence-informed approaches, you'll discover that transformation is truly an inside job.
Each episode offers practical tools and tiny, consistent steps for navigating anxiety, uncertainty, and life's challenges. You'll learn how to build confidence from within, find calm in chaos, and deepen connection with yourself and others — one small, powerful action at a time.
Come as you are — no judgment, no quick fixes. Because creating a meaningful life isn't about perfection; it's about progress with self-compassion, acceptance, and the willingness to embrace both light and shadow on your journey.
The Lulu Essey Podcast
Self-Love as Foundation for Success: Building Your Career on Self-Worth, Not Burnout
Self-Love isn't soft-it's the missing infrastructure for sustainable success in every area of your life, including your career. This essential blueprint explores how to build self-worth & career resilience while navigating professional exhaustion, preventing burnout and self-depletion.
This raw conversation with Deb Boulanger when I was interviewed on her Life After Corporate Podcast explores the WHOLE and LOVE Frameworks, navigating mental health while building a business, and why treating self-love as essential infrastructure changes everything.
Whether you're an entrepreneur, climbing the corporate ladder, or figuring out your next move in your career or your life in general -this is for you.
What you'll discover:
· Why Self-Love is the foundation, not the reward for success
· The WHOLE Framework: Your non-negotiable anchor for resilience during corporate or professional transition
· The LOVE Framework: Listen, Own, Value, Embrace
· How to navigate entrepreneurship with mental health challenges
· Why consistency beats perfection in Self-Love practice
· How faith and trust are greater than hustle and grind
Powerful Quotes:
"Self-love isn't soft. It's the missing infrastructure for every success in your life, including your career."
"My mental health journey doesn't disqualify me from building a business. It informs it."
"Your success will fluctuate. Your worth does not."
"Legacy is about impact, not achievements. It's about how we leave people feeling."
"Self-love isn't the reward for success. It's the foundation."
Timestamps:
00:00 - Opening: Self-love as infrastructure
02:46 - Why self-love belongs in your career
07:14 - Corporate to entrepreneurship during mental health crisis
09:52 - The missing infrastructure: discovering self-love
15:03 - The WHOLE Framework
21:58 - Legacy vs. achievements
23:43 - The LOVE Framework
27:32 - Faith, trust, and emotional resilience
31:02 - Mental health and entrepreneurship: There's a way through
37:07 - Self-love as sustainable success foundation
This episode is for you if:
· You've felt you must choose between success & Self-Love.
· You wonder if Self-Love has a place in professional or business life.
· You're exhausted from treating yourself as least important person.
· You're navigating mental health while building a career.
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For information Deb Boulanger and her Life After Corporate Podcast:
YouTube: https://www.Youtube.com/@DebraBoulanger
Podcast Episodes: https://pod.link/1500631278
Website: https://lifeaftercorporate.com
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