She Paid $300,000 to Cheat Her Daughters Into College | The Michelle Janavs Case

She had a Newport Beach mansion. A family name on a university building. Daughters at one of the most elite prep schools in California.

She ran a charitable foundation dedicated to closing the opportunity gap between wealthy kids and kids who had nothing.

And then she paid a fraudster $300,000 to rig her daughters’ test scores and buy them into USC through a fake athletic profile.

In this episode of GBRLIFE Of Crimes, we break down the case of Michelle Janavs — heiress to the Hot Pocket fortune, philanthropist, board member, and one of the most culpable parents in Operation Varsity Blues, the largest college admissions fraud in U.S. Department of Justice history. What makes this case so unsettling isn’t the crime itself. It’s the psychology underneath it. A woman who genuinely believed in educational access, and still stole a college seat from exactly the kind of student her foundation existed to help.

In This Episode:

•         The Hot Pocket empire — how Michelle’s family built their fortune and what growing up in that world actually does to a person

•         The psychology of wealthy anxiety — why more money doesn’t mean less fear

•         Sage Hill School and the world that normalized intervention

•         Rick Singer’s “side door” 

•         How Michelle paid $300,000 to rig ACT scores and fabricate a water polo profile for USC

•         Operation Varsity Blues, the FBI investigation that brought it all down

•         The sentence — and the daughters who paid the price they didn’t choose

•         The psychology of enmeshment, cognitive dissonance, and what wealth does to your sense of where the rules actually apply

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Transcript

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There's a version of privilege so complete that it stops looking like privilege

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at all. It just looks like life, like the way things are.

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A Newport Beach home with Pacific-facing windows.

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A family name on a university building 40 minutes down the freeway.

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Daughters at a private school where their mother sits on the board of trustees.

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A charitable foundation dedicated to closing the opportunity gap between wealthy

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kids and kids who have nothing.

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Everything polished. Everything intentional. And underneath it all,

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a terror so quiet and so specific that most people who knew her would never

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have named it as fear at all.

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She's terrified that her daughters might not get into the right college,

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at least not on their own.

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That the future she decided on might not materialize without her help.

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And so she makes a phone call.

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And everything that comes after, the FBI at the door, the handcuffs,

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the federal court in Boston, the prison in Texas, it all starts here.

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This is the story of Michelle Janavs, heiress, philanthropist,

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mother, and one of the most culpable parents in the largest college admissions

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fraud in the history of the United States Department of Justice.

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Welcome to GBRLIFE Transmissions. I'm your host, Kaitlyn, and you're listening

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to GBRLIFE of Crimes, where we explore not just what happened in crimes committed

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by women, but why they happened and the psychology behind them.

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Today's case is not a story about violence or a crime of passion,

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because there's no rage here, and there's no dramatic breaking point.

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This is something quieter.

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And in a lot of ways, these are the stories that are more unsettling.

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A woman who held two completely contradictory identities at the same time and

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never seemed to feel the collision. Mom and Fraudster.

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Michelle's family built their money. I'm sure at first you're thinking,

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wasn't it always there? But no.

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Her father, Paul, and his brother, David, Merage,

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were Iranian Jewish immigrants who came to the United States and eventually

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invented something that ended up in almost every American freezer, the Hot Pocket.

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That microwavable pastry that has been feeding people at midnight since the early 1980s.

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Their company, Chef America, became a food manufacturing empire.

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And in 2002, Nestle bought the whole thing for $2.6.

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Billion dollars. So when I say grew up wealthy, I want you to have the right picture.

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Not comfortable, not well off. We're talking about a category of money where

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most problems simply stop being problems.

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They become inconveniences that someone else handles.

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But that means that the thing that runs underneath this entire story is that very sentence.

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Inconveniences. because when you grow up in a world where outcomes can be managed,

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where the right call to the right person smooths almost every situation,

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uncertainty stops feeling like a normal feature of life.

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It starts feeling like a failure of preparation, like something that shouldn't

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be happening, like a problem you haven't thrown enough resources at yet.

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Most of us learn early that rejection is survivable and that you sit with disappointment

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and recalibrate, but you keep

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going, And that process is, as uncomfortable as it is, build something.

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A tolerance for not being in control. But Michelle never got that education. She got one different.

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She got a different one entirely.

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We don't have a detailed public record of her teenage years.

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Because she wasn't flagged. She wasn't in trouble.

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She moved through school the way that you do when you belong to a world already

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arranged to receive you. Smoothly and without much friction.

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And smooth is worth examining, because smooth is not the same as okay underneath.

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And there's a particular kind of psychology that develops in children who grow

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up understanding, not because anyone tells them, but because it's the air they breathe.

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It's the tools for navigating the world that is already in their family.

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And when those tools are always available, something specific happens.

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You learn that a good parent is the one who makes sure that the outcome is never left to chance.

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You don't learn that from a speech or a lesson.

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You learn it by watching, and then you carry it.

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Researcher Sunya Luther at Columbia University spent years studying children

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in wealthy communities, and she found something striking.

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These kids were not protected from anxiety by their circumstances.

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They were, in many cases, more anxious than kids from low-income backgrounds.

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Because the pressure to succeed in specific ways that reflected well in the

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family was relentless, And it was unspoken, but it was everywhere.

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And the message, never said out loud, but always present, was that falling short

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was not really an option.

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Pressure doesn't stay with the children. It travels.

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How does it travel? Through generations. It lives with parents who have experienced it themselves,

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and then they pass it on without ever meaning to, and who are then sitting at

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Newport Beach watching their daughters approach their junior year of high school

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and feeling maybe for the first times in their adult lives, genuinely out of control.

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Now think about what happens to the child when she becomes a parent herself.

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She doesn't unlearn any of that.

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It's time to extend it. The same instincts, the same framework,

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the same deeply held belief that her job is to remove that uncertainty from the path.

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And for a long time, the best schools are waiting for their money and she has

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to provide the excellent parenting.

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So she shows up, she advocates, and she gets on the board to make sure that

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the donations happen as they're supposed to. The problem here isn't caring.

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The problem here is what happens when the caring collides with something that

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is genuinely unable to be controlled, like getting into college.

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By the time her daughters were in high school, she had built something that

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looked from the outside like a masterpiece.

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Because she sat on all these boards, and because she was part of the college

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counseling department,

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with its own suite of offices and a waiting list for appointments,

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the Mirage family had donated $30

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million to UC Irvine, which renamed its business school in their honor.

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But we're not talking small amount of money. As I said, $30 million.

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Today, that building still carries a name. And Michelle was the most trusted

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because she had the credentials.

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Credentials that people spent their entire lives trying to acquire.

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And all of that was to make sure that her children had the best of the best.

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So why would she cheat? She had everything.

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She had the money. She had the connections.

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Her family had literally put their name on the building at a university. Why was that not enough?

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But the answer here is that it was never about her daughters getting in. It was about certainty.

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Yes, a donation increases the probability, significantly even,

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but probably is not certain and probably does not create the outcome that isn't in her control.

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And for someone whose entire psychological architecture was built around the

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removal of uncertain outcomes,

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she probably felt like failure wearing a disguise.

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That is the distinction. And it's the one that explains everything.

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But there's more to this story.

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The very school that her daughters went to, Sage Hill School,

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it's not just an expensive school.

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It's a world unto itself. The kind of place where college admissions is not a senior year event.

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It's a years-long campaign where kids are being shaped and packaged and positioned

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from the time they arrive.

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Where the college counselors are tracking students long before anyone uses the word application,

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and where parents sit at dinners and compare notes about which consultants they

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have hired and which summer programs produce the best results,

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but also which extracurriculars photograph well on a common app.

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It's a world that produces extraordinary anxiety in even the most grounded families.

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But it does something else too. It normalizes intervention.

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It normalizes the idea that admissions is a game with strategies,

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that the prepared and the connected families have advantages,

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and that accessing those advantages is simply what you do.

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When every parent around you is optimizing, the line between legitimate optimization

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and something different, something more, gets very blurry very fast.

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And that's where Rick Singer lived in. And it's where he thrived.

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Because that's where he built his business.

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Rick Singer was a college admissions consultant based in Sacramento.

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And I wanna take a moment with him because he's not a minor character here, but he is the mechanism.

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And he spent years building a legitimate business helping wealthy families navigate

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college admissions because he understood the anxiety of his clients.

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And with a precision that was almost clinical.

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He knew exactly what they were feeling and exactly what they needed to hear.

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And so alongside the legitimate business, he built something else.

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He called it the side door, not the front door of grades and test scores,

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not the back door of major donations, a hidden third option where money didn't

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just influence the process, it guaranteed the outcome.

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And he never pitched it as cheating. He pitched it as a correction,

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a fix for a system already titled against even the most prepared kids,

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that this was what smart, loving parents did.

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That everyone in their circle was already doing it.

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And for someone who had spent her entire life believing that responsible parenting

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meant removing obstacles before her children ever had to face him,

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that framing didn't feel like corruption.

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It felt like good strategy. It felt like what you do when you can.

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Michelle started working with Singer around 2017.

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Singer's first arrangement was about the ACT. He had a network of corrupt proctors,

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administrators, at testing sites, willing to stay in the room after the students

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left and correct the answers.

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Her older daughter took the exam at a high school in West Hollywood,

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filled in her responses, and walked out.

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And then someone with a key stayed behind and made the adjustments.

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$50,000, and the scores improved. And that should have been the end of it.

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But it wasn't. And here's why it never is.

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Crossing that line the first time is the hardest part, but after that,

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the decision was already made. The internal friction drops.

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You already have the kind of person who's doing this, helping you,

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so why not do it again, but be consistent with who you decide to be?

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And Singer relied on that. His model wasn't a one-time transaction,

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it was relationships, ongoing, escalating, repeat business with parents whose

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anxiety didn't resolve. It just reset.

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You solve one uncertain outcome, and the next one appears right behind it.

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So in 2018, when Michelle agreed to pay $200,000 to get her older daughter into

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USC as a fake beach volleyball recruit, her daughter was not an elite volleyball

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player, but Singer decided to manufacture a profile.

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He didn't say no. He said, absolutely. Let's do this.

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A USC athletics administrator named Donna, who was on Singer's payroll,

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had the authority to flag applicants as recruits for priority consideration.

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Donna approved it. The spot was hers. And to seal the arrangement,

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a $50,000 check was sent to USC women's volleyball program.

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From the family's charitable foundation account, of course.

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From the fund that existed to help kids who couldn't afford opportunity.

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Written out to buy a spot for a daughter who had access to everything.

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So sit with that image for a second because that check, more than anything else

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in this case, is the thing.

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Then she started the same process for her younger daughter, another corrupted exam.

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More money wired. She was still in the middle of it when in March of 2019, the FBI came to her door.

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March 12, 2019, federal agents arrived at their Newport Beach home,

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and her daughters were there. They weren't charged.

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The evidence suggests that they didn't know the full extent of what had even

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been done in their name, but they were present.

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They watched their mother get handcuffed, and I keep coming back to that because

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those daughters were the reason, These stated reason.

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The people she said she was protecting.

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What does it feel like to find out that the protection was a federal crime and

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that your test score wasn't your test score or that the volleyball recruit profile

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attached to your application described as an athlete,

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you know it doesn't exist and it never did.

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53 people were charged that day across six states.

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Felicity Huffman, Lori Loughman, CEOs, hedge fund executives,

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and the FBI called it Operation Varsity Blues, and it became the largest college

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admissions fraud case in the history of the Department of Justice.

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Michelle was named by prosecutors as one of the four most culpable parents in

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the entire case, a repeat player who had engaged in the conspiracy again and

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again across multiple children,

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across multiple methods, over multiple years.

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At first, she said she was innocent, but Singer had been wearing a wire for

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months. He had recorded calls.

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The case against her was not close.

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And by October of 2019, she changed her plea, guilty, two accounts.

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Conspiracy to commit mail and wire fraud, and conspiracy to commit money laundering.

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Her lawyers went into sentencing arguing she was a sheltered mother who had

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been targeted by Singer's manipulative tactics, that the love she had for her

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daughters had made her vulnerable, that she had already been punished enough by public humiliation,

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by the loss of her standing in a community she had spent decades building herself

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into. So they asked for probation.

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Prosecutors asked for 21 months and said the letters from friends describing

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her as generous and devoted were beyond the point because generous and devoted

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people who commit fraud repeatedly over years do not get to use their generosity as a defense.

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So on February 25th, 2020, she stood before Judge Nathaniel Gordon and said,

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and I'm quoting her directly, I am so very sorry I tried to create an unfair

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advantage for my children.

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Five months in federal prison, a $250,000 fine, 200 hours of community service.

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But COVID delayed the reporting date, and then she tried to convert it to home confinement.

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The judge said no. She eventually reported to Federal Prison Camp in Bryan,

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Texas, the same low-security facility that would later house Elizabeth Holmes and Ghislaine Maxwell.

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She served her time, and her older daughter's USC admission was rescinded.

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Both daughters were banned from Sage Hill School.

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The institution their mother had helped govern. And I want to stay with that

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for a moment because I think her daughters are so involved in this story but

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get the least attention.

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However, they probably deserve the most because they didn't choose this.

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They didn't know to the full extent of what was being done.

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They were teenagers navigating an already pressurized world inside a family

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that had built its identity around achievement and standing.

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And then their mother came in and decided to remove that pressure and resolve

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it in a way for them that they had no say in.

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And when it collapsed, it collapsed on them too.

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They were banned from school. Their admissions were gone. So they weren't going

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to college anymore, at least not the college they chose.

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And their names, while never charged, were attached to a scandal that defined

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their family in the press for months.

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And there's something genuinely painful about that. Because the thing their

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mother said is that she was doing all of this for them,

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protecting them and shielding them from the uncertainty of

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an outcome that she couldn't control it became the thing that caused them the

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most public damage the protection became the wound and that is a particular

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kind of irony that i think stays with you if you let it so now we get to the

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part i think about the most not what she did because the record is clear on that as i always say.

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What was actually happening inside of her? Because I think the case is genuinely

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psychologically complicated in a way that is easy to flatten.

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And the flattened version is less honest about the complicated one.

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Because Michelle is not a psychopath in the way we have discussed other women in this podcast.

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There's no indication of warmth that was performed or philanthropy that was hollow.

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She seemed to genuinely believe in what she was funding.

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She stole a college seat from exactly the kind of student that the foundation

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existed to help. And I don't think that's the same hypocrisy.

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I think it's something more specific.

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The term here that forensic psychologists use is enmeshment.

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It's what happens when the boundary between a parent's identity and their child's

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outcome stops existing as a real boundary.

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It's where the child's success is no longer about the child.

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It's about the parent, their worth, their competence.

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Whether the story they have been telling about themselves for decades is actually true.

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Her daughter's college admissions were like a mirror held up to her.

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And the possibility that the mirror might show something ordinary or not what

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she wanted, it wouldn't reflect on them, but on her.

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And that was the kind of anxiety and the kind of issue that came with this identity

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rather than outcome. and it cannot be reasoned with because it's not a logical

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thing. It's an existential one.

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Researcher Paul Piff at UC Berkeley found across multiple studies that higher

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socioeconomic status is consistently associated with increased unethical behavior.

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Not because wealthy people are worse people, but because wealth insulates you

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from consequences in ways that gradually, without you noticing,

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reshape your sense of what rules actually apply to.

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When you have spent your entire life and your whole world where the right call

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fixes almost anything, the idea that your actions have real limits become abstract

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in a way that is simply not for people who have lived with unpadded consequences.

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You know it in principle. You might even find the cause that it's built on that

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principle, but you don't feel it in your gut.

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And so when the moment comes, the weight of crossing the line is different and

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the calculation also becomes different.

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And here's the thing about cognitive dissonance, about holding two contradictory

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beliefs at the same time, that I find most relevant in this case.

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Research consistently shows that more intelligent and self-aware a person is,

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the better they are at constructing internal adjustments that they resolve the

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contradiction without actually resolving it.

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They are better at finding the angle that makes the wrong thing feel right,

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at telling themselves a version of events in which

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What they are doing is not what it looks like from the outside.

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Singer gave her a frame for that.

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He told her this was a correction, not a crime, and that the system was already broken.

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So what she was doing was just navigating a broken system.

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It's a woman who believed in educational access and that she could do this because

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she was not really doing it the way it sounds.

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She was just helping her daughters the way any good mother would.

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And I think part of her believed that.

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Not all of her, but enough of her to sign the checks.

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But when it comes down to this case, I'm not asking you to feel sorry for her

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because what she did was wrong, deliberate, repeated, and it cost someone something

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real that they will never know they lost, admission into a college they actually earned.

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But I am asking you to feel the full weight of the world that made this feel

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like a reasonable thing to do because that world did not go anywhere when she went to prison.

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And somewhere right now, there's a parent staring at a college application,

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wondering what they can do to make that outcome certain.

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Wondering if there's a door they don't know about yet. Michelle is out of prison,

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back in Newport Beach, as far as we know.

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And Rick Singer was eventually sentenced to three and a half years in prison.

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Donna also faced her own charges. And the universities tightened some things

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and left others exactly as they were. the legal back door here is still open.

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And the question that Operation Varsity Blues forced into the open is about

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what we have decided access to elite education is actually worth and who gets to decide.

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That question was there long before she made that phone call and it will be

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there long after her name is forgotten.

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This has been GBRLIFE of Crimes, part of GBRLIFE Transmissions,

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and I'm Kaitlyn reminding you that understanding the darkness helps us appreciate the light.

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Join me next time as we uncover another case that challenges everything we thought

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we knew about the criminal mind.

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Hey, it's Kaitlyn. If you stayed this long, thank you, but a quick ask to like

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