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Mel Robbins’ Let Them Theory: We Tried the Let Them Theory and Everything Changed #letthemtheory

Jay & Brizette Lapointe

What if the answer to your stress, control issues, and burnout was hidden in the Let Them Theory?

In this episode, we explore how the Let Them Theory, popularized by Mel Robbins is helping us let go of control, find peace in parenting, and stop micromanaging other people’s choices. Whether you’re running a business, raising kids, or navigating tough relationships, the Let Them Theory offers a breakthrough mindset shift that hit both of us hard.

Jay opens up about stepping back from the pressure of being the fixer, especially in business, and how embracing the Let Them Theory helped him protect his energy. Brizette shares a raw, emotional story about motherhood, expectations, and what it really means to release control when your heart’s still invested.

We also talk about how the Let Them Theory can calm the weight of comparison, ease resentment in friendships, and help you reconnect with yourself again.

If you’re tired of doing everything for everyone and still feeling empty, the Let Them Theory might just be the mindset reset you’ve been searching for.

Topics Covered:
How the Let Them Theory helps you stop controlling what isn’t yours to manage
The hidden cost of trying to “hold everything together” and how the Let Them Theory breaks that cycle
Why comparison isn’t the enemy—resisting the Let Them Theory might be
What to do when friendships fade and how the Let Them Theory sets you free from guilt
How the Let Them Theory gives parents permission to breathe, let go, and still lead with love

If something in this episode hit home, share it with someone who’s trying to carry too much. The Let Them Theory isn’t just a trend—it’s a mindset shift that can release burnout, restore peace, and remind us we don’t have to fix everything. Drop your biggest takeaway in the comments and don’t forget to subscribe. Someone needs to hear this message: embrace the Let Them Theory… and just let them.

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