Mindshift: Transforming Perspectives on Parenting & Education
Mindshift isn't just another education podcast – it's your go-to guide for revolutionary perspectives on raising, teaching, and empowering the next generation. Join hosts Dr. Christopher Villarreal and Dr. Deb Anderson as they tackle real challenges facing families and educators today, bringing you straight talk from experts who've been in the trenches. Whether you're a parent navigating screen time, a teacher seeking fresh strategies, or anyone invested in youth success, Mindshift delivers the aha moments you've been searching for. Because sometimes the best solution starts with a shift in perspective.
Mindshift: Transforming Perspectives on Parenting & Education
Life After Divorce: Rebuilding Identity and Finding Yourself Again
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When Your Whole Identity Changes: A Story of Loss and Recovery
How long am I going to feel this way?" That's the first question everyone asks when grief turns their life inside out. Everyone told Dr. Deb Anderson a year. It wasn't a year. Ten years after an unexpected divorce following a 35-year marriage, Deb steps out of her usual co-host role to sit down with Dr. Christopher Villarreal and share the raw, honest truth about what happens when the life you built disappears and you have to figure out who you are without it.
Discover why some grief feels "clean" while other kinds follow you for years, how adult children process a parent's crisis in very different ways, and why the friend you haven't called in years might be the one who shows up to move you into your apartment. Deb also shares the practical steps that kept her going, from therapy and financial planning to the daily phone call with her daughter that became a lifeline, and explains why rebuilding her identity mattered more than any new relationship.
Whether you've experienced a major life disruption yourself, you're supporting someone through one, or you work with families in crisis, this episode offers something rare: a mental health professional's willingness to be the one on the other side of the conversation.
