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Il y a cette voix très calme.
 Celle qui sait.

Et puis il y a toutes les phrases polies
 qui viennent la recouvrir.
 Plus tard.
 Ce n’est pas le moment.
 On verra après.

Ce duel-là est discret.
 Il ne fait pas de bruit.
 Mais il érode.

Tant que la négociation intérieure continue,
 quelque chose se dégrade lentement.
 La confiance.
 L’élan.
 La netteté du regard.

Le confort devient un refuge trompeur.
 Il apaise à court terme,
 mais il affadit.
 Les projets perdent leur relief.
 Les relations se brouillent.
 La foi en soi se fragilise.

À un moment, la distinction devient claire.
 Le confort calme.
 Le bonheur engage.

Assumer sa vérité n’est pas confortable.
 Mais ce n’est pas compliqué non plus.
 C’est simple, au sens strict.

Cela demande de renoncer aux illusions
 plutôt que de continuer à perdre du temps.

Quand la décision juste cesse d’être négociée,
 le mouvement revient.
 Pas spectaculaire.
 Mais vivant.

Et c’est toujours à cet endroit
 que la vie reprend de la densité.

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:54

It's a certain moments where your decision is clear at the interior of you. And assuming. It's not great, it's not important. It's true. That comes generally by the debut of phrase. It's so dirty, too difficult, too great, too. Troop. At this moment.

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L’Exercice Des 15 Minutes

Le Prix De Ne Pas Assumer

Illusions Et Masques Qui Tombent

Vitalité Versus Confort

Choisir La Simplicité Agissante

Le Quiz De Self-Leadership

Appel À La Responsabilité Totale

SPEAKER_00 1:40

So that's all the genre of phrases that we are enjoying to party. In fact, what we decided to do is to negotiate. We decide to negotiate with our own. We decide to negotiate with what we say for them very just, with what we say to correct. And we negotiate with them. I've been appreciated to work at his life. He appeared Jack Canfield. It was in 11 years. And we were in formation and he said, I've been doing an exercise, and he said, We have 15 minutes to get one of the things that we have created in your list. In the list, we were the other responses, it was a individual. So it was who had composed the list. And we had 15 minutes. And then it was created a situation where there were people who were party, because in fact there were 15 minutes, so it was enormous for what we had nothing in the list. One of the things. In 15 minutes, I've never gotten more the consigne. The consigne was explicit. We did have a list of things that put more than 15 minutes to work and we approach our objective. And over to get the entire explicit where it would have this shit. And we have a two, one. Avec you in negotiation face to that. People are not, it's the view, it's applies to the end. And in fact, we'll go too long as that. We'll pose the question, what's that teach? Deuxième question, what's that teach to not assuming your vacation? Je vais te le dire. Parce que this fois, it's not a question overtech. What that te coûts, is ta confiance en toi, ta foi in ta propre vérité. Tu vas finir par douter de ta propre vérité. C'est la chose that devrait chérir comme un trésor, comme un bien le plus précieux, comme je ne sais pas, un lingot d'or. It's a plus précieux qu'un lingot d'or. And that's purée, it's really important. Parce qu'on nous a donné cette vérité. Il y en a qui l'appellent le contrat d'âme, la mission de vie, peu importe comment tu l'appelles, but that verity, that evidence, on te l'a donné et toi, tu es en train de négocier alors qu'en fait, tu es là pour ça. Putain, on est là pour ça. Donc qu'est-ce qu'on est en train de faire? On est en train d'éroder le trésor. On est en train de le jeter par terre. Bien sûr qu'il va s'abîmer. Alors, quel est l'intérêt de faire ce choix? On va aller en cran plus loin parce que je sais que si tu es là, c'est parce que tu peux. Et on le cran plus loin, c'est. Combien ça coûte en fait d'assumer sa vérité? Ça te coûte des illusions. Quand tu assumes ta vérité, tu vas t'apercevoir combien d'illusions entouraient tes actions jusque-là. Donc tu vas faire tomber les masks. That will te coût de voir au-delà des illusions. And est-ce qu'on n'est pas là pour ça? Est-ce qu'on n'est pas là pour ça? Voir au-delà des masks and voir au-delà des illusions. No propres illusions. Parce qu'on parle de personnes. It means that it's really a conversation important that we're in trying to have ensemble. And you say what? In fact, we're in juxtaposing two concepts. The vitality and the confort. And there's plenty of people already who mélange, mix the bonheur and the confort. The confort and the bonheur ne sont pas des synonymes, they are not proches, they're not going to do in terms of frequency, deviation, d'étymology, de sense, de definition, de rien. De rien. Non, it's not comfortable, I'm not to mention. It's inconfortable. Par contre, putain, but the viewers, it's telling. It's simple. It's inconfortable to assume that. But you know that it's inconfortable to vive in a view where you te laisses bercer by tes proper illusions? Bien sûr que tu es pas là for that. Sinon, you ne serait pas en train de m'écouter. If you're late and that episode-là, it's parce que tu le sais très bien. J'enfonce ici une porte overte. Donc on fait quoi? You say it's a bit like when you have an action and you say, for example, we'll baign in the hiver. And you don't pose that question. And so it's difficult, you say, to create the dall. And it's chiant also to débarrass the table. What's that chois? And on the train to negotiate, we negotiate touch and encourage them. And you learn même, professional, we should think that we're in train to negotiate with quelqu'un que nous-mêmes. Mais non! Non! L'autre, il est que le reflet d'un truc that's regular, qu'on n'a pas assumé, qu'on n'a pas usé, voilà, for plenty of reasons, and so on. But is we revenue to a child évident? Because you have a lot of masturbation intellectual on two, alors que la vie is telling simple. And I think there's a lot that is difficult for the people with which I'm saying, and even they ought to be like if it was sympathy to meet that, alors que moi je trouve that super. But I think that it is facile. It is simple. And if you're there, it's because you don't have a view simple. Non pas dans les termes faciles, but in the term simple. And you couple it's simple to choose, it's simple to decide, it's simple to assume, parce que just it's right. And you can the simplicity sufficient to elle-même. And this proposal I created a quiz a proposal. You can decouri gratuitement. Franchement, I think gratuitement. You can decouri your profile of self-leadership, not to work, to develop, or ameliorate, but what to conscientize in your life. And if you say, I'll give my recommendations. You'll leave it on my sites, you leave part two. The quiz is part of it. If you leave it, you can enjoy a message private for nymph platform and the link. And you verb. You vera where the focus is to fair to just assume your vacuum. Je te vois, tu es capable, tu sais, la vie is simple. Arrête de negocier avec ta vérité. Prends enfin la totale responsibility of ta vérité parce que le monde en a besoin.