NON ! L'Univers ne te "teste" pas. Voici ce qui se joue vraiment !

Nous démontrons pourquoi “l’univers qui teste” est un mythe confortable et comment chaque décision agit comme un changement de lunettes qui révèle des opportunités déjà présentes. Nous posons un cadre simple de self‑leadership pour choisir avec précision sans sacrifier nos rythmes, nos valeurs et notre paix.

• mythe des tests de l’univers et reprise de responsabilité 
• choix comme vote pour soi et liberté quotidienne 
• lunettes mentales et perception des opportunités 
• combiner ambitions plutôt que tout vouloir 
• self‑leadership face aux injonctions sociales 
• ajustements au millimètre et haute couture de la vie 
• cycles, inertie fertile et bon timing 
• micro‑choix qui préparent les grandes décisions

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Je suis Laetitia, entrepreneure, ambitieuse et libre. Depuis 12 ans, je guide les bâtisseurs atypiques, les ambitieux et les esprits libres à transformer leur vie en véritables œuvres d’art.

Si tu veux bâtir une vie où beauté et simplicité se rencontrent pour laisser un héritage puissant – pour toi, tes enfants et le collectif – alors tu es au bon endroit.

Transcript

Décision Comme Acte De Liberté

SPEAKER_00 1:11

Are you on the theme that is the test that we find live? That's the very direct with the chat and all. Alright, so I think that's a phrase that I think it should be aligned, so you can reuss and the universe when you decide to do something, it's a test. So if you imagine that we put a decision, we put a decision in our life, it's not pro, perso, familiar, conjugal, professional, personal, societal. And after you're from the university, your guide, who will make on your chemistry to know if it has really the route. You know, be sûr. Coucou! It's a reduction hyper masquine of the show, which would be that we can test it. So we are done inconditional, etc. But you can't do it of that. So we talk of that, that the universe is masking, that will test for knowing how they're really sure. But you don't know of amount, of liens, quantique, we don't care. Don't talk about that, you know. Pardon. Alright. Pardon, I'll show you a little. The first is that when you decide. In fact, when you decide for you, I know like a decision. I know like a vote. You put your pet envelope, you make your bulletin and you votes. The person for who you vote, is to be more of to. So hop, you vote for me. With that, it passes real, honnêtely. The view continues. Some of you, it's like when you've voted, you had made a lunette with a new filter that will permit, to filter the reality with a new regard. Don't pose a regard new, and the opportunities that were later, but that you never said you said you had a lunettes with a filtr blue, but you could filter, you never know, you're not capable of them just now. It's a problem of regard port on the things. Non pas for tester, pas du tout, but for teaching the opportunity to choisir encore. And that incompréhension, elle est liée à quelque chose de très important, surtout dans le féminin en ce moment, depuis quelques années sur les réseaux sociaux, where on this le Graal, ce serait ces femmes qui ne veulent plus choisir. Moi, dans ma vie, je ne veux plus choisir. Alors ça, on l'entend partout aussi. Moi, je ne veux plus choisir. J'ai fait un live il y a quelques semaines on that. If you l'avons vu, it's absolutely queen. Well, it's a remote, it's the podcast that has been the plus écouté sur my platform. Si tu ne l'as pas encore vu, tu me mets choisir. Je comprendrai direct. Je t'enverrai le lien pour que tu l'écoutes. Ou que tu le regardes. Donc le choix, c'est ce qui nous permet d'exprimer notre liberté. Surtout, je vais le dire, en tant que femme. Parce que nous, on regarde là en Europe, en Occident, notre petit nombril en se disant oui, non, mais il y a ces femmes qui font ça, moi, je ne veux plus choisir. Non, mais en fait, 80% des femmes, elles aimeraient choisir. Elles se battent pour choisir. Et les nénettes avant nous, elles se sont battues pour qu'on choisisse. Elles ne se sont pas battues que pour le vote. Elles se sont battues pour qu'on ait le choix du vote. Elles ne se sont pas battues pour l'avortement. Elles se sont battues pour qu'on ait le choix. Et le choix est l'essentiel, la fondation, ce qui est requis pour pouvoir être libre. And moi je sais que je suis venue ici sur cette terme avec les codes de la liberté. La liberté requiert des choix minuscules, moyens, grands, immenses, gigantesques.

unknown 7:47

Tout le temps.

Choisir N’Est Pas Renoncer

Combiner Plusieurs Envies Sans Se Perdre

Opportunités Multi‑Dimensions Et Ajustements Fins

Self‑Leadership Et Pression Sociale

Ambition, Chiffre D’Affaires Et Rythme Personnel

Viser Le Juste Millimètre Plutôt Que Forcer

SPEAKER_00 7:48

Plus on aspire à cette liberté, plus ça demande de faire des choix. Ce n'est jamais l'univers qui teste. C'est toi qui vas saisir ou pas, parce que tu es libre, de voter pour les opportunités qui vont arriver. And plus tu vas voter, plus il y en a qui vont arriver. Pourquoi? Non pas parce qu'elles sont nouvelles, but parce qu'en fait tu les remarques. And I'm teaching an example, I'm sure that you live. Quand tu achètes quelque chose du genre a voiture, non pas qu'elle soit new, but it's nouvelle for toi. And you teach well, it is really good parce que gna. And in fact, au fur et à mesure que tu vas conduire, tu vas t'apercevoir qu'il y en a plein. Alors, I don't bring tes rêves already. But it's not the people who are made to achieve the same bagnology that you parce que tu as acheted. And they said, Oh, wait, no, but if you have a achievement, I achete the same. Pas too, we're done. It's just that to live, you never know for me. It works with a new chaussure, with a little maillot de bain, with a color of it, it works with two or thélo. It's because you advance, the plus the lunettes that you port to be clear. And when you have a choice, plus the choice is important, plus the choice is great for toi, just for toi, so that require aucune comparaison, plus you will make a new lunettes that will permit to saisirs opportunities and to re-shois a little bit, to revot. The vote, that will be for actions, that's the choice to have or not being, the pension, what pension you cultivate at the end of topic. That I will reveal in the part of the and that will be also all the emotions that you can choose to cultivate. And you say, Wow, that I'm trying to do. But it's not because I'm that you will find. There's person exterior to me that means. Ah but we can. And the way it's I don't know, I'm not pretty. No, no, no, since the algorithm will pour it. Mettez-moi zone de comfort and I would leave. On the front, we remain at the interior of it, in the noyau, in our reality. And two, the liberty require a choice. The choix never say, you have a phrase horrible that you choose, it would be like you renonces. Choisir, it's renoncer. No, but you do. And so that is an idea simple that the gens who dish ne veut pas choisir, il n'y a pas de problème à dire that. Alors il n'y a aucune direction vers la liberté. Si toi, ton truc c'est de ne pas être libre, de vivre ta vie tranquille ou bilou et de ne pas trop te faire chier, ça c'est parfait. Par contre, si ton objectif de vie is vraiment d'exprimer ta liberté, d'oser ce que tu aimerais vraiment, d'oser vivre ta vérité, on va devoir choisir. Non pas pour renoncer, parce que on s'en fout, on renonce de fait. Moi, for example, when I feel the choice of the liberty, I renonce au system. But you renonce with tiny joy. Don't the mother renoncer, it implies that you could have a, malheureusement, I'm obliged to lay B. But when you have a very choice, that's what I'm going to talk about, when you have a very choice, it's not a renoncer. It's not a renoncer. Who? Because the 13 years that I feel the métier, deputies that I have, what I've done, it's the person that you rencontre, ce n'est pas du tout that ne veulent pas choisir. Pas du tout. It's qu'elles aimeraient combiner 2, 3, 4, 5 trucs ensemble. Pas tout. Moi, je n'ai jamais vu personne me dire no, mais moi je veux tout, tu vois. Je veux tout, moi je veux la maladie, I've the violence, the reussite, I don't know the mortal, I want the joy. No, no. Person never to gens, it is normal to have to the merde that is with. But in the spaces that I am where the gentleman of me, person. It's in general a combinaison of three, three, performance factors that the gens fonction ensemble. I'll do an example. I would fonction la réussite professionnelle with my maternity and a rythme organique, c'est-à-dire un rythme où je respecte mon rythme naturel. Trois trucs. J'aimerais combiner l'art avec la réussite financière et la maternité. Trois trucs. Donc quand j'entends tous ces gens qui disent non mais moi, tu vois. Alors en plus, c'est un discours, et c'est encore plus grave. C'est un discours qui est porté par des femmes. Et c'est hyper dangereux parce que dans un monde où la place de la femme est toujours en danger, ce qui fait la différence entre une femme qui choisit et qui ne choisit pas, c'est la liberté. Donc nous en Occident, on a quand même un énorme role à jouer parce que nous, on a la liberté pour aider nos consoeurs en choisissant pour nous. Parce que comme on est tous reliés, si moi je choisis et plus je choisis, plus je suis libre. Donc ceci étant dit, maintenant ces opportunités arrivent, because we have a nouvelle lunettes, because the opportunities were déjà là, comme je donne l'example by the voitures, the opportunities were live, but just maintenant I think, that permit quite to re choisir a little. I don't know if you're talking, but when we were in court of math and geometry, we have profound. It was not just enormous. You have uniquely three dimensions. For me, these opportunities that arrive, they will permit to ajust. But the but is to be in harmony. Don't with my new lunettes I have these opportunities that I think are new, but that are just like, that will mean to make abscess, ordinary, profonde, and to recalibrate, to say, ah yeah, but in the earliest decision that I've pressed, I have that shape, and now that I permit too in profonde. People to have a pas de côté with that opportunity that arrives. And we parle good of three dimensions, but we are done that in the very life, it's not abscess ordinary and profound. You have a dizain of dimensions different that are proposed by the opportunities that arrive and who does, okay, and then you portant that, what is your choice? But it's not masquin. You have a test, I'll pay for what. And the way to support that opportunity, there's a choice, the liberty, the expression of the liberty, and it will have just a while that we did, but okay, I choose that opportunity because it will permit too much in profonde, to leave plus, etc. Then the other code you will have what I appear the self-leadership. The choice of not realizing the action. Okay. My friend decided to go to the call to the journey. I'm very, I would have. The opportunity that I presented is to say, ah, but yeah, you can have plenty of time. You can remember when they have these opportunities perso, professional, sportive, social, societal, to implies it's just. T'as des mois qui sont toujours plus fort en chiffre d'affaires que le mois précédent, tu as plus de clients, tu as plus de boulot, tu as plus d'opportunities. En plus, la société pourrait, in that example, me tirer vers plus. And c'est là où il y a vraiment choix and expression of the liberty. And the expression of that liberty, has to feel like the quality of our leadership, the type of development of leadership that we have capable of. The leadership, I read in my mom, it's not the capacity to lead other person. I talk to my self-leadership. After literature of other person, or after, you know in the sense that you can, but you have a capacity to lead toi-même. But that's just a point of vue. You could have a super quality to lead an equipe and be a gross quiche pour te leader toi-même, qu'on s'entende. Et ça, j'adore vos commentaires, merci beaucoup. Et assumer de ne pas faire dans la société d'aujourd'hui, c'est un choix qui est énorme. Comme dans notre société d'aujourd'hui, par exemple, assumer de ne pas vouloir toujours plus. Assumer de ne pas consommer plus. Moi, par exemple, l'année où j'ai doublé mon chiffre d'affaires, j'ai doublé mon chiffre d'affaires l'année où on a commencé l'instruction en famille. Donc là, tout ce que j'avais appris comme vrai, me semble faux. And then, in fact, plus I'm plus you gonna have to. Ah, alors cell là, par contre, I've been appreciated. In n'importe quelle academy, I think these at the same time appreciate. Don't see that, potentially it's faux. And you could say this is what we apparaît at nous like et for thequel on the voter. On va voter pour s'aimer chaque jour. Donc the opportunity that we are proposed, else are less for developing our capacity to lead to them. And now we're not ego, parce que chacun is going to experiment that many different. That's a cap of super woman that I portable hyper facilitately. And in fact, okay, that I don't know facility. And this is what I do? Is that it's bad for that where I'm what I say to my friends? Is that I'm like Vas-y, fail plus, start to comfort, you seras meille. And I adore when I have who find these things exceptional. And when you say that demanded boulot, you just say but you say that, but okay, because I've got plus of gens who find their things exceptional sans effort. Because if you say that, imagine the mind in thequel we vivid. And that's really important in function, and that too, in function of what they're expérimentated on that planet the time, it's to say, okay, naturally, I'm tourists versus my education, what I've got, my experience of life, my personality, but now what I choose. And I could say that in a society who it's not normal that the famous are independent. That's good enough. Well, I'm a fan for independent, I'm an entrepreneur at success, that's good. That's good. Or I'm at the same time, I gain a lot of people. There are plenty of things like that who I don't know, I don't know what I'm saying. Because in fact, when you regard the top of you, it's not the people who are talking, I don't know. You have an egregor collective who has. Well, that's what I'm saying like that. Alright, l'ambition, it will be juggled by the fact that developing a chiffre d'affaires or to develop a product, a service, a clientele. L'ambition is that. And au fur et à mesure qu'on choisit, on enlève des lunettes avec des filtres, tac, on en rechausse d'autres qui nous permettent de voir chaque fois plus clair and in the opportunity to aimer davantage. And I continue to say that. It's a lot of proof. I've seen a fan given 14 million in 10 minutes. Ooh! Ouh! But in fact, it was in my universe, but I was possible. Don't say a truth that means, but it's a comparison. It's the view of people. The universe in the which I'm saying, did you arrive correctly? It's an universe where you are telling you about your verity. The verity is what is just for you. What is just what is a millimeters. We are in a millimeters, subtle, precisely, chirurgical. For example, I have an ear that I wear, it is on me. I'm going to tell you my line, but it turns perfectly on the poitrine, it turns perfectly on the man, and for me, I am very petite. So it turns out at millimeters, not a centimeter. Say that the difference between the centimeters and the millimetre is minimum. Then we are in millimeters. The end where I'm going to say there's a very great difference between her zone of comfort, early, for a marasme, or as you said, a little fish, an extra inertie. And you sort of comfort. And to say that the life is movement. And when it is movement, it's okay to have an inertie. We don't say I feel planted a grain of tomato in Janier in Europe and it has not marked. Parce que de l'extérieur, the arbre nous paraît figé, mais il ne l'est pas. Il y a toute une préparation that se fait et qui permet que quand ce soit fin août, September, etc., les figues apparaissent. Elles apparaissent dans un autre temps. And on est la nature, particulièrement if you regard that we are a femme. On a des cycles, on est connecté à une étoile that's a million kilometers, we are enjoying a truth that is immense, which we depassed totally, and that makes it liquid. Make 10 femmes ensemble after three months, we have no rules that synchronise. Then we are in the idea not to go to that zone of comfort, but alright to go in our life. And in our verity, not to go to our zone of comfort, but have tell you in the fact that it's right, even if you have the motor, and certainly you're not proof that it's right, that it will march, that it's correct, that the girl will compress, you finish the phrase, maybe you're not the proof. Don't you sort of that zone of comfort that require a competence life to the peur, notamment at the peur of that inertie, because it's pepper in our society when it bought. Because in three years it was different, but now we are. In fact, it will supreme. These questions when we connect to what is just for us. But it's not a choice of what I've seen at the exterior at which I think, but it's a chance that I've always seen as correct for me. And who, on the mesure that I think, I've not been physically, but in a mesure that I did, ah but it will put that form. Ah but it can put that form. Wow! For example, one of my luxuries, it had always been to not have the contract of lieu nor that had always been. And she was known at a moment, there was no internet. It was not possible. And I said to my grandfather, a year I traveled this. It was amazing secondary that he had, which was in Ariage. There was no telephone, there was no reception mobile, there was one. And she said, I think I'm here. That's right. But I said not why. And we go to another end, and that other ends of connect to the reality and to agree to vote for what we are a year. And what is right, it's not when you say that with the man, it's not that we make the code, but in fact it has a place. In fact it's inutile, it has utility. The idea is that in this zone line, we will be totally concentrated, focused, where we don't. And that where we don't live, it's not where we decide to live. It's where we say we apparently. Okay, that's your mentality, it's your teeth that creates an illusion, you know, an illusion of direction. But to represent to the amazing? You make in your line, you say, and then you make in your life, you say like I don't know if you're not in Robin desbois, you have a Percifleur, the serpent, he made in some tea, Mmm. And it's that you want to ressent. I'm at the moment with the people who cot. My clients, for example, I support the move. I don't support the mother of clients because it's not just the less that I want to entertain with them. So the people with which I work and who pay and who does that chance to live with my passion and to live to what I'm doing when I'm not paying, when I connect with them, I'm like Percifle. I feel like I am so good. Are my among me, the nourishment that I consume, the material that I have the chance to portable. I ported. But at that point I choose. And it's not the great decisions. It's also from the big decisions. And the petite decisions are always more difficult to put the great decisions. No, but that I've never been enough, but in fact I've not been on the list of the courses, so I'll put it because I've not, although I think it's a gross connerie because I don't have to change it. That's a pet decision. I'm saying if you want or not, but potentially you can have a mole of the venture, but that will pass it. Great decision, it's with what you have your view, with what you want to get your life, what are the amount that you enter, with what you decide to enter, the energy that you make in your relationship personality, it's that the great decisions. It's your amazing, it's the changement of the measure, it's good decisions and great decisions because it's like that even, but two decisions. Two shows. And if you exprime my shoes, plus I am libre. And if you have a respiratory, feel you have a demain. Like I would ask that subtility of it's not the direction that your text decides because we had the idea that it's like that. And so that's the argent. Well, what I think. A niveau emotional, a niveau of what I do, right. Don't come, it's not the time, huh? Just when you're in that. So that's an illusion. This is not an illusion, it's the direction that your name is put. And that you say before. It's so that the long time you know, what you've already seen as great. I had a masterclass that I've done because I've had the time, which is the deep knowing. The deep knowing, it's the connaissance with the which we are living. And I had a masterclass with a tableau where I've took it, etc. If you want, get me connaissance fundamental or deep knowing, and I'll see what I'm gonna make in line because you can regard. Frankly, it's what perfect to know okay, in fact, I'm here to incarnate that. And in my life, my focus is to go to that, in all the shorts, pet and great, that I have in my quotient. And so that I mean there's no interest for me. But maybe that's important for your friend, your wife, your family, I don't know, your friends, your clients, but there's an opportunity that pass. It's not because you want a voice rough that you want to achieve a voice rouge, you know? But for me, you have an amigo who churches a voice, and you're saying I've got a voice rouge, you don't want to sell it. Okay? And that for me, it's really, really subtle, because when you sort of zone of comfort and In our verity, we are already. We cultivate our foi. They will promote that when we cultivate our foi, we don't have peur. We say that it's just and on reprend the millimetre, the haute couture. It's not aligné. There's a rien that's en ligne là-dedans. It's courts. It's harmonie. And alors là, on niveau emotional, on physique, I could promote that you have to be. Because we don't have a delay. We have to do this movement when you say I'm cherry of resources at the interior of me. It's like we had a space of pelle mechanic, you say, at the end of me, like when we create a piscine, you know, that crews for that. But if you sweat to an enfant, because it's the nose or other, we can not sweat to them. I don't know why. And that's in the pet. I was with these amies samedi and samedi so and I've had fun. On the restaurant. On the restaurant and I've been. You feel what? You force to manage because we're in the restaurant? Alors, in that example later, what's that I choose for meme plus? Is that for meme plus I choose a configuration social? Is that my corner that's not fun already in restaurant? Because in the experience that I've been here, Laetitia, and that touches me, alors it's my chemist, my direction. She is content. And this energy, it will permit, you know, we understand that expression of silver the montagnes. It's that. What permit to leave the montagnes, it's not to be sort of our zone of comfort. It's not that we tested and we proved with that interior. No, it's because in fact we say. Tell me simple. But in chaque chose, and performance it's two seconds. Done the sense of just a millimetre from the vêtement. Pas aligné. You have it? Just the universe, you, the guide, I don't know what you'll apply, next to tested. It's not a maskin. So the way you have a choice, that permit to leave your filters colored to make a lunettes that are a little bit more clear on the direction that you have always, but for which you're.