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Living Boldly With Purpose
Discover how to become the person you need to be to fulfill your God-given purpose! Join us on this transformational journey as we share powerful insights, inspiring stories, and actionable steps to help you live with intention, overcome obstacles, and achieve the extraordinary. Tune in and start walking in the destiny you were made for! Becoming the person you need to be in order to do what God put you on this earth to do. Be-Do-Have.
Living Boldly With Purpose
Dating 100 Women Taught Me I Was The Problem
When our carefully constructed lives fall apart, we face a pivotal choice: remain trapped in victim consciousness or transform through victor consciousness. Jonathan's story embodies this journey from despair to purpose through one of life's perfect storms.
After his divorce at 40, Jonathan Aslay lost everything—his high-paying job to layoffs, his wealth to the 2008 market crash, and his identity as he knew it. From living in a $2.2 million home to numbing his pain through drugs, alcohol, and remarkably, online dating, he found himself cycling through over 100 first dates in a single year before his breakthrough realization: he was the common denominator in all these failed connections.
This awakening sparked not only a transformative personal journey but the birth of his career as a dating and relationship coach. Through four essential pillars—personal development, self-help, spiritual work, and therapy—Jonathan began healing childhood wounds that manifested as insecure attachment patterns in his relationships. His story illustrates how joy emerges when we're either learning something new or experiencing love, revealing why so many of us feel empty despite constant "entertainment."
Jonathan shares with raw vulnerability how building emotional scaffolding through years of inner work prepared him for life's ultimate test: losing his 19-year-old son. Rather than being destroyed by this tragedy, he chose to "grieve with love instead of suffering," a testament to how personal growth creates resilience in our darkest moments.
His insights on the difference between guilt ("I did something wrong") and shame ("I am wrong"), the journey from insecure to secure attachment, and his latest discovery—the transformative power of gratitude—offer practical wisdom for anyone seeking deeper connections and personal fulfillment. This conversation reminds us that by serving others and sharing our wisdom, we not only find purpose but create ripple effects that can transform humanity one relationship at a time.