Episode 1 - Jared Purcell - I'll Never See My Daughter Again

Episode 1

Guest - Jared Purcell

On our first ever episode of Broken Fathers Podcast, the host himself Jared Purcell (Purcy) calls in a fellow friend and acclaimed podcast host: Matty Morris from Zerolimits podcast to sit down & carry out the interview. 

Matty Morris was one of the major influences for Jared in deciding to create his own podcast, to provide a platform for Broken Fathers who have been defeated by the Family Court of Australia, to share their horrific experiences and expose the corrupt system to the general public. On the Broken Fathers Podcast, listeners will hear from men and women, who have been destroyed by this system, and are united in their determination to hold it accountable for the damage it is doing to fathers and their children.

In his three-year battle fighting for his daughter, Jared has personally faced over four-hundred (400) unsubstantiated and defamatory claims, resulting in endless Domestic Violence (DV) allegations and a subsequent trial, being relentlessly contacted by Child Protection, and investigated by Child Safety, ultimately resulting in ALL allegations and investigations being DISMISSED.

In the pilot episode for Broken Fathers Podcast, Jared explains how poorly managed the Family Court system is; highlights the emotional roller coaster that the process takes you on; and discusses how false DV allegations and parent alienation can ruin your life, employment, family, and friendships. He also explains how after being financially decimated through fighting this legal battle, and now on borrowed finances, he had to assess his quality of life, and how it was affecting him mentally, physically and emotionally. He details in painstaking agony, how he had to make the most painful and impossible decision of his life, to say goodbye to his beautiful daughter… & how he became a Broken Father.

Jared does not hold back in any way & is extremely raw throughout, However, this level of honesty and openness is vital in achieving Jared’s new purpose in life: creating a platform where broken fathers like him can also openly share their harrowing stories, in order to help others heal, to learn, and to raise awareness to end this injustice against men. 

Chapters

• 0:00 Introduction
• 2:03 Matty Morris (Guest Host) Welcoming
• 4:43 Purpose of Podcast
• 6:52 Where were you born and raised ?
• 13:02 Why you joined the ADF ?
• 26:42 Deployment to East Timor
• 36:30 Deployment to Afghanistan
• 57:40 Gambling Addiction
• 59:52 Working Nauru (Emergency Response)
• 1:01:23 Working Close Protection (Papua New Guinea)
• 1:03:10 Private Contracting Afghanistan (Australian Embassy Kabul)
• 1:06:51 Meeting Ex-Partner
• 1:17:10 Relationship Breakdown / Australian Boarder Force
• 1:24:44 Assault at dinner / CCTV
• 1:27:42 DVO served / Paying 12 months rent upfront
• 1:28:59 Communication cut / First xmas without daughter
• 1:34:27 DV Court & ABF is Subpoenaed
• 1:34:51 Supervision contact centre
• 1:35:36 Breaking down seeing daughter for first time
• 1:41:58 Allegations of breeching DVO
• 1:43:28 Family Report
• 1:45:21 ICL refusing to view hard evidence
• 1:48:40 Grandmother passes, reunited with daughter in public for first time
• 1:50:12 Exposing controlling and narcissistic behaviour
• 1:51:23 Lawyer warning before filing family court paperwork
• 1:51:58 Time and date stamping evidence to prove false allegations
• 1:53:47 Judge to lazy to read evidence
• 1:54:54 ICL supports going to unsupervised care
• 1:55:21 ICL Definition (Independent Children Lawyer)
• 1:57:08 Having to film handover to protect myself from future allegations
• 1:57:40 How being supervised is degrading and affect your mentality
• 1:59:48 DV Trial
• 2:10:01 Father awarded catch up time / Ex breachs court order
• 2:11:22 Wining DV Trial & having application thrown out
• 2:12:39 Encouraging Domestic Violence
• 2:16:49 ICL refuses request to get updated Family report
• 2:17:43 On the day of trial ICL wants trial adjourned because she now wants updated family report
• 2:21:41 Another TPO served
• 2:24:10 Reason why TPO was served
• 2:25:13 Back to square one
• 2:26:03 Putrid allegations escalate
• 2:28:12 Child Protection make contact
• 2:28:32 Child safety make contact
• 2:29:00 Temporary Assessment Order made at after hours court
• 2:29:33 Attended child safety office for questioning
• 2:32:14 Submit admission and child safety pull there application
• 2:36:24 Submit all evidence that allegations are false / Judge TO LAZY to read and puts back on supervised care
• 2:38:57 Officially Broken
• 2:41:48 Ex wants First class tickets, $50,000 cash and a new car
• 2:43:30 End up in hospital
• 2:46:49 Throw the towel in on court
• 2:46:52 Yogi passes away
• 2:47:37 Judge gives view on his fathers love for this daughter
• 2:55:39 Talk about the cheat code (Instruction manual) that mothers use in family court
• 2:56:29 Services Australia needs reform
• 2:56:53 Discussing getting Pauline Hanson on
• 2:59:08 Matt briefly discusses his journey
• 3:00:37 Child support flags
• 3:04:50 Conclusion questions
• 3:17:59 Wrapping it up in closing