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Hijacked Wedding: Our Best Man’s Proposal Stole the Spotlight

• Christa Innis • Season 1 • Episode 13

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Imagine standing at your wedding, basking in love—only for your best man to steal the spotlight with his proposal!

That’s exactly what happened to today’s anonymous guest. In this jaw-dropping episode, Christa dives into the shocking moment that turned a dream wedding into an unexpected showdown. From the best man’s ill-timed question to the groom’s furious reaction, this story is one for the books. How do you move on when your special day is overshadowed? And what happened after the proposal?

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  • The Wedding Day Bliss – A look into the beautiful, intimate wedding before the drama unfolded.
  • When the Best Man Stole the Show – What started as a heartfelt speech turned into something unbelievable.
  • The Groom’s Furious Reaction – He didn’t hesitate—his reaction left guests shook.
  • The Bridesmaid’s Awkward Dilemma – What do you do when you’re proposed to at someone else’s wedding?
  • How It All Ended – The aftermath, the emotions, and where they all stand now.
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Christa Innis: Hey guys. Welcome back to another episode of Here Comes The Drama. I'm your host Christa, today's episode's gonna be a little bit different. So every single week on Instagram, I reach out to you guys and ask for your weekly confessions. And one week the confessions were super hot and I wanna read the one that I got.

Okay. It said, my husband's best man proposed to his girlfriend during his best man's speech. My jaw was dropped. I was like, wait, this can't be real. Wait, what's happening here? So long story short, I reached out to her. She told me a little more details. I asked, do you wanna come on the podcast and share more about this?

Because so many people don't believe these stories happen and that they're real. So I have our guest on today. She's going to be completely anonymous. We're gonna have the camera off, but she's gonna answer. All of my questions when I tell you my jaw was just like, what? How? Like multiple times I was like, this, happened.

This was your friend. Wait, tell me more. so it's a pretty crazy story. We're keeping her anonymous camera's off. But it's juicy you guys. then we'll get into the other stuff. later on we got another Reddit story that is very similar on theme with proposing at weddings and some more crazy confessions and hot takes.

So without further ado, here's my very special interview. Enjoy. 

Hi there, thanks for joining me today. Thank you for 

Anonymous Guest: having me, I appreciate it. 

Christa Innis: so, I want to start off by reading the confession that you sent me over on Instagram. And it says, my husband's best man proposed to his girlfriend during his best man speech. And this, had my jaw dropped when I read it.

This was when I was just like, oh my gosh, the T is crazy today. I couldn't believe that it actually happened to someone because we hear about these stories happening. And that's when I posted a story asking everyone to send me their opinions. And so I asked if you would want to come on and share some more details to what happened.

And we're going to keep you anonymous. We're going to keep the people involved anonymous. But we want to hear a real life story firsthand because people are like, wait, This actually happened. We're going to get into people's responses, but first things first. How are you doing after everything is said and done?

I know it's been a little while, but how are you doing? 

Anonymous Guest: I'm doing as well as can be expected. our wedding anniversary is coming up very soon in so we're looking forward to one year of marriage, so yay to us.  

Christa Innis: My best man was giving his speech. 

Anonymous Guest: He was so very romantic to talk about our relationship, everything. He kept going around the bridesmaid and one of My best girlfriend was one of the bridesmaids and he went toward her he got down on one knee and he proposed to her in front of all of my friends and family.

And we had a very small wedding because we paid for it ourselves. We had maybe 50, 60 guests because that's all we could afford. And me and my new husband were utterly shocked. My husband got up, he took off his coat. He grabbed the groomsman by the neck of the collar, back of his neck, of his collar, and dragged him outside.

The best man who still had the mic in his hand yells like, wait, I didn't get an answer. And gosh, you could hear the best man. From the outside. It's like, hey, wait a minute. And one of the guests grabbed the mic before you could actually hear what was going on outside. He's like, wait, wait, wait. You could hear a little bit.

It's like, what is going on out there? You could hear some ruffling and scuffling. I still don't know what fully went on out there.  my maid of honor, God bless her. She brought me a whole bottle of champagne. And I love her for that. I just like, do you just want a glass of it? Nope. Give me the bottle.

Give me the bottle. 

Christa Innis: Wait. So when he first got down on his knee, so I'm assuming, did you guys have like one of those head tables where everyone's up front? sitting like bridesmaids and groomsmen. So did he get in front of that bridesmaid and get on his knee? And it click for you right away?

Like that's what's happening? Or you're like, what is he doing? 

Anonymous Guest: Yes, and I only had one maid of honor and one bridesmaid, I only had two people in my wedding party. So my maid of honor and a bridesmaid, so it was kind of even more awkward. So I had two party because that's all we could afford. 

 so just a small party because it's just me my husband and my daughter and my daughter is Three and a half years old.

She is my light This well now ex best friend Well ex friend I should say I keep calling her my best friend Because she felt like a best friend to me That's where I put her in my wedding party I wouldn't want someone I knew that well in my wedding party And just like, why on that day, they came back into the party.

 his hair was messed up. His shirt was unbuttoned. pants were Little ripped and this was a rental suit. What? 

Christa Innis: Wait, so after your husband brought him out of the room into the hall was the bridesmaid just sitting there Or did she go out there too? 

Anonymous Guest: she was just sitting there. She had the ring on her finger So he put the ring on her 

Christa Innis: finger before he got pulled out 

Anonymous Guest: Uh huh.

Christa Innis: But she didn't say yes at that point yet? No. No. Was she like, was she 

Anonymous Guest: like waiting for something to happen? I still don't know. I think she was going to say yes, even though they've only been dating for like three and a half months. Wait, really? 

Christa Innis: Only three and a half months? And he thought the best time to do it was at his best friend's wedding?

Pretty much. Yeah. So, and the other thing is too, it's your friends and family. It's an intimate small wedding. It's not a huge wedding where he's already family. So his family and friends are there. They're now expecting your family and friends to celebrate them. 

Anonymous Guest: Exactly. Exactly. So I'm just like, what's going on?

 my maid of honor is trying to calm me down. Like he came back to his seat. I asked him what is going on. It's like, don't worry. I took care of it. I'm like, what do you mean? You took care of it. It's like don't worry about it and I couldn't figure it out what do you mean you took care of it?

It's like don't worry about it for the rest of the night and I kept trying to figure out what he meant Until later on in the night and I noticed his shoes He broke his rental shoes. He didn't have the soles of his shoes on, he broke his shoes. And I noticed the back of his head, um, you know how the ears have on the shirts?

The button ears on the shirt? he broke part of his shirt on the button ear shirt. And on the back of his jacket, broke the jacket. He ripped the jacket in half. So that's why you didn't have the jacket. So the groomsman had to pay for the jacket. Like, he tore his whole wedding suit apart. The groomsman ripped his jacket?

No,my husband ripped the jacket. He tore his entire wedding suit apart. When he pulled him outside? Yeah, he beat him up pretty much. Oh my gosh. I know he's had his best charges, truthfully. So. Whoa. 

Christa Innis: If he's crazy. then he comes back in with your husband and he acts like nothing happens.

He still goes up to his now fiancé. She says yes, jumps up and down, right? Of course. 

Anonymous Guest: My maid of honor told her to sit down. this isn't your day not to celebrate. Yeah. It's like, do not make this day about you. It's like, but this is my engagement party now. She thought we should make this day about her as well.

She said this is my engagement party now? Yes. What?! Yeah, it's like, we should make this day about me as well. 

Christa Innis: That is bonkers! Oh my gosh. 

Anonymous Guest: Wow. 

Christa Innis: so I forgot to mention to everyone is that I made it into a skit, and so many people were like, oh, it's not that bad, blah blah blah blah blah.

No, this is bad. This is really bad because not only did they not ask for permission, it was a small intimate wedding. They took that from you. You paid for it all yourselves. You invited people that you were like, these are close friends. people we love and we trust. And then on top of that, then they want to turn it into their own engagement party, completely negating any feelings you had about the whole situation.

Anonymous Guest: Correct. It was. And I was in tears. My maid of honor took me to the bathroom to, uh, dry my tears. Because we had like maybe 50, 60 guests.  I rented my wedding dress because I couldn't afford a wedding dress. And I know that's stupid to say, but I wanted something, something I could have. I borrowed a wedding dress for the ceremony and bought a little party dress.

Mm hmm. For the reception, just a cute little something I got from the store. So, silly, my friend's like, you should just spend money, but it's like, a single family. You don't need the luxury things. Mm hmm. So, why not? So, I spent like maybe 200 on my dress, and my friend made the cupcakes for free. So.  dried my tears.  I came back out and she was gonna do her maid of honor speech. They were out there with our photographer doing photos. around, showing off the engagement ring, all this wonderful stuff, like, we're engaged. They're in front of the 

Christa Innis: photographers getting photos taken?

Yeah. Okay, so I need to know, I know I'm kind of jumping the gun, but did they try to get those photos from you? 

Anonymous Guest: My photographer wouldn't release them. 

Christa Innis: Wouldn't? 

Anonymous Guest: They wouldn't. Oh, good, good. I mean, sure, that's the one thing, because my photographer was also one of my friends, so she did my photography for like 150 for me.

Amazing. And she's also my daughter's godmother, so that helps the situation. Yes. Yay! For deals. You find the deals where you can get them. Absolutely. Take advantage of it, what you can find. And I was like, don't do this today. So we all sat down, back to saying my maid of honor did her little speech and made fun of the situation, made little jokes about him on the side that only he would get.

And it kind of Irritated him a little bit. Like, you shouldn't be saying things about me. And just like, made little jokes. And then she knew my daughter there. So, she grabbed my daughter from her little seat. Cause we made like a little kiddie table on the side.

For her to be part of the wedding party. 

Christa Innis: So like 

Anonymous Guest: a little kiddie table with a princess crown, everything like that. and she came out, they did a little dance, they worked on together and it was just such a cute addition to the party. I love that.  and that just really made my day.

You 

Christa Innis: need a maid of honor like that. That's going to be like, hold on, let me take care of this. Exactly. 

Anonymous Guest: And people, like, what's with the little dance,  The dance was perfect. What's made it even better, like, 

She was dancing with my daughter and she had a glass of champagne and my bridesmaid's little dresses they were just cheap little dresses they were like a purplish color and she went over to my other bridesmaid and she accidentally slipped and it fell on the dress it's like oops and it was a little champagne it's like oops sorry this slipped it's like you ruined my dress it wasn't on accident 

Christa Innis: Yeah, I'm surprised, your bridesmaid stayed after that so she was like proudly walking around with that new ring and Acting like this was not her engagement party She had no shame about how it all went down Thought it was totally fine the way he did that after only dating for three and a half months.

I can't even get over that To take that moment from you guys. Did you have any idea of? Like he was going to do this or anything I got feeling no, so you're completely blindsided 

Anonymous Guest: No, oh my 

Christa Innis: god, 

Anonymous Guest: the champagne. We just got for our little table. Everything else was just like Beer and little stuff you can get from the store.

That's the one thing I splurged a little bit because I just wanted to think for me to celebrate. 

Christa Innis: Yeah. 

Anonymous Guest: So, 

Christa Innis: okay, let's talk about really quickly. How did your family and other guests that were there react? Did anyone say anything to you or did they make faces? Did they try to like move past it?

Like what went on with that? 

Anonymous Guest: Well, on both sides of our family, um, both of our parents are gone. Okay, so my uncle's aunt, they were really upset to say that. Yeah. Cousin, she wanted to teach him a new one. Let's put it that way. And she does CrossFit on the side, so she could deadlift him in a second and throw him over something, a bridge.

She's like, I know people. I can put a hit on here if you want me to. It's like, please don't do that. I love you, but please don't do that. but this is your day. Please don't put a hit on somebody. but it'd be fun. It's like, we're not going to put a hit on somebody. Oh gosh, I love you, but please don't, it's thought that they cared about me and they stayed for the entire reception.

They left. and at the end of the night, he's like, can we get a ride with you guys? I'm like, no. please know we're going home with our family and going to enjoy a family night together. 

Christa Innis: Yeah. 

Anonymous Guest: It's like, go do your own thing, please. next morning they said, you guys do want to go get brunch?

They wanted to go get brunch. 

Christa Innis: So they had no idea still that they did something wrong. They were just living in their own la la land. Pretty 

Anonymous Guest: much, 

Christa Innis: yeah. 

Anonymous Guest: What? 

Christa Innis: After how 

Anonymous Guest: you guys reacted? Yeah, they wanted to go get brunch. They want to still go mini golfing, do everything that we have planned for next day.

Christa Innis: did they apologize once? 

Anonymous Guest: No. 

Christa Innis: Not even for the timing? The timing wasn't right.   

Anonymous Guest: No, I'm still getting messages from her on other platforms, like, what's going on, everything like that. Oh 

Christa Innis: my gosh. how does your stand with them today? I know you said ex friend. Does your husband talk to his friend?

Cause that's really hard. I mean, that was his best man. That's your bridesmaid. She's asking you, like, what's going on? Has there been any communication? 

Anonymous Guest: On my side with her, no. He's trying to open that wound back up. Cause this was his friend since 6th grade. Okay, your husband's 

Christa Innis: trying to open it back up?

Anonymous Guest: Okay. So he's trying. I'm like, if you do, keep me out of it. Okay. Keep my child out of it. 

Christa Innis: Cause what happens when they invite you guys to the wedding? 

Anonymous Guest: They're actually already married. 

Christa Innis: Oh! They already got married. 

Anonymous Guest: They got married on New Year's Eve and they are expecting. 

Christa Innis: Okay. Okay. So were you at the wedding or did they do a private?

Anonymous Guest: You were like, I'm not going close. So, 

Christa Innis: okay. Okay. So no invite. They probably didn't want to invite anybody because they were afraid that karma was gonna get 

Anonymous Guest: them in the back. 

Christa Innis: Oh My god Okay, so like I said earlier, I think I said this before I started recording but when he first sent me this story I Opened it up to the audience to my followers to kind of said like their reactions So I want to read a few of these reactions and this was probably the most Responded to thing that I ever got I put a little question box people could submit things I would say I probably had like Over hundred, 200 responses from people.

So these are their responses. I said, what would you do in this situation? Someone said, I would want my husband to address the best man, not make me be the bad guy. Someone said shocked and angry, not well. My anger issues could not. I would not be happy. I'm not a big spotlight person, but let the bride and groom have their day.

This person, who seems like an odd, response here, says overjoyed. I believe in sharing love as long as the girlfriend wanted a public proposal. I am so, no, don't do that. If you want a public proposal, find a different spot. This person says I'd wait until the initial hullabaloo was over, and then ask them to leave.

did you think about asking them to leave? 

Anonymous Guest: Oh, I should have asked them to leave, but if I had more of a wedding party? I probably would've, but, mate, I probably should've looked back. I probably should've had them leave. Just have my maid of honor and best man. Well, I didn't have my best man.

Was, I just have the groomsman. 

Christa Innis: Yeah, 

Anonymous Guest: my groomsman was like, I want no part of this. 

Christa Innis: I know it's almost like hearing story I'm like, okay we can say he's  super naive and did that but to then Trailing around using your photographer acting like it's their engagement party Like that's someone that literally wants to steal the spotlight from someone else.

They have crept up jealousy or Anger or something where they want to make you feel bad. So I read that as just completely disrespectful. okay. I'm going to read a couple more. It says my face wouldn't say anything at the moment, but later I would sure be asking them to leave. I would turn off the mic, ask them to leave.

I'd probably be too shocked to react. This person says a swift punch to the throat.  it would be an option. It said, if they ran it by us first, maybe, but other than that,that's a big hell no. So I would say most people agree that that's completely disrespectful and wrong.

There's random people in there that are like, I wouldn't make a big deal of it, but you didn't make a big deal about it. You had a normal reaction to something that was kind of crazy. And like I said, If he was just kind of naive and maybe like, snuck off to the side and they did it where no one saw them and didn't make a big deal.

Okay, that's still not great, but it's better, but the fact that they did it during a speech where everyone can see at a small intimate wedding and then parade around trying to get like private photos and all that and showing the ring off, it's just terrible. 

Anonymous Guest: Yeah, it's one for the books. I always pictured my wedding as a peaceful day, relaxing, nothing like this.

Yeah. You know what? Once in a lifetime, it's something I'll always remember. 

Christa Innis: Yeah, that's true. how are you today with everything? Like looking back on your memories, are you able to highlight the positive memories, like your amazing maid of honor, the I know you talked about your daughter being involved in the wedding, so those are some really amazing moments to look back on and kind of block out the negativity.

Right. 

Anonymous Guest: Oh, my daughter's my lifesaver. My daughter and my husband are my godspens. That's all I can say. They are my saving graces and I love them. I love my daughter more right now, but hey. Everyone has a favorite in the household. Yeah, yeah, I get that. And my maid of honor will always be my best friend for saving me that day.

I love that. And I think when all this happened, I was probably numb from shock. I probably was angry inside. Yep. I'm not gonna lie, I was probably angry. I just didn't know how to react. Yeah, definitely. 

Christa Innis: Yeah. And I think here too is people hear these stories and they're like, Oh my gosh, weddings bring out the worst in people.

But to kind of do a little spin on this, I think it can bring the best out in other people. So you saw a side of your maid of honor, like, wow, she really loves me, protects me and supports me. My husband immediately got behind my back, stood up against him, you know, all these amazing people in your life.

and it's really unfortunate that happened this way, but True colors come out and it's sometimes a good thing that it reveals the true colors of people because you're like You know what? I'm not gonna have someone like that in my life 

Anonymous Guest: 

Exactly. And I can't wait to be my maid of honor's maid of honor in her wedding in October.

Anonymous Guest: So yeah. So since getting married in October, I can't wait to do that job and hopefully we won't have the same reaction. 

Christa Innis: Exactly. Yeah. And you'll know exactly what to do to make sure she stays relaxed and excited on her day and block out all the negativity. 

Anonymous Guest: Negativity. Yeah. I just got to get to New York.

That's the only place I got to get to. Exactly. And my daughter is the flower girl. So perfect. Perfect. 

Christa Innis: Amazing. Awesome. Well, thank you so much for coming on. I know it's a hard story to come back to and talk about, but like I said, I hope you're able to pull positives out it that you have amazing people that support you and love you.

And, thanks for sharing. 

Anonymous Guest: Oh, no Hope this helps other people in this situation. 

Christa Innis: Yeah, absolutely. 

Anonymous Guest: All right. Thank you so much. I do appreciate it. 

Christa Innis: Yeah. Thank you. 

All right guys, we're gonna go ahead and continue this episode. It's gonna be a little different this week since we kind of started with a confession, a hot take and a crazy story all in one. Still kind of recovering from that one. I just can't believe that happened to someone. I feel so bad that her wedding day was trumped by that, but it sounds like there's still a lot of good memories from her day. 

So I thought we kind of continued with that. Theme and I would read an am I the asshole story from Reddit about proposing at a wedding, and here's kind of a different perspective on a different type of wedding proposal. Okay, this says obligatory. I know it sounds bad, but hear me out. I'll try to keep this short.

So me and my now fiancé have been together for six years and about the last year we've been discussing more and more about getting married 

and she wanted to do it, to have it still be of surprise and said she'd be happy however, and whenever I did it. But I'll admit I'm terrible at surprises coming up with ideas like this, but I still wanted her to love it.

Christa Innis: So for context, she and her sister are basically best friends. They have one year age difference if that matters. And she's married one of my best mates. So we're all close and do things together a lot. 

 

Christa Innis: A few months ago, while their planning was still going on, I sat both of them down and asked if I could propose during the reception, but that I 100% understood if they said no because it was their day after all. 

Okay. Before I keep going, 'cause I've not read this whole thing I just talked about in another video when this happens, I always wondered how it comes about like.

Does the person ask the bride and groom, or is a bride and groom like, Hey, you should propose to so and so. I've seen it both ways and I don't know again what happens, but personally, only people that should do the asking is the bride or groom. And if they're agreeing together, like, Hey, let's talk to so and so.

He should propose to his girlfriend or whatever. But other than that, it's still like you're putting them in a weird position because why would they. Start drama by them being like, no, I don't know. It just is like uncomfortable. 

Christa Innis: They immediately said it was a great idea and we're excited for it.

Sister-in-law loved the idea because their family would already be there too, 

so. Okay. I can also see too, the story we just talked about. I was like, oh my gosh, It's a friend. it's intimate for the bride and groom. They don't have their family and friends there, but this is a circumstance where it is all her family.

It's like they're super close. They're practically twins, so they love the idea. I even offered to pay half the reception bill, but they refused. I still gave them something as a sec, wedding gift anyway, and over the next few months. 

Christa Innis: We talked here and there about how it would be done and decided it would be done during the bouquet toss and all the other bridesmaids were in on it because most are mutual friends.

 I've seen this kind before. 

Christa Innis: The wedding was yesterday and we didn't see a lot of each other because the maid of honor and groomsman duties, everything went off without a hitch and it was time for the bouquet toss, and the girls gathered sister-in-law pretended to go throw it, but turned around and handed it to her.

Instead, she turned around to me with a confused look, but saw me on my knee with a ring pop. 

Sounds dumb, but it's an inside joke between us in my hands and laughed through her tears. 

Christa Innis: Obviously she said yes, and the rest of the night went great. However, when we woke up in the morning, she was acting very weird and distant, and when I asked her what was wrong, she said she felt weird about me proposing at her sister's wedding.

Here's a side we don't normally hear that. It just felt wrong, like she stole her sister's day. I explained that she was very obviously in on it and was very excited about the idea and encouraged it, but she said it still felt weird and then left for work. I haven't heard much from her today since. 

Did I do something wrong?

Okay. There's a small update, but here's my initial reaction. I don't think he did anything wrong. I do think it's kind of weird to go to the bride and groom and say like. Hey, can I propose to my girlfriend at your wedding? Oh, it means her sister, but can I propose to her at your wedding? Because like, I always think I'm like, there are so many other days of the year, 

We can't get a little creative, take her out to dinner. Like it's not that hard to do a Google search. it's still your idea to potentially take from the sister's wedding. And even if the sister had an idea in her head like, Hmm, I don't really like that idea. She's so close to her sister that she's like, I don't wanna take this away.

So they sound like two sisters that are both about supporting each other, being each other's best friend. So it's kind of an awkward situation because they both wanna support each other and they both want them to have this dreamy engagement proposal and wedding. So she says yes, and then the wedding is just like, yeah, it's performative, right?

Because he's asking her in front of all these people, so she's like, yeah, it's, oh my gosh. But then it comes down to it. She feels weird. I don't know. That's my initial thought. It's like, that's the thing. It's. Even if you're okay with it, you get the, okay. The bride still might be like, I don't know, like I wanted my sister have her day.

Because then when it comes to their own wedding, what if someone else wants to do at their wedding? And they're like, well, you did it at someone's wedding. Or what if the first sister is like. I'm pregnant. I'm gonna announce it at the reception I'm giving my maid of honor speech. and not saying all families are competitive in that way, or they're gonna do it in a negative way, it could be very positive and very supportive, but I just think we need to think about these things.

Like this last story with our guests, they turned it into their own engagement party. it doesn't sound like these sisters have that relationship. I feel like they're very supportive, but. I don't know, small update. She came home and we talked. I definitely was adu about the wedding thing, but she said she still loved it because our family was there.

And after talking to her sister as well, she didn't feel so guilty. She explained that it wasn't until afterwards she realized she wasn't actually okay with a public proposal she originally thought, and we had talked about, she was just hit with a lot of feelings. We basically apologized to each other for a few things that even though.

All our talks we hadn't actually talked about and led to assumptions. I made dinner. They had already planned for us and did my proper proposal with her and the whole speech. There you go. Keep it short, sweet, and intimate. Let's take away those public proposals. Overall, everything ended well and communication is key.

Even after six years together, we're still learning new things. I don't think he's the asshole. I like the self-reflection here. Like I said, it's a weird situation. and he was given the, okay, but it's still like a weird, a weird thing. Okay. that was a lot. but two different situations of how things can go down.

one showed no respect at all. Just completely soon, the day after being together for three and a half months. The next one shows a high level of respect and self-reflection on both parts, right? so in the last story, I don't think anyone's like the bad person, of course. I think he did all the right steps.

However, some people will still listen to that and be like, no, you should never ask to do that. Okay. Let's get into our weekly confessions game. We're doing things a little different this week. this one says, my bridesmaid asked me to move my wedding venue two weeks before the wedding. Why are we doing that?

Why are we moving wedding venues? Why does she have the audacity to ask that? And it's not the wedding date. So it's not like something came up for her. She does what doesn't like the wedding venue. I'm confused by that. No, we're saying no to that. Okay. My mother-in-law invited two out-of-state people to my bridal shower and told them I would host them.

You mean like stay at your house? Yeah, that's what I'm getting from that. No, we're not doing that. We're not,volunteering other people to host people for us, that's, no, we're not doing that. Last confession. I blocked my husband's ex on his Facebook page without him knowing. Ooh. Wow. Okay. Was he looking at her Facebook page all the time?

Was it an issue that sounds more like an issue between you and him? Not necessarily him and her. Was he on Facebook? does he go on Facebook a lot? I don't know. Ithat's on you, girl. Oh my gosh. Okay. This is crazy. That was probably one of the craziest stories I've had. Let me know what you guys think about this having guests on.

I have one more scheduled like this coming up. Um. And the one coming up is actually a story that we read anonymously on the podcast, with Suzanne. And so many people commented like, I need more. As Suzanne and I were reading this, we were like, this is insane. We need a part two. she's coming on.

And she's gonna share more about the story and give more details into what happened coming up. So we'll give more details to that. But that's the story with Suzanne Lambert. If you guys wanna go back and check that one out as well. But let me know what you guys think about having guests on or more brides on to share their.

story. Someone messaged me not that long ago saying that I should have a bride episode and invite on like multiple brides to just all chat together. And I kind of thought that was kind of a cool idea. So let me know what you We will be, sharing some more stuff like that shortly.

also some exciting news if you guys have not seen yet. I do officially now have a Patreon, which I am so excited about. Don't worry, nothing is going away right here. You'll still get your regular four episodes every single week. Patreon will get you a bonus episode every month, the first Monday of every month, where we are gonna be deep diving, some different areas of, Weddings. So the first episode is about bridesmaids. all different areas. The stories are gonna be around bridesmaids. the confessions are about bridesmaids. Hot takes about bridesmaids and so much more. And then we're gonna be going to groomsmen and continue on through that. So that is on Patreon.

It's a bonus episode. All Patreon subscribers will get, the regular episodes earlier as well, as well as a private chat. So we have a private Patreon chat where we can go in there, share our thoughts, feelings, concerns, and hopes for the future. I don't know, whatever else you wanna share, your favorite color.

all right guys. That's all I have for you this week. Thanks for tuning in, and I will see you next time. Bye now.

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