Spil'n TEA

Women Are the New Nig**s: The Truth Behind the Phrase

Tahshea Season 1 Episode 3

Spill it ✨

✨ Why are more women saying, “I don’t need a man, I’ll be the man myself”? It’s not just a trend—it’s survival.

This episode breaks down the raw truth behind the phrase “Women are the new niggas” and why so many of us are trading 🫶 vulnerability for power 💪, softness for strength 🖤, and love for independence 👑.

From the generational struggles Black women faced to the cultural expectations of Latina, Caribbean, and African women 🌍, we’re unpacking the experiences that led us here.

But here’s the real question: Is shutting love out really the win we think it is?

💔 I’m sharing my own journey of moving from hurt to healing 🪞, from bitterness to balance ⚖️. Because being independent doesn’t mean you have to be cold ❄️, and protecting yourself shouldn’t mean punishing yourself.

This episode will challenge you 🤔, comfort you 🤗, and most importantly—make you reflect.

☕ Tune in, sip your tea, and let’s get real.
Because sis, we deserve more than survival—we deserve peace ✌🏾, love ❤️, and happiness 🌸 on our own terms.