36 Autism & Neurotypical Kids: One Framework, Better Results

On Wake Up Your Soul with Andrea Lynn, autism dad and advocate Clain Udy shares how his son’s autism diagnosis sparked a strengths-based approach to parenting, learning, and life. Clain breaks down early misconceptions about autism, the mindset shifts that changed everything, and the creation of the First Ascent program to help kids lean into their natural talents.

While rooted in autism, these strategies are universal. Parents and educators of non-autistic (neurotypical) children will learn practical, research-informed tools to build confidence, resilience, executive function, focus, and motivation—at home and in the classroom. Expect clear examples of spotting strengths, designing interest-based learning, establishing supportive routines, and using a neurodiversity-affirming lens to help any child thrive in school and life.

You’ll learn:
• How a strengths-based mindset transforms behavior and learning
• Simple practices to boost confidence and self-advocacy
• Interest-based strategies that increase attention and follow-through
• How the First Ascent framework supports growth for all kids

00:00 Introduction and Disclaimer

01:01 Andrea's Near-Death Experience

01:33 Welcome to Wake Up Your Soul

01:38 Introducing Clain Udy and His Story

02:20 Discovering Autism in Clain's Son

04:15 Early Signs and Diagnosis

08:07 Challenges and Realizations

17:30 Focusing on Strengths

25:33 Creating the First Ascent Program

30:17 Discovering Your Strengths and Career Alignment

30:45 Preparing for Your Career Journey

31:58 Embracing Neurodiversity and Autism

35:25 Rewriting the Playbook of Life

36:34 Rebranding Autism: The Book

37:52 Understanding Autism and Its Strengths

49:04 Navigating Autism Diagnosis and Support

59:24 Conclusion and Resources