who decides if it's a BIG DEAL?

you’ve achieved something. you’re proud. excited.
It means a lot to you until you share it.
some people clap, some nod, some barely react.

uuuhm okay! so who gets to decide if it’s a big deal or not?
you? them? him? her? the internet? the silence in the room?

who who who the owl??

now what?

should you second-guess it?
do you keep on keeping on?
do you tone it down or celebrate even louder?
Is it a big deal… or is it not?