Las Locas Chronicles
Welcome to our podcast—A podcast about two Latinas, one faith, endless stories! This is a podcast about 2 friends, Pastor Alexa Pineda and Pastor Jessica Fernandez, PhD, two Latinas from New York who are all about helping Christian women like YOU step boldly into your God-given purpose.
After 30 years of friendship (yes, THIRTY!), we’re keeping it real and talking about everything—what friends, wives, believers, and pastors struggle with, plus all the beautiful, messy, and faith-filled moments along the way.
Think of us as the tĂas you never had but always needed—the ones who’ll cheer you on, tell you the truth (even when it stings), and pray over you like your abuela would. Here, we serve up real talk with a side of spiritual fire—Bible truths, practical advice, and a whole lot of corazĂłn.
So, grab your cafecito, hit that subscribe button, and let’s grow, glow, and give God the glory together. Dios tiene grandes planes para ti—let’s get to it!
Las Locas Chronicles
Episode 55: Red Flags in Relationships
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Are you ignoring red flags in your relationships? đźš©
On this episode of Las Locas we explore warning signs in all types of relationships — dating, friendships, family, church, leadership, and more — through the lens of Scripture.
One of the biggest red flags in any relationship is a lack of honor and respect. This shows up when your thoughts are dismissed, your boundaries are ignored, or your voice is minimized. Honor doesn’t require agreement, but it does require recognizing the value God placed on you. When respect is missing, love cannot function the way Scripture intends.
Another serious warning sign is manipulation and control. This often hides behind concern, spirituality, or “wanting what’s best for you,” but it uses guilt, fear, or pressure to get compliance. God leads through truth and freedom, not coercion. Healthy relationships allow room for choice, growth, and wise counsel.
A third red flag is chronic dishonesty—patterns of lying, half-truths, omissions, or rewriting stories when confronted. Trust cannot exist without truth. Where honesty is absent, stability and safety disappear.
In this episode, we talk about why these red flags are often ignored and why discernment and boundaries are not unloving, but necessary. God does not call us to tolerate what damages our hearts, our faith, or our peace.
Learn how to discern healthy connections, set godly boundaries, and build relationships that reflect Christ’s love, truth, and peace.
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