Why Are We All People Pleasing?!

Why THE HELL are we all out here saying “yes” when we really mean “f*** no”? This week, Alyssa and Teresa dive into the people-pleasing epidemic—why we do it, how it’s lowkey ruining our lives, our jobs, our relationships- and most importantly, how to stop. If you’ve ever agreed to plans you immediately regretted or apologized for something that wasn’t your fault, this episode is for you. Time to set some boundaries and reclaim your peace—without the guilt. 

If you’ve ever smiled through a favor you definitely didn’t want to do, texted “of course!” while crying inside, or said “I’m so sorry” for something that wasn’t even your fault—congrats, you might be a people pleaser! 

This week, Alyssa and Teresa are calling out the people-pleasing problem and asking the big questions:

• Why do we care so much about making everyone happy?
•  How is it actually holding us back?
• How is it impacting us in business and relationships?
• And how do we finally stop without feeling like the villain?

We’re talking boundaries, confidence, and why “no” is a complete sentence—with plenty of laughs and maybe a little tough love along the way. So if you’re tired of being chronically agreeable, this episode is your permission slip to put yourself first (and leave that group chat you secretly hate).

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