Three Rings Later: From Breakups to a Main Character Glow Up Ft. @TheRealSahd

This week on Missjudged, Alyssa sits down with the iconic, stunning and sweet  Roma Abdessalam (@TheRealSahd) — influencer, entrepreneur, and certified comeback queen — for a hilarious and unfiltered deep dive into her three engagements, dating rules, and the ultimate glow-up era.

Roma opens up about her dating history and her engagements, the lessons she’s learned along the way, and how every “almost” shaped her into the woman she is now. Together, Alyssa and Roma talk all things dating, delusion, and reinvention post breakup.

They also unpack the real side of dating as an influencer, the biggest misconceptions about her online persona, and how she’s mastered an abundance mindset that attracts everything from peace to Prada.

This episode is equal parts therapy, comedy, and chaos — a reminder that the real glow-up starts the moment you stop chasing closure and start acting like the main character.

We spill about:

•  Her ex-fiancés and what each taught her about love (and herself)
• How to turn a breakup into a full-blown main character glow-up
• The truth about dating as an influencer and public relationships
• Her abundance mindset and how she manifests everything from peace to diamonds
• The hilarious Missjudged game: Petty or Powerful
• Plus: A rapid-fire Q&A full of tea, truth, and chaotic honesty