Episode 18: From Texas to Truth- AJ’s Journey to Freedom

In this courageous and deeply personal episode of Sober Disclosure, Breezy and Jimmy sit down with AJ—a man with three and a half years sober, a powerful story of resilience, and a deep commitment to doing the work. As Jimmy’s sponsee, AJ brings raw honesty, Southern grit, and a whole lot of heart to the mic.

Growing up in the Bible Belt of Texas, AJ struggled not just with addiction, but with the shame of being gay in an environment where he felt he had to hide who he was. It wasn’t until he came out to California for treatment that he experienced what it felt like to be truly seen—and accepted—for the first time. He shares the moment he asked Jimmy to be his sponsor, and how Jimmy gave it to him straight: “I’m crazy, and you better be ready to work.”

AJ’s path hasn’t been easy. After a period of sobriety, he spiraled into psychosis, and it was his mom—an Al-Anon member and one of our most dedicated listeners—who helped rally the family and convince him to return to California for treatment. Facing jail time back in Texas, AJ was granted a second chance by a judge who offered him an opportunity to change his life—if he followed through. And he did. Not only did AJ complete six months of treatment, he went on to become a house manager, a leader, and an example of what recovery can look like when we show up fully.

One of the most powerful moments in this episode is AJ’s story of his third step—how, with Jimmy by his side, he made a pact with his Higher Power and began to rebuild his life on spiritual principles. His journey is one of redemption, freedom, and finally finding peace in his own skin.

And of course, AJ leaves us laughing, closing the episode with his personal formula for staying sane and sober: the three M’s—meditation, meetings, and masturbation.

Tune in for an unforgettable conversation about identity, family, second chances, and the spiritual magic of recovery.