Decode Him: Real Talk, Real Love
Welcome to Decode Him: Real Talk, Real Love — the podcast where we unpack the male mindset and break down modern dating, one honest conversation at a time.
This isn’t surface-level advice or recycled dating rules. Decode Him blends real-life experiences, psychological insight, and candid discussion to help you understand men, relationships, and the patterns that keep repeating.
Hosted by Erica Bell, alongside Dr. Lee and Renee, each episode brings bold honesty, humor, and grounded perspective to the dating dilemmas everyone faces — from mixed signals and emotional unavailability to commitment, communication, and connection.
Whether you’re deep in the dating scene or trying to make sense of past relationships, Decode Him offers clarity without judgment, truth without sugarcoating, and conversations that actually help.
Join us as we dissect, discuss, and decode — making love less confusing and a lot more real.
Decode Him: Real Talk, Real Love
Am I Clingy… or Is He Just Not That Into Me Anymore?
In this episode of Decode Him: Dating in the Digital Age, we dive into the emotional chaos of the 3-month mark—when everything was going great… until it wasn’t.
Our listener, Confused but Caring, writes in about a guy who was all-in at first—daily convos, consistent dates—but now? He’s taking longer to text back, and she’s wondering if she’s being clingy or if he’s just slowly fading out.
Sound familiar? Yeah, it’s the shift—and we’re unpacking it with brutal honesty.
🔥 You’ll learn:
- Why men start to pull back around month three
- What "slow replies" actually signal
- How to respond without looking desperate
- The difference between showing interest and chasing validation
- And how to stop overfunctioning in a situationship he’s not even earning
If you’ve ever felt confused, anxious, or like you’re the only one putting in effort—this episode is your wake-up call. No fluff. No games. Just the raw truth about where you stand and what to do next.
🎧 Hit play and stop decoding his texts—start decoding his behavior.
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