Decode Him: Real Talk, Real Love
Welcome to Decode Him: Real Talk, Real Love — the podcast where we unpack the male mindset and break down modern dating, one honest conversation at a time.
This isn’t surface-level advice or recycled dating rules. Decode Him blends real-life experiences, psychological insight, and candid discussion to help you understand men, relationships, and the patterns that keep repeating.
Hosted by Erica Bell, alongside Dr. Lee and Renee, each episode brings bold honesty, humor, and grounded perspective to the dating dilemmas everyone faces — from mixed signals and emotional unavailability to commitment, communication, and connection.
Whether you’re deep in the dating scene or trying to make sense of past relationships, Decode Him offers clarity without judgment, truth without sugarcoating, and conversations that actually help.
Join us as we dissect, discuss, and decode — making love less confusing and a lot more real.
Decode Him: Real Talk, Real Love
Why Bad Boys Feel So Addictive?
Ever wonder why the allure of the “bad boy” feels so magnetic — even when logic says run?
In this episode, Dr. Lee, Renee, and Erica Bell decode the psychology behind this addictive attraction. We break down the emotional cravings, nervous system patterns, and zodiac excuses that keep people hooked on men who bring intensity instead of consistency.
We talk about:
- Why chaos gets mistaken for chemistry
- How emotional unavailability triggers attachment
- The difference between attraction and addiction
- And why astrology explains patterns — but never excuses behavior
This is your reality check.
Accountability over fantasy.
Clarity that finally snaps the bad boy spell.
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