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Coaching Culture with Ben Herring
Reflections: Farewell To A Quiet Architect Of Rugby
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A quiet architect just left the building—and the story behind his work is a masterclass in leadership. We take a clear-eyed look at Chris Lendrum’s two decades inside New Zealand Rugby, showing how a behind-the-scenes operator shaped player pathways, stabilized competitions, and helped elevate the Black Ferns with a strategy equal parts rigor and heart. This is a journey through culture you can feel the moment you walk in, and performance that holds an edge without losing its humanity.
We share firsthand reflections on Lendrum’s approach to negotiation and people, and why honesty delivered with care builds trust that lasts longer than any contract. Then we break down his biggest idea: high performance lives where psychological safety meets accountability. Too much care becomes comfort; too much edge becomes fear. The real work is finding that tension point, inducting people fast, and setting standards that push without breaking. You’ll also hear a five‑minute snippet with Lendrum that turns those principles into practical tests any leader can use.
From resourcing the women’s game to selecting the right head coaches, Lendrum shows that appointments are the most powerful lever in a system. Get the leaders right, and culture compounds across seasons; get them wrong, and no framework can save you. Whether you lead a team, a company, or a program, this conversation offers usable tools for building trust, sharpening standards, and sustaining excellence under pressure.
If this sparks something for you, dive into the full conversation with Chris Lendrum for the complete playbook on culture, accountability, and leadership in high-stakes environments. Subscribe, share with a teammate, and leave a review telling us where you’re aiming to add more edge—or more care—this week.
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Who Is Chris Lendrum
Roles, Impact, And Departure
Investing In The Women’s Game
SPEAKER_00Welcome to Reflections, the midweek episode where we dive into reflecting on things that have happened in real time. And what this big thing that's happened in New Zealand rugby, which I think has a lot of impact on uh all of us in this rugby community, it's about the departure of a guy called Chris Lendrum, who has been the steady hand behind New Zealand's professional game. Now, I want to raise this because I I've I've had a relationship with Chris over the last 20 years that he's been in New Zealand rugby union. Me as a player going through that context and then leading into coaching, and then now what I'm doing now, Chris has been a guy that's been there the whole way, and his leadership has been absolutely outstanding. And I just wanted to reflect on that. When someone puts in 20 years and does such an amazing job in this rugby community to lead what I would say would be easily said to be one of the best rugby organizations in the world, and he's been an influential figure operating behind the scenes at New Zealand rugby for the last 20 years. So he's helped to work shape the culture and the performance pathways of the professional game in New Zealand. While not always in the public spotlight, like coaches and players, Chris Lindrum's contribution as a strategic leader and negotiator and organizational guy has been absolutely vital to New Zealand rugby success across multiple eras and different competitions and lots of different challenges. And from the moment he joined, which was in 2006, which is about two decades ago, he's climbed his way up through the leadership uh ranks and ultimately serving as the general manager of professional rugby and performance. And so it's a pretty impressive portfolio, anyway. You know, it that encompassed national teams, professional competitions, player management, relationships with the super clubs. And this month, last week, he re announced that he would step down from his executive role with New Zealand rugby. He's gonna finish up all his leadership duties at the end of May. Uh, but I just wanted to dive in because he's been on the show and he and he did a wonderful uh episode. And if you haven't listened to it, I strongly recommend you do because what he's built uh around New Zealand rugby and all black rugby and all black women's rugby has been phenomenal. Now I want to give a little bit of background on Chris because he's an exceptional guy, and you don't always get the the credit when you're behind the scenes. So I just want to dive in today uh around him and and the learnings we as a as a rugby community can get from it. So he's he's got a bachelor of law to law and arts, and um he's actually a little bit of a side note is he's an excellent actor. Uh I've seen him act on a stage show, and he's he's very good. And over the years he's done a lot of things with the New Zealand Rugby Union. I just want to name a couple of the big ones. He's negotiated the collective and individual employment agreements for professional players in New Zealand. Now, whilst that's not relevant to a lot of us, I I certainly felt that first hand because he was part of my negotiating when I was playing, and the way he did it was just outstanding. He was clear, honest, all the good stuff you want in Liz, and I was always drawn to that fact. And he was always been uh also uh a great sounding board for me as a coach, and he really helped my growth and his leadership and advice was absolutely outstanding. Second thing, which I think is massive, is his strategic investment into the women's game, he has really contributed to the Black Fern's growth and the international success, and he throws his heart and soul into that game, and you don't always see what that looks like, and sometimes when you're looking from the outside, you don't notice it, but having seen it from the inside, he puts a power of work in he he is one of those guiding lights that have helped the transformation of the woman's game and the stuff he's done behind the scenes. And I just want to recognise that because having seen it firsthand, gee, it's good. Not only that, he he oversees all the national tournaments and competitions and has those relationships throughout with all the super rugby franchises in New Zealand. He's not just about administration skill, he's a leadership coach, and his ability to balance people and leadership with strategic rigor is one of his defining strengths, I reckon. And I reckon he's one of the glue for that New Zealand rugby family. I think he's absolutely class at what he does. Um he stands as a real, just a powerful example of how to be a leader off the field, and his combination with negotiation skills and commitment to people and culture has helped sustain New Zealand rugby's professional game throughout its growth phases, its global pressure phases, and the the amazing challenges it's had. So, people, I just wanted to reflect on a guy which in one part of the world has had a huge influence on the game, and his leadership is outstanding. And wherever he goes next, he will be an absolute asset to whatever organization he attends and and becomes a part of because you can't have 20 years in such an environment and stay as level-headed, composed, and clear as he does. So, what I wanted to do, people, is we we put out the show um last year, uh over Christmas actually, in the in the holiday periods, we sat down and chatted. So that podcast is is on already, but I just wanted to give you a little snippet now. Five minutes where you can just get a little taste, if you haven't listened to it, about uh the impact Chris Lendrum has and about the style and his coaching. And if you like that little segment, I I encourage you to jump on the the main episode where you can hear about and hear his passion about the women's game, particularly and how he's driven that and how he's created such a wonderful thing in New Zealand, how he's created uh such success with the women's program behind the scenes. So here he is, Chris Lindram, a little snippet, five minutes just to get a take on how a great operator operates. Here he is, Chris Chris Lindrum.
SPEAKER_01When I look at creating real connection, I look at some of the work that I've seen uh in the women's game. Um, you walk into those sevens environments uh in the time that I've been in rugby, and you just feel immediately welcome and uplifted, and you can see uh the players and people living the values and behaviors. Um and and that's like that's culture, isn't it? That's when you when you live it, when actually everything around you um looks like the words on the wall or uh on a piece of paper. And um yeah, so look, uh it's just an amazing role. I see so many great coaches, great leaders. And again, you know, you just learn all the time, you adopt little bits and pieces of things you see, they start to inform your strategy or your mindset and you and you go on. Love it.
Leadership Style And Influence
SPEAKER_00Isn't it amazing when you talk about like when you walk into a place, you immediately feel welcome and uplifted? Now, if that's what you're feeling as um walking in, you can only imagine what a player, a new player's feeling coming into environment. If if they're feeling immediately welcome and uplifted, you just it, you know, the answer's not going to be 80. It's gonna be 120, if that's the start point, isn't it? That's the kind of invisible thing that you that culture is, right?
SPEAKER_01It's a good little test actually that you've struck on there is how quickly new people come to it inside an environment. Um, because that tells you a lot of things about uh how people are inducted in, um, the care that senior leaders in a group show. Uh the faster they feel uh, I don't want to say comfortable, but the faster they feel that psychological safety, that ability to be authentically them, then the faster you can get them into a high performance space, right? So to me, the high performance space is where you you balance that that safety care connection with the motivation and the accountability, right? If you get those things in balance, then you're in the high performance zone, the learning zone. If you get too much safety and care and not enough uh edge or accountability, then you're in a comfort zone. But likewise, if you get too much on the accountability side and you haven't built that foundation of care and connection, then you get a culture of fear, right? So the whole goal is looking to maximize both, and then you're you're in the performance zone. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. That's the one. A lot of people when you talk to culture, I hear a lot of people often say, oh yeah, but it's a little bit airy-fairy, but what you're talking about is it's got to have an edge. It's got to have a balance, doesn't it?
SPEAKER_01It does. So that there's culture in this performance culture, and um I've you know seen seen teams with um with edge and coaches that bring edge, but they haven't built that foundation of trust, haven't been vulnerable with their with their fellow coaches and management or the players. Um and and underneath it all, it's just people are looking for authenticity, I think, um, and the ability to express themselves. That's a term you hear a lot in rugby, isn't it? You know, just want the players to go out and express themselves. Well, you can't expect that to happen on the field if you haven't enabled it off the field. And and again, yeah, go back to the maths. That's the 10 eights, isn't it? You know, how do you how do you make uh each of those eights a 10? That's the um that's the the goal.
SPEAKER_00I I love that just the the the separation of that breaking up culture and then a performance culture, which is the space that you're operating in, is there is a difference, isn't there? Culture, some like there's a performance piece to that, which is it does create a little a nice distinction where you've got to have that balance of edge, accountability, authenticity. Yeah.
Introducing The Snippet
Culture You Can Feel
SPEAKER_01It's really it's hard, it's hard though, mate, isn't it? It's hard, you you you'll know it's um it's easy to diagram that on a piece of paper, and it's it's it's maybe a little bit less easy to go in and and look and and and and and search for it when you're coming in. Like in my position, I I'm not in team environments every day. I come in and spend time and I observe and support and connect and and draw some judgments, draw some some thinking about what I'm seeing. Um but the hardest thing of all is to be in the arena and do it, to actually create that performance culture. And and that's where your appointment of people, this the people that we select to lead our programs is just so critical. That's for me and my role, that's the biggest impact I can have is really leaning in hard when we get to appoint people into key roles to try to make sure we've got the right people because that'll set they'll be the biggest input into the culture.
SPEAKER_00Team, that's the reflections episode for the week. Highly recommend if you want to grow your leadership and your coaching and all of that side of the game, jump on and see Chris Lendrum's full episode. And it's probably one of the best episodes we have on the actual leadership side of the game. It he is a leadership coach, does it wonderfully, and if that little piece sparked something in you, where you're intrigued and want to hear more, you will probably love the main episode, the full context. So jump on, have a listen if you haven't already. Until next week, see you then.