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Peach Ent presents Check In: What Do You Expect From Yourself Part 1
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Welcoming everyone to Peach Ent presents Check In. Which is now air on WIDM-DB In Da Mix Radio each and every Sunday at 12PM EST. This episode is talking about what do you expect from yourself.
The check in is a live, topic-based stream where real people share real moments and the lessons that came with them. We pause, reflect, and check in with ourselves and each other. No pressure, no perfection, just presence.
SPEAKER_01Oh, we already oh sorry. Girl, you know you be feeling it sometime, and then you know, I be you know, I see myself with that pink dress on. I was like, girl, I look good. And then I'm like, oh, you know, I'll be feeling the music and stuff in the beginning. So you know, hey y'all.
SPEAKER_00Oh my god, you killed me with the intro dance and you be dancing us in.
SPEAKER_01Welcome to the check in. What's going on? Welcome to the checking, y'all. It is already Sunday. I know that's right. We got people already coming in. Put them on the side. I want to start, I want to see everybody's comments and stuff like that. Yes, that's y'all. Hey baby baby. Welcome to the check-in, y'all. It's Sunday.
SPEAKER_00Yes, it is Sunday. So let's introduce ourselves. I am Peach, peachy at t.com, one of the hosts of the check-in.
SPEAKER_01Hey y'all, is Auntie Toya in the house? Y'all know we can eat it. Auntie Toya, that's what they call me, y'all. What's going on? Welcome, welcome to the check-in, everyone.
SPEAKER_00Yes, yeah, we made it.
SPEAKER_01We made it, y'all.
SPEAKER_00Welcome. So, our topic for tonight is probably a little bit difficult, but I'm hoping everybody will tune in and actually dig in because remember, the check-in is about self-reflection. There are no right or wrong answers here. There is no one that's smarter or brighter than anyone else because we simply can't be smarter and brighter because it's about you checking into yourself, right? Everybody don't know everything. I damn sure don't. I damn sure don't. And I'll so everybody take this moment to share this live. Drop it in some inboxes, tell a friend. As a matter of fact, let me tell a friend, tell a friend that I'm live. Tell a friend, tell a friend, yes, let them know that we are here. But Joya, before we begin, oh how was your week?
SPEAKER_01Before we again, oh Lord, my week was good. You know, um, what did I do this weekend? Yeah, so what I just finished doing, yeah, I just finished building, uh well, putting together this got door uh a chest over here. So I was acting like builder, Bob the Builder right now. But I've just been I've been chilling out working. Um, I had my grandbaby this um week. So I was in grandma mode, y'all. So Lovey was in grandma mode this um week, and I was loving it. I love spending time with my grandbaby. I love seeing him grow as he's growing. He's only three, y'all, but he is getting it so big, and I love him so much. And y'all, if y'all want to see him, I'll be posting him too on my TikTok and all that because he just be he doing his own thing. He gonna he gonna he gonna be a little star himself. But yeah, I just been chilling out and working. What about you? What you got what you had going on? You always got a damn story. So what you had going on this week? All right, all right, so I know it's about to be interesting. Go ahead.
SPEAKER_00My we guess is always interesting, right? Yeah, I um okay, so as you all guys already know, I'm already on this journey of changing myself and my life, you know, more um self-care and stuff, but then I'm doing all this working because my patient's mom is celebrating Ramadan. Now, what's interesting about all of this, right, Toya? Why didn't I realize after working multiple shifts back to back from seven to um I was about to say 22p, which is 10 o'clock, and only sleeping maybe one or two hours a night because I was just in that repetition mode. Why am I just now realizing on Friday that I was suffering from sleep deprivation? Like literally, when I got to work at three o'clock, my hands was like this. You were shaking, yeah. My hands were shaking. I had this really bad headache, like my mind was like, yo, it couldn't zone in. But luckily, because um my job is very repetitive, I could go into autopilot mode in my mind and just do whatever it is that I need to do, right? So it it was it was very taxing. Um, I was I'm sure I was very short, and you know that's just not me. I'm like a ray of sunshine, I like to laugh and joke when I go to getting short or whatever, or being overly emotional or expressing my feelings. Please understand that I'm going through something, and at that moment, I was just like in sleep deprivation mode, and every little thing was just like trigger, trigger, trigger, trigger, trigger. But then I had to check in with myself and say, yo, ain't nobody did nothing to you. You ain't had no rest, you are triggered and bothered because you're absolutely exhausted, like it was crazy. Like I came into work, I'm like, Oh, is uh the patient dress? Uh has the patient been bathed, and the mom or well, the grandmom was like, Oh, well, you know, they didn't have a nurse, and I said, But yeah, but you but but they got a grandmother. Oh, like that's I know they was like, What a pocket, okay, out of pocket, out of like I was just out of pocket, and so then you know the baby was trying to go at my food, and I'm like, Look, little girl, so uh yeah, I had to rein myself in and um get back into my little zen space, but best believe when I got off of work, I was hauling to my bed.
SPEAKER_01I know that's right. You probably like I can imagine how you was like driving. You was definitely on autopilot, like you was yeah, I was on autopilot, blessing my music. Like she said, I gotta get home to that bed.
SPEAKER_00I gotta get home to this bed. I need this shower, I need this bed, I need an ASAP, and I don't need no phone calls. And Toya, I slept the whole effing day.
SPEAKER_01I bet you did.
SPEAKER_00The whole F day.
SPEAKER_01Sleep is too important to me, uh right, too important to me.
SPEAKER_00Like, what is wrong? Is God trying to have a moment with me? That is that why I can't sleep only two hours a night, and I don't mean too straight. One hour, wake up, be up, and then one hour, maybe right before the time I gotta wake up and then getting up. So you couldn't sleep. I could not sleep.
SPEAKER_01Wow, this time we're thinking about something. You know, you got a lot going on that head girl, because you just got a lot going on.
SPEAKER_00No, it was just like my mind was like, okay, work, work, work, work, work. It don't shut off, you know, the business, and and it wasn't trying to shut off for me, it was just and it was becoming it was it was a lie, it was a lie, and I'm like, yo, this thing won't shut off. What's happening? But luckily, I was able, I don't know how I made it through the week. Maybe I did say some snappy. So if you you know, if we are friends and you talk to me during the week and I say some off the hook, please forgive me because my mind was woo-woo.
SPEAKER_01Right, I was you know, like if if anybody knows you, they will know it. Like, if you're coming off snappy or something, that must be something going on, you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_00It's because it's not the right the regular, so you know, yeah, ray of sunshine, no, yeah, just ray of sunshine all the time. I'm always laughing, even when I'm by myself, I'm always laughing. I I'm giggling, I'm reading stuff, I'm laughing. I'm always joyful, I'm always finding a space of love. So, speaking of love, right, y'all. Oh, what now? Okay, so speaking of love, and I have to get this out here because within my week, I've been again. I told y'all last week, people have been coming at me. Um, Toy, how's your inbox been since we've been doing the check-in? Anybody jumping in your inbox trying to get to know you?
SPEAKER_01People ain't jumping in my inbox, so I don't know. Like, where do these people be coming from? Shoo, they just be there, but you know, people just want to know who you are and what you're about. So, well, who's in your inbox, though?
SPEAKER_00People been jumping in my inbox saying what saying how you doing, sexy and sweetie and oh yeah, girl. I saw you on the check-in, and uh your your show is very interesting. I love your points of view, and all that. I'm like, okay, whatever, right? Right, right. You know, I I try to stay very uh cordial, like thank you for tuning in, like that kind of deal, and kind of pushing them to the left, you know, be a viewer. Um, thank you, but um, so tonight, because of all of that, um, I just want to put this out there. I know I can be very funny and flirtatious and stuff, but I am in a relationship. You in a relationship, yes, since when I've been a relationship and I've been in a relationship for I've been in a relationship for a while. Um, and because I'm very personal, right? I'm not gonna say their name, I'm not even gonna give pronouns, right? Because we don't even know if it's a girl, a boy, a monkey, or whatever. It's just they or them or whatever. We're not even gonna give pronouns, and we're just gonna call this person life. Okay, okay, life. So I've been in a relationship for life with life for a minute, and I felt that it was time to express how much I love and cherish life, and um, I don't want life to feel any type of way about anyone coming at me, so I'm pulling it, you know, I'm putting it out there, and I love life, I love life very much. So if you are anyone that's on this check and watching, and you got in your mind that you're going to get with me, that's why you're watching, or you got a crush on me, I appreciate it. But I love life, and I you know, life is the person for me, and and and that's that's it. She said she said I love life, publicly putting it out public announcement, public announcement. So, life. If you are tuning in, just know that I love you, and I don't want to be with anyone else. This is my public announcement, and it's just there. I love life. Oh wow, that's so happy. I'm so happy. I feel I feel more relief that I love life. Yeah, yeah, I know people like oh yeah, you know what the hell is going on, girl, y'all. And I look if and I'm looking forward to many more experiences with them, and um, and I hope that you know, as the relationship progress, we um get into more things and we become um more transparent and we learn looking to grow with this person, yes, right, because it's gonna be beautiful, and toy, you can stop playing. What do you feel about life? Do you like life?
SPEAKER_01Oh gosh, why are you gonna always put me on the spot? And then people are gonna be looking at me like Toyo. Who is who's life? People are looking for my inbox now, trying to figure out who the heck life is now. Sheesh, they tell it. Congratulations. Hey Telette, thank you to listen. Okay, all right. So I know about life, y'all. So yeah, I know about life, all right. But I like life, I think um, life is a great person. Um, I definitely see you growing with life and just just having a great life with life. Yeah, I feel like y'all are a great fit for each other.
SPEAKER_00Do you?
SPEAKER_01I do feel like you know life is a great fit for each other, you know. So you have a lot of things in common.
SPEAKER_00Yes, incredible. I it's unbelievable how much we have.
SPEAKER_01I love that for you. I love that for you. I love that for you, Free.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, but you know, life can be a little bit sniffy, right? But you know, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Of course, yeah, like you know what, and I think that they are good looking. That's one of the things that I like about life because life is good looking, but life is either way. Life again, I love you, and yeah, I'm excited.
SPEAKER_01I can't wait to see life is nice looking. Um, life dresses nice as well, good attire, stuff like that, you know. So, you know, well put together, I could say that.
SPEAKER_00Uh, and and ladies I love a well put together person, yeah. Me too. Now, ladies, if y'all trying to visualize what life looks like, if you think it's all dark, and handsome, life is not tall at all.
SPEAKER_01Not tall, life is not tall. What is wait a minute, hold on. What is considered not tall?
SPEAKER_00Well, you know, life is not tall. We just gonna leave it there. Life is not tall.
SPEAKER_01At least they over well, life is over, life is over five five.
SPEAKER_00Life is average height, let's just put it that way. Life is average height, but height don't matter. But either way, it's like a pop quiz or something. This is just you know, uh that was just my announcement about me and life. So again it felt like coming out. That's right. I got tired of being in the bushes with this, right? And I got tired of people um assuming, like I've been telling y'all the past the last what two uh broadcasts. I'm tired of people insinuating what's going on in my life, trying to figure out what's in it, what I'm doing, who is this, who is that in there? You know what I'm saying? So there is the announcement. So if you are here for any other reason, um, other than just watching the check-in, if it's for me and you you're trying to check in with me in some sort of way, you might as well hang it up because I'm involved with life and I'm good there.
SPEAKER_01I know that's right.
SPEAKER_00So let's get into our topic. What do you expect from yourself? What do you expect from yourself? Has everybody okay? Yeah, take a few seconds and just think about it go inside that big, beautiful brain of yours and ask yourself what do you expect from you? A lot of times in life, we go around, we meet people.