EP.101 Don't Be That Guy!

Two men. One uncomfortable truth: nobody wants to be that guy.

In this episode of SavagelyLOUD, we tear apart the mindset, habits, and attitudes that turn people into the guy everyone avoids, tolerates, or secretly pities. From wasting time and taking up space with zero ambition, to blaming the world for every failure, carrying toxic attitudes, chasing attention instead of purpose, and refusing to grow—we cover every reason people become stuck in mediocrity.

We also dive into the kind of person who’s miserable with themselves, so they take that anger out on everyone around them. The guy who poisons rooms with negativity, lashes out at people who are trying to succeed, and makes everyone else pay for problems he refuses to fix within himself.

This isn’t a self-help seminar. It’s a brutal reality check.

We talk about lazy mindsets, victim mentalities, fake confidence, emotional immaturity, bad energy, lack of discipline, and why so many people choose comfort over becoming somebody worth respecting. If you’ve ever wondered why some people stay stagnant while others build a life with meaning, this episode pulls no punches.

Stop being “that guy.”
 Become somebody people can actually count on.

Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:00

Everything you're about to hear is for entertainment purposes only. Listen, have some fun, but don't ever do, believe, or promote anything they say. They're idiots.

SPEAKER_02 0:12

Guys, guys, guys, guys, hold up, hold up. You should know. This ain't for everybody. Welcome to Savagely Loud. What's happening, people, guys? Welcome back to the show. For the people that understand the facts, divided by feelings equals failure. I'm Cliff, I'm your host, and I'm joined today and always by Big Bad Dave Anderson, the big bad Viking. How are we doing today, brother?

SPEAKER_01 0:48

Oh, I can't complain, man. I can't complain one bit. Almost vacation time for me. Nice little staycation away from the hood.

SPEAKER_02 0:57

Yeah, dude.

SPEAKER_01 0:58

I'm fucking good.

SPEAKER_02 0:59

Yeah, I got I got a vacation coming up here too. Uh May, what is that?

SPEAKER_01 1:04

Uh I think we're on vacation right around the same time.

SPEAKER_02 1:07

Uh, yeah, it's May, oh no, June 4th through the 7th. I'm gonna be in Arizona with fucking Troy and Aunt and Huck and whoever else shows up. Gonna do some hang, just do some hanging out, do some uh wildlife stuff and all that kind of stuff. It's gonna be awesome. And then from so I fly out to Phoenix for that, and then I leave Phoenix and I fly to Nashville because my wife's picking me up, because then that that week I'm gonna be in Georgia for her family reunion and a couple other things. So she's picking me up on the way down to Georgia, and uh yeah, it's it's gonna be a blurry fucking couple of weeks.

SPEAKER_01 1:47

Yeah, so that so that means you're gonna come back with a little bit more color.

SPEAKER_02 1:51

A little bit more color, yeah. A little bit more color. Hopefully more tan than red, but uh, you know, I've already got my first good burn in this year, so I think I'm gonna be alright. The problem is gonna be though, that uh I'm gonna be going out into the Phoenix, the Phoenix heat, the Arizona heat, with brand new fresh ink on my neck, black ink on my fucking neck. So that's gonna be fun. Yeah, May 21st, I actually go to get my neck, get the left side of my neck done. The last relic of an old life is getting getting inked over.

SPEAKER_01 2:21

So well, I mean, you gotta do what you gotta do, man. I remember any tattoo you get. I don't care if it's black, I don't care if it's color, you go out in that sun, it fucking hits it, it fucking burns.

SPEAKER_02 2:32

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, let's get to the show. Uh if you guys want to help us help us out, get these words out, get these truths out, you can follow me. It's Savagely Loud on Instagram. That's where I'm most active. Um, I am starting to become more active on Facebook. And yes, I know I keep saying that, but every time I go onto Facebook, I'm just gonna be honest with you guys, because that's all I ever am. Every time I go onto Facebook, I I see a lot of stupidity that I just have a hard time dealing with, that just doesn't seem to be on Instagram, at least not directly put to me on my shit. Um, but I am getting more into Facebook, and uh uh so it's you know, it is what it is at this point. I'm working on it. I got so much shit going on that I'm I'm just kind of just keeping the head above water, keeping all the fucking, keeping all the boats moving, you know what I mean? But you can follow me on Instagram at Savagely Loud, and on that page, you're gonna find two links. One of those links is to the Savagely Loud podcast page. If you could please follow us there too, it'd be greatly appreciated, and that will help grow the footprint of the show. Um, we are getting more into the clips. I'll get into why it seems to have been slowing down a little bit uh in a second here. But the other link you're gonna find is a simple link tree. Anywhere you want to see my face or hear my bullshit, you can hear it, you can find it there. You see, hear it there, see it there. Easy peasy. Uh outside of that, Facebook X and Rumble at Savagely Loud YouTube at Savagely Loud Podcast. Please don't forget to subscribe, share it with your friends, have them subscribe too. And you can email us in at savagely loud at gmail.com. Uh, don't forget to like and comment the uh like, share, and comment the material. Uh it really does help. I'm so super, so, so I'm so super tired. I'll get into it in a second. But uh it's it really does help the show. And please rate and review the show on iTunes and Spotify. It that's probably the number one thing you can do to help out the show uh and get more people, get more ears on this to help them out and hear what they need to hear and think about what they need to think about. So uh that all being said, Dave, let them know where they can find you.

SPEAKER_01 4:29

All right, uh, if y'all want to support me, you can find me over there on uh Instagram and Facebook at the Hammer Drops. Um, I have also a couple links, one that's gonna take you to uh the Septuagint Loud podcast page, as well as all the other spots across the internet that you can hear me and see me, this beautiful face that you all want to see so much.

SPEAKER_02 4:46

Dude, I see the motherfuckers in your comments, and I gotta I gotta say something because you know what? Uh-oh. Uh because and it does tie into the to the to the show. Um if you got nothing left in the tank and you want to hate on somebody, then to fucking comment on somebody's like physical attributes, you know, like if somebody's 680 fucking pounds, I get it. That's a choice. But when somebody like you, I like I couldn't, dude. I went through your comment section uh last week sometime. I was I was bored and I just wanted to see. I like to keep up on the hate that people get, you know, and the comments that people and dude, there is a fucking massive amount of motherfuckers that come in on your eye. Like it's it's it's a natural thing. A lot of people have uh a little bit misaligned eyes or whatever. But seeing these motherfuckers in your comment section, that's all they got. That's all they fucking got. Like that's literally it. They don't ever try to peel apart your information, they don't try to peel apart your opinions, they don't try to peel apart your statements, your vocal cadence, your tones, nothing. They're always on, oh, that's a fucking eye. And then you go to their page and you're like, holy shit, you married a mutant. Holy shit. Your kids are so fucking ugly they could gag a maggot. Like, what in the fuck is happening here? And and like I said, this all ties into the show. We're gonna get into the fucking sticky wickets of some shit here because I had a situation pop off just the other fucking day that I want to get into because I don't want any of you to become the motherfucker that spoiled my fucking day for a couple of hours. But um, yeah, it's it's wild seeing these motherfuckers out here.

SPEAKER_01 6:24

Yeah, no, it is. It really is. And and the funny thing is, is like a lot of people, when they don't have anything, they try to go after my eye condition that I've had since I was knee high-door grasshopper. You know, I had to do so many things to try to strengthen my eye. There's nothing I can do. Right. Absolutely nothing. There's no surgery that I can have, nothing. It's imperfection that I have that it's perfect. Yeah, because it's part of you, dude. Yeah, that it's who I am. I'm the googly-eyed motherfucker. Yeah, and I don't give if I can see shit straight, what the fuck is your excuse? You know, that's my thing, you know? And that's why they don't pick apart what I say, how I bring it, or anything like that, because they can't, because it's all facts. So they go after my eye, because that's all they have.

SPEAKER_02 7:06

Well, because it and it's so fucking ridiculous, because these are the same motherfuckers that if you fucking commented on a chick's tits that were really fucking tiny, they'd be like, How fucking dare you? You're such a fucking pile of shit. That's a gift from God. She has no control over that. And then they hit the comment section on your shit and talking about your fucking eye like it's like you chose it. Like you're like, I think I what can I do to really fucking make people fucking just grind at me? Oh, maybe I'll fucking crooked my eye up or some shit. You know, it's the same comment of like women when they comment on little dicks, like, yeah, dude, it's trust us, we all want to have every single fucking man wants to have a fucking dick that hurts you, but some of us don't.

SPEAKER_01 7:42

Yeah, no, and well, and here's the thing. I mean, the the best thing about my eye condition is is I focus on one eye at a time. So, and I can switch it back and forth, you know. So if I lose an eye, I'm I'm golden, you know. So it's like it, you know, it doesn't bother me anymore. I just kind of laugh at it. And usually my response to him is like, if that's all you got, then I'm not gonna have a battle of wits with you because you're very unarmed at this point.

SPEAKER_02 8:05

Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like it's like going to a fucking, it's like going to a nuclear war with a fucking handful of bricks.

SPEAKER_01 8:13

Right, but here's the thing, and it's you know, you would think, and a lot of people are probably thinking fucking it's the left that's all doing this. No, I get it from the left and the right continuously. It's like you know, you you try to sit there and say the right tries to say well we're so much better than the left, the left says the same thing, but you guys do the same exact thing, you attack somebody's characteristics, right? Something that's wrong with them for for what to make you makes you feel better. Are you just projecting by looking in the mirror because you're so un you know, you like your life so much that you just gotta do that? It's like come on, yeah, get over yourself.

SPEAKER_02 8:48

It's fucking wild. Um, before we get too deep into this, let's do some updates, let's do some housekeeping because I've been getting some questions. Uh, we didn't have a guest show last week. Um, that was because and I did say in the show, but for the people that didn't hear it or missed it or whatever, uh, we didn't have a guest show because I didn't have a voice. Like my voice was so fucked up. I can't do uh a true, I can't do true justice for my guests or for our guests if I can't speak to them. So why would I have a guest on here to just fucking try to flail and flounder and try to pull shit out of the sky because I can't fucking talk. We need to be able to fucking converse with these people. And in in doing so, that's how we learn about them. That's you know, Dave will have questions that I don't think of, I'll have questions that Dave doesn't think of. We'll have different perspectives on things that we can bring to our guests to highlight them even further. And it's and we can't do that if part of the equation is, you know, basically just a walking mute, a walking moot point. Like, I can't fucking talk. So um, and then now next week, this week, you'll notice this episode is airing on our guest show day. So we didn't have a guest this week either. Well, it's because this last weekend I had to do a road trip and move my daughter back to college. And I just, I just I had very, very small windows of time where I could actually get a show in. And I don't like I don't like doing a show with guests that is on a truncated, truncated timetable, like where we've only got this window, so keep it fast, keep it moving. We just want to get through it. I don't like bringing show guests on the show that we just gotta keep moving. I want to hear about them. I wanna fucking feel their feelings with them. I want to hear their speech. I wanna, I wanna listen, I wanna take it in, absorb it, think about it, and then put it back out there so that you know they can they can be highlighted and they can have the you know, their their whatever, however many minutes, 90 minutes, 60 minutes, 200 minutes, it doesn't matter. I want them to have their time, and I want that time to be centric around them. And again, if you are on a truncated timetable, when you host a show, which a lot of you do and a lot of you don't, most of you don't, when you host a show, you're always thinking throughout the show, what's the time frame? What's the time frame? What's the time frame? What's the try time frame? You're always thinking about that, no matter what. But when you have to fucking, when you have a very small window, a very small time frame of where to get things done, it just it clouds the whole show. So I don't want to do that. Um so we're gonna just do our own shows this week and then this coming this is what Thursday, then Saturday. So Saturday I should be able, we should be able to have a guest for next week. Um and then the week after is I believe maybe coming up. I just said it June 4th, June 7th, that that week from June 4th basically through the week of June 8th. I'm just it's it's gonna be you get what you get. Like I've got a lot of shit to do. I'm flying all over the fucking country and drive, you know, I'm flying over half the country and driving over the other half. So I'm gonna I'm gonna be super fucking busy. So, I mean, for all I know, we might not even have a show. I don't know. Oh, I I think we should try to get one in, at least, you know, get at least get one in for that week. But uh um, yeah, it's up in the air right now. We're still trying to work out the itineraries, we're working out the time schedules and all this and that and the other thing. So, you know, updates to come, but that's the big thing is like I don't like bringing guests on the show. We've got guests waiting to come on the show. I just don't like bringing them on if I can't give them the justice in the show that they deserve. It's it's a bad host thing, like it's just it makes for a bad show.

SPEAKER_01 12:40

No, it does. I mean, and then it just starts to feel rushed and all that stuff, and we don't want to do that, you know. It's we want to highlight the guests, like you said, you know, and have their message come out, and you know, and you can't do that if it feels rushed. Right.

SPEAKER_03 12:54

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 12:54

Because our shows, I mean, we've had shows that you know, we you know, next thing we know it's an hour and a half. Yep. You know, and it's like, holy shit, where the fuck did the time go? And we weren't even close to being done, so that's why we have to bring those guests back on.

SPEAKER_02 13:05

Well, and the other thing is, is I've been guests on other people's show, I've been a guest on other people's show, and it's like rush, rush, rush, rush, rush, rush, rush, rush, rush. And it's a shitty experience for me as the guest of another person's show. Like it's a shitty experience for everybody. The host is concentrated on getting the show over, but still trying to produce somewhat of a decent show. The guest is is, you know, like when I was on the I was on two shows of for other people that it was a truncated timetable. It was a very shortened timetable, and we had to get it done. And that was a shitty experience for me because I'm like, okay, well, I don't want to go fully into detail on this. I know that's what we should do, but I don't want to go fully into detail about this because we're on a timetable. So let's just give them what they need and then move on. And it didn't it one of the shows hit okay, and the one of the other shows it didn't hit at all because it was just that poor of a fucking show. It just, yeah, I mean, you can make it, you can make it happen, but it's not the best idea. It's not even a good idea.

SPEAKER_01 14:05

It's no, no, it's not. You know, let's be honest. I mean, people that listen can tell. I mean, any podcast I've listened to that feels rushed, it just like it just loses that substance. And you know, we want to bring you the best possible product that we can, and that's what we're gonna do, and we're not gonna, you know, we're not gonna sway from that. Right.

SPEAKER_02 14:24

That's not what it does. Right. So, all that being said, let's get to the fucking show. Guys, don't be fucking dick bags. I'm gonna say that again. Don't be fucking dick bags, please. Your life cannot fucking look good if you become an absolute fucking dickbag, especially one of these assholes on the internet, like I had a fucking run-in with the other day. So let me explain this. Let me lay this out for you, okay? So for months, and I found out he's got multiple accounts. So um, for months, this fucking dickhead has been commenting on my posts. All he ever says is pot meat kettle, pot meat kettle, pop meat kettle. And it doesn't make any fucking sense. The only reason he's saying it is because he's fucking delusional with nothing better to do in his life than sit on the fucking internet and hate watch people that he can't stand and then comment them trying to comment on their shit trying to get under their skin. Well, he finally achieved his goal. He finally got under my skin enough to fucking irritate me. And here's the funny thing that I've been fucking looking into. He fucked up, right? He fucked up in multiple ways, but the number one fuck up he did, he normally comments that bullshit on one of his other on his other account. Well, he put his personal, he he must have like not realized he was on his personal account when he did it this time. And guess what? Game on, bitch. You fucked up. I found the chink in your armor, and I'm going to fucking attack it. So anyway, he comments on my post, pop meat kettle, which means nothing compared on uh in relation to the post that he commented it on. And uh so I commented back. And I was like, oh, mommy finally let you out of the sandbox to continuously to continue fucking disagree, uh disappointing her publicly. Well, yay, you go tell all your friends how shitty I am. It was something along those lines. And then he he came back and he goes, Defy nobody. And I was like, you. And then he thought he got me. He thought he got me, he thought he made me look fucking stupid. And he goes, that's or he's like, thought so. So guess what? Everybody that watches my content knows I don't reply to comment. Like I just don't. I don't teach the fucking haters, you know. I don't know the guy, I don't teach the haters to just keep coming and coming harder because they'll get airtime. But this one fucking guy, he did it. He deserved his fucking reply to comment. So I did a video on it and I shredded this motherfucker 100%. I shredded him as a person, I shredded his schedule, I shredded his lifestyle, I shredded him as a father, I shredded him as a husband, I shredded this motherfucker on every single fucking level. And he had still nothing better to do. In the video, in my video reply, I fucking said, you got nothing better to do than sit on the internet. Because, you know, that's that's nobody's shit, because I called him a nobody and he wanted a definition, so I gave it to him. It is nobody's shit to sit on the internet all the fucking time. We'll cut it right there. That's nobody's shit. Like if you've got nothing better to do, if you have nothing in your fucking life that is pressing on you to that enough to get you off of the fucking internet and operating on something real, you're a fucking nobody. You're a fucking loser. And then if you stack that, if you stack on top of that, the fact that not only do you have nothing but fucking time to sit on the fucking internet, but you're also sitting on the internet hate watching people, that makes you a complete and total fucking shit bag. Now you're actually going backwards. At least if you're just spending time on the internet, you're not actually going backwards. You're just wasting all your fucking time. But if you're hate watching people, you're fucking going backwards in your life. You are now filling your head full of resentment, hate, and all these fucking feelings that you shouldn't be fucking suffering and that that do not lend themselves well at all in any way, shape, or form to having a successful life or building an existence on this earth that you can be proud of. And then on top of that, you stack the fact that he's fucking commenting on all of my shit. He's on my posts for months. Pop meat, kettle, pop me, kettle, pop meat, kettle, pop meat, kettle. You have nothing better to do. So now you have nothing better to do than sit on the internet and you're filling your head with resentment and feelings of fucking rage and anger over some shit you can't stand that you choose to fucking actively watch, then you're fucking spending the time to comment on this shit, the same dumb, bland ass, fucking mindless shit over and over and over again. And uh, and and what is all this? That's the trifecta of I'm your fucking landlord, bitch. You got nothing in your motherfucking head, you got nothing in your fucking heart, and you got nothing in your fucking life to keep you going other than hate watching me. I own your bitch ass. I fucking own everything about you. I own your mentality, I own your emotional structure, I own your fucking life, you filthy piece of shit, you slimy motherfucker. So I continue to shred this motherfucker, right? And then what does he do? Not prove me wrong, because the first thing out of my mouth was the trifecta of you're a nobody because you've got nothing but do nothing to do but send time on the internet. Then he goes, then he spends more time on the internet attacking all the commenters, but he wasn't really attacking. He was just a fucking being a moron. He was just saying, okay, anonymous, okay, anonymous. What do you mean, anonymous? All the people commenting had profile pictures. All the people commenting had names, all the people commenting had real profiles. What do you mean, anonymous? Nobody's anonymous. You're the fucking anonymous motherfucker here that nobody knows who you are, fucking Wilco, whatever the fuck your name was. Because that's the reason you have multiple accounts to go fucking troll people on. Like, if you're seriously, seriously, if your life sucks so fucking bad that the biggest kick you get out of life is to fucking piss people off on the internet, you're seriously going nowhere. Like you're you're going backwards. You're you're you're absolutely devolving into some puddle of shit that nobody gives a fuck about, starting from what probably was a upright pile of shit that nobody cared about. But yeah, I mean if you I mean if you really want your life to fucking do something, you can't be these motherfuckers.

SPEAKER_01 20:43

No, you can't. And unfortunately, they just I think a lot of people try to do it. They again, we I think we've talked about this before. Actually, I'm pretty sure we have, where they try to go after people with big numbers and try to rile them up to get followers, and usually a lot of people bite onto it, hook, line, and sinker, and that's what happens. But then you come across the the few that don't. And when they finally do, it's it's just like you know, you think that you're gonna get some something out of it. You're not, you're just making yourself look like a complete fucking moron. Basically, in my eyes, from what I've read and seen and all that stuff, it's like you're that unhappy with your life, with your marriage, with your kids, that you're just gonna want to do scroll all day long and not spend time with your family because you hate so much.

unknown 21:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 21:24

Yeah, well, that's probably why he's so fucking unhappy. His wife's probably fucking half the neighborhood because she can't stand the fact that she's married to a pile of shit that does nothing for the family and just and spends all his time sitting on the internet hate watching people.

SPEAKER_01 21:37

Yeah, his wife probably wears the pants in the family and probably pegs his ass.

SPEAKER_02 21:40

Oh, yeah. Well, he proved that. He fucking, oh, I gotta go change a diaper. Why? Like you don't have anything about you, like you're not building a fucking business while you're while somebody else changes the fucking diaper. Your wife can't change a diaper? Like you you you're sitting on the internet hate watching people, hate commenting, trying to start fires that you can't put out. Out by the way, because I did shred this motherfucker. I encourage you all to go back to like what last Saturday's fucking posts-ish. Yeah. Um, what is it? Saturday Saturday, maybe. Yeah, I think it was Saturday. Go back to Saturday's post. You'll fucking see them. I'm leaving them up. And I I encourage you to go look, you've got nothing to fucking do but change fuck. Like, I'm sorry, but dude, I'm an alpha male. You know what? And I'm not saying it's my wife's position or job in life to change diapers. But when when we're talking at five o'clock in the evening, seven o'clock in the evening, and from you know, for months you've had nothing to do, that means you're a stay-at-home dad. That means you're not providing for your family. Like you're you're just not. Like, I have no, I have no disrespect for stay-at-home dads. Just my perspective on it is we were built biologically to do certain things. Men and female, right? Male and females were biologically engineered to do certain things. When you're a stay-at-home dad, you're doing half the fucking job that a woman could fucking do. Women are so much fucking better at nurturing than men will ever fucking be that you're actually doing your children a disservice. And the most, most of the time when you see this, and I know some of you ain't gonna like this because I'm sure some of you are stay-at-home dads, um, here's here's what you're gonna find. Most of the time that you see stay-at-home dads happening, it's because their wife actually got off their ass, got off her ass and actually built herself a living. And it makes a whole lot more money than he did because he never got off his ass and created himself into anything. He never built himself into anything that could provide for his family. So the wife was like, Well, you're a wastoid pile of shit. So why don't you just sit at home while I go make the fucking money, while I go pay the fucking bills, while I go fucking set up our life and earn our living.

SPEAKER_01 23:55

And those women, let's be honest, those women will are not gonna put up with that bullshit very long. They end up usually divorcing pretty quickly. And you know, uh kudos to them. I mean, why shouldn't they? Like you said, the man has, you know, over history has been the provider. And if you can't provide for your fucking family, then you're just a waste of fucking skin.

SPEAKER_02 24:17

Yeah. Well, and and you know, and somebody's gonna push back. You know, somebody's gonna fucking push back. Oh, yeah, they're gonna push back. You know, maybe he made all his money, but then why is he a stay-at-home dad? Why where's his wife? If he made all the fucking money to support the fucking family and doesn't need to work, why the fuck is his wife at work? It's because that's bullshit. He didn't make all the fucking money to support the family. He's a waste-toid pile of shit, no skill, no talent, no fucking brain, no nothing going for him that will get him to be in a position of building a life for his family.

SPEAKER_01 24:47

No, and the sad thing is that he that people like that are just content with that because they don't have to have the responsibility. They can sleep in, they can play their video games. And most of these motherfuckers are that's exactly what they do. They'll sit there to play their video games. And trust me, I've I've known a few stay-at-home dads that were exactly like this. You know, they're like, Oh, you know, I'm trying to get better with you know, one was a tattooist. I'm trying to get better with doing my tattoos. My wife's letting me do this while she's out being an assistant manager for a major store and all that stuff, making the money, and he's not he's barely pulling in one client a week and making a few hundred dollars. It's like but the whole time while he's at home, he's literally sleeping until 10, 11 o'clock in the morning, getting up, taking care of the, you know, whatever, you know, cleaning. Oh, I'm doing the housework, I'm cooking, I'm doing this, and I'm doing that. It's like really you spend all your time watching TV. How are you doing any of that?

SPEAKER_02 25:42

Yeah, you're not doing any of that. And even if you were, I mean, what the fuck, dude? You could be spending your time building a fucking, building a real future for your family, but instead, you're you're you're doing the mental gymnastics to make it fucking make you right in what you're doing. Oh, I I do all the cleaning. Yeah, why is your fucking house so goddamn filthy? Like when I was when I was my first wife, um, her job at one point was the stay-at-home mom. She was raising our kids. We found out it was costing us $10 and one cent a month. We did the numbers all the way down to the Benny. It was costing us $10 and one cent, uh, not a month, a week to have our kids in daycare and have her go to work. So we're like, fuck it. Just stay home. And she she was all about it. Just stay the fuck home and do the housework. Do the fucking housewife thing, you know, be the mom, the stay-at-home mom kind of thing. And we did that. And her fucking job was to keep the fucking place spotless. Her job wasn't to sit around all day and fucking eat bonbons in her jammies and just watch TV or watch the kids play, make sure they had their dinner or make sure they had their fucking breakfast and their lunch and and make sure they had they they were playing. No, her job was to actually do the work. Like, I came home, I earned the money, I came home, and I got a clean, and I came home to a fucking clean house. I came home to not a straightened up house. That's another fucking misconception is that all these fucking lazy ass stay-at-home people do. They want they like, oh, I straightened up. Okay, so you did nothing. You took a couple of fucking hoodies off of the back of the couch, you put a couple of toys away and called it a fucking day. That's straightening up. I want this motherfucker clean.

SPEAKER_01 27:15

Work your ass off at this shit. Yeah, yeah. 15 minutes to straighten up your house instead of actually cleaning the house. I I remember when I was growing up, like one of the things that my my mother and my grandmother instilled into all of us kids was that we took care of the housework as well. You know, and my god, I hated my grandma for this so much. Like, it had to be her clean. And by her clean, it's like you you're dusting the legs of the furniture, you're dusting it underneath, you're doing you're moving shit, you're doing this, you're doing that. And if if it wasn't done correctly, guess what? You fucking redid it.

SPEAKER_03 27:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 27:50

Until it was done correctly. And you know it just goes to show like being raised that way has gone out the window long ago. Yep. With all these fucking these pirates. It's my generation.

SPEAKER_02 28:02

It's my generation that started the fucking downside of America. I'm 43, born in 82, and it's my generation that way, we're just giving all our kids everything we never had just because we never had it. Not realizing it taught us all the lessons that made us some somewhat of a decent human being.

SPEAKER_01 28:19

Yeah, yeah. And see, that's one thing that you know uh I don't have kids, but I know if I had kids, that would still be instilled to them today. You know, that's one of the ways I would have raised them. Like, you're gonna know what it the meaning of a dollar, you're gonna know the meaning of hard work, you're gonna earn your keep. You know, and that has gone out the window, especially with these D-bags that are out nowadays, like the guy that you're talking about. It it goes to show that that wasn't instilled in him when he was younger. Yeah, you know, or else he wouldn't be having you know, these stay-at-home dads and all that stuff. They would actually be out doing what they need to fucking do to provide for their families and not put that weight on the wife's on their wife's shoulders. I know when I was out of a job and my wife was doing all the work, I felt fucking horrible. So what did I do? I made sure the house was fucking clean, I made sure I had dinner done, I made sure everything was done by the time she came home for work, and I did it every fucking day. You know, but for me, but that didn't that's not where I stopped. I kept going. I kept on looking for a job, doing this, doing that. You know, it's just like I get it. There's times where people are gonna lose their jobs, that's when you pick up the fucking slack. And if your wife's working, then she's gotta pick up the slack. You know, that's how teamwork goes. It's not a one-sided thing, and a lot of these a lot of these fuck nuts out here nowadays just see it the one side, regardless. If they lost their job, it's still this is this is how it's gonna be. It's it's like get out of your own fucking way.

SPEAKER_02 29:38

No, it's they're all Olympian Olympians in the mental gymnastics, like it's they really are like every single fucking person out here, and this is just a reality. Deal with it. If you don't like it, fucking turn me off. But it's just the fucking reality that everybody out here will do whatever the fuck mental gymnastics they have to do to make themselves right. They can look at their friend that is living the exact same life they are and be like, oh, that motherfucker this and that motherfucker that. Everything is fucked, everything's going away, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But then they're living the same fucking life, and then they go, oh yeah, well, I'm doing it because of this, this, and this, and that validates everything. And that makes me actually, actually, it makes me a hero because you know, I I have the you know, get the fuck out of here. Like, I'm so fucking tired of watching people just do the fucking mental gymnastics to make themselves right. And that's why nobody's ever, nobody, that's why society looks like shit. That's why every the every part of the fucking world we live in, no matter where you go, whether it's America, Canada, Mexico, fucking Russia, fucking Germany, fucking Japan, everywhere. Everybody does these fucking mental gymnastics to make themselves right while they're bitching at everybody else for not doing exactly what they themselves should be doing.

SPEAKER_01 30:53

Yeah. No. That's the and that's the fucked up theme. It that's truly really fucked up. Like, you know, it's if you actually look at it in that thing, it's like, why wouldn't you want to do better? Why wouldn't you stop? Why wouldn't you want to stop being a dick bag? And you know, you have all this it. I want to get back to the guy that you know, the whole internet thing. If you have all this time and energy to just rage bait and just rage click and all this stuff and leave comments and all that crap, wouldn't that be better used actually lifting your family and yourself up out of whatever hole that you're in? I guarantee that motherfucker that came at you, just like the motherfuckers that come at me, they probably broke as fuck, ain't got no money, you know. They fucking every credit card's maxed out, and this is how you know they're just so negative, they just want to release it onto somebody and they figure let's do it this way. Maybe I can start making money by doing this and getting followers on Facebook or Instagram and this and that and make money from them. Dah. That's a job. No, it's not a job. No, it's not. People need to stop thinking like that.

SPEAKER_02 31:55

No, it's not a career, it's not a job, it's a fucking hobby, it's an extra source of income if you can get it there. But the secret is that if you're a dick bag, you're probably you either have to be the biggest fucking dick bag on the internet, or you're fucking failing. You're not gonna make it. And especially when you look at your fucking follower count and it's at like 700, 1000, 1200. Like you got a long fucking way to go. And besides and the other thing is, is you're not gonna fucking you can't get a fucking, you can't get monetized on comments. You're you're just not gonna do it, especially when the comments you make, the shitty, spiteful, hateful comments that you make to everybody on the internet doesn't match what's on your feed. I went to this fucking guy's feed and it's pictures of his kids and his dinner and shit. Like, so you're out here creating a fucking pro keep creating probably hundreds, or if not thousands, of problems that don't need to fucking exist because you're a fucking loser. But then you go to your page and you're not even a hate, you're not you're like, you're not even a hate monger, you're not even a rage baiter, you're not trying to make your this your your money maker, you're just being a fucking cockstroke on the fucking internet.

SPEAKER_01 33:05

I think he's just attracted to you, man. I think he finds you cute.

SPEAKER_02 33:08

There's so many people, so many people have fucking said that he's just in love with you. He's just in love with you.

SPEAKER_01 33:12

It's gotta be something like that because I mean why else why else would he do that? See, that just blows my mind. Like, if if you like you have to make all these different profiles, right? And he fucks up and he uses his actual profile, and it's got food and his kids and all this shit on there. And he's still doing that. There's only one answer. Yeah, there's he's gotta have a crush on you. Maybe he's closet, he's in the closet still, and he's looking at you like, hmm, I want to give me some of that. You know, I don't know. It just blows my fucking mind.

SPEAKER_02 33:43

He's a miserable motherfucker, his wife don't fuck him no more because she's so fucking busy juicing all over the fucking exec's desk at her office. You know, it's it's uh that he's he's now you know turning fucking turncoating on heterosexuality and you know, wearing that beard as they call it to fucking you know, and to to you know, make it look like he's still heterosexual, but he's actually just fucking obsessed with cocks, obsessed with people like me on the fucking internet.

SPEAKER_01 34:11

No, he he likes you, man. I don't know what it is. I mean, and I kind of have a similar I have I I have my first talker. I do. Like Corey Wilson is his name. You know, he we had it out a few times on uh my Facebook, and then he started emailing me, and I completely shredded him there, and then I still have my TikTok going, and he's like, he I just got a message from him on my TikTok. I'm like, and he's like, You call me an asshole. I'm like, oh look, it's Corey Wilson with no followers. I'm like, I had my first stalker. I'm like, congratulations, fucker. Right. It's just like, what the fuck is wrong with you people?

SPEAKER_02 34:47

Yeah, well, and it's like I say, you know what? Followers don't make you somebody. I've made videos about this. In fact, I've made some recently. Followers, having a following doesn't make you special. But here is one thing it does it indicates on it indicates how much people respect you in this atmosphere, right? That if you if you're talking shit to somebody or some, you know, somebody starts talking shit to you and you go to their page and they got like 85 followers or 750 followers, that means nobody finds value in what they're actually fucking putting up. That means nobody finds value in them as a human being. Nobody finds value in what they say. It's just a fact. If any if you f if somebody finds value in what you say, because it's so easy on the internet in this fucking society, you know, the society of social media, it's so easy to get a follower now. They'll follow you off of one video. Oh, you said some shit I really liked. I'll f I'll follow, follow, follow, follow, follow. Granted, they'll unfollow you for saying some shit they don't like. But it's easy to get followers. Uh, you're telling you you're literally coming to me with no following, and and you're gonna tell me that you're the brilliant one. You put out no original thought, you put out nothing but pictures of your fucking kids because you're trying to concern yourself with the vanity status and optics of what you look like on the internet rather than the safety of your kids, which is something we need to talk about, people. Um nobody finds value in you, and you're telling me that I'm the asshole. I I people find value in me. People find value in me as a human, in my words, in my perspectives, in my views on things. Some people don't, some people fucking hate me, and but you know what? Here's the truth: if nobody hates what you're doing, nobody fucking sees what you're doing.

SPEAKER_01 36:33

That's that's a fucking huge fact right there. Yeah, you know, because I mean I have when you start to get into stuff like this and you start to have those haters and those people coming at you, then you know you're doing something right.

SPEAKER_03 36:44

Yep.

SPEAKER_01 36:45

Yeah, I've always been a firm believer in that. You have to have the people that hate you, you have to have the that hate because then what you're actually saying has validity to it. You know, it's valid, it's it's resonating, and it's the way it's resonating in the your haters is like you hit a nerve with them and you crush their ego, and that's why they're mad.

SPEAKER_02 37:04

Yeah. Oh yeah, because you fucking you hit that ball right into their fucking court, right into their fucking domain. You fucking said something that they know is a fact about them and it pissed them off. Because you know what, let's face it, most normal people, normal people don't like to fucking hear that they're fucking things up. They don't like to hear that they're not doing what they could, they don't like to hear that they're not going where they could, they don't like to hear that their life is nothing that you should anybody should be proud of or could be proud of. So that what instead of using what you're saying as a learning experience, they just come at you. They just attack, attack, attack like a little fucking rabid chihuahua, and you kick them across the field and everything goes away for a couple of days and then they come back.

SPEAKER_01 37:47

Yeah, yeah. Well, the the the my my stalker literally has an I've I found him on all the platforms. He has no followers. You know, he just goes out there and does this shit. You know, and that's typically those are the people that typically are doing all this stuff, trying to be assholes on the internet, right? And it's just like really and have to, you know, you may have uh your your personal account, but you have all these fake accounts. If you have to have all these fake accounts, then you're just a fucking douchebag. Oh, yeah. You're a coward, you're a douchebag, you have no substance, you know, and why the fuck would anybody want to even listen to you?

SPEAKER_02 38:19

Well, and and and how does that reflect on your kids? What are your kids gonna think when they see all that shit? Because they will, you know, and and and on the kids thing, um, guys, let's have a real talk. I'm gonna I'm I'm I'm gonna try not to throw any shade, but this needs to be a learning experience. How fucking stupid is is it in this day and age, in the social climate we live in, with all the fucking inundational talk of being, you know, being inundated with all this fucking talk of child sex trafficking, kidnapping, child abuse. How fucking stupid is it for you people to be posting pictures of your small children online? It's like a fucking dating service for sick fucks out here. It is, and you're putting your kids in harm's way all because you want to look like fucking father of the year, you want to look like mother of the year. You're literally putting your children in harm's way. You're putting your children in front of a in front of a train that will rake them so that you can fucking you can appeal to all the Karen's at the book club. It that just blows my mind.

SPEAKER_01 39:20

Like, why with everything that we've learned about, you know, even with the whole Epstein thing, with how he had um like he owned like the pe the companies that would go out and take pictures for schools and stuff like that.

SPEAKER_02 39:34

Life stuff, life touch is the company name.

SPEAKER_01 39:37

So you had all that going on, and now we know about this, and yet you're still gonna post all your kids, especially the young ones. I mean, you have their teenagers and stuff like that. I mean, it is what it is, but the younger ones, I mean, come on, what are you doing? Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 39:50

I mean, you're you're talking, I'm talking fucking, I'm talking like pre-sub 15.

SPEAKER_01 39:55

You know, if you're gonna do something like that, make your account private so only your friends and family can see that shit, not the whole fucking world. How about this? How about this?

SPEAKER_02 40:06

I may blow a hole in that real quick. Not because it's you, but because I've heard it from so many fucking people people. Uh, I just have social media so that my family can keep up to date. Message them, text them, call them, email them. You can do this. You're a lazy fuck. You know, if you're literally, if you're literally only using social media to keep up to date, we keep your family up to date, you're a lazy fuck. Because you won't just message these motherfuckers because here's another fucking reality behind that. Nobody has a family that is so fucking large that you can't text them individually. Nobody has a family so large you can't email them individually. Nobody has a family so large that you can't start a group message thread in your fucking text messages. Send the pictures there. Send the pictures of your children, send the videos of your kids, send the pictures of your dinner. You can do it all in a group text. No, you're a fucking lying sag of shit to everybody in public and the mirror because you're actually just using social media to put yourself out there and try to make yourself look like something that you fucking ain't. You just fucking ain't that.

SPEAKER_01 41:13

Well, and now let's take it a step further. I mean, another thing that people needed to start understanding is you know, you're taking all these pictures of your family and all that stuff inside your home. Now that's giving everybody that's seen these photos that are all across the internet that aren't ever going to be gone a rough idea of what your house looks like. What's in your house, you know, ways to get in, all that stuff. You're not thinking very clearly. That's why, like any of my videos that I do are usually either in my car, like I take pictures or whatever, they're outside, or if I'm doing a video, I have a green screen on. So nobody can see what the fuck's in my house or how to, you know, a way to get in. Or the stuff behind me. Like you're never gonna see what the fuck I'm sitting behind. Right.

SPEAKER_02 41:54

Yeah. Or the best one where people post videos of them interacting with their children. Let me give you a guy, let me give you guys if you're one of the people that do this, I'm not throwing you shade, I'm educating you right now. Let me tell you what's happening. While you fucking post all these endless videos of you interacting with your children, the sick motherfuckers out there that want to hurt you and your kids are are using it as fucking data point analysis projects. They're using it as research material. They're listening to the way you talk to your kids. So if they do, if they do decide to do some fucked up shit and come abduct your child or something, they know what their name is. They know what their pet name is, they know what mommy and daddy call them that nobody else knows. They know how you talk to them. Oh, maybe this kid isn't very receptive to a deeper voice. So you pick your voice up a little and then you fucking drop that cadence a little bit and you fucking alter the tone. And now they're comfortable because you sound just like daddy. Daddy sent me to get you here, Tommy Toms, right? Tommy Toms. And then all of a sudden, oh, Daddy calls me Tommy Toms. You're fucking giving the fucking sick ass motherfuckers on the internet all the shit they need to come get your fucking kid. And you're doing it unknowingly. So just fucking stop. Pick a fucking different lane. You're not putting it out, you're not putting your content out here to be parent of the fucking year. It's not gonna win you any awards, it's not gonna gain you a giant following so that you can get monetized and make millions and millions of dollars a month. It's not gonna do any of that. What it is gonna do is going to be used as research material for sick motherfuckers to come hurt you and your family.

SPEAKER_01 43:32

Yeah, no, and you know, since we're on that kind, since we're on this topic, I mean, you also need to start thinking about AI. AI is a very powerful tool. Yeah, and it doesn't take kids believe anything. You can tell a kid a pencil is a pen and he's gonna believe you. And what happens with this is you know, you have all this stuff and all these sick motherfuckers out there with now with AI, they can literally take those those photos, those videos, your voice, and compile them and get AI to sound exactly like you. They can make a video.

SPEAKER_02 44:02

They can make a video. I can go right now onto my I'm a subscriber to AI platforms. I can go right now with one photo that I pull off of the internet and I can make a video. Let's just, okay, let's lay this out, okay? So let's say I'm a shitbag, all right? I'm not. I'm not, I would never hurt a fucking kid. I I grew up being hurt. I'm never gonna fucking do that. Um, but let's say I was the shit bag that wanted to come after your family, your child, right? I can pull one photo of you, whoever you might be, off of the internet, off of your IG page, off of your Facebook page, your TikTok page, we'll pull one photo and I can put it into an AI database and I can say, make me a video of this person or a person of this likeness, because wording is important. Make me a video of a person of this likeness telling Tommy Tom's, the young child, the four-year-old child, that this is so-and-so. I'm he's here to pick you up, everything's gonna be okay, and and make it look like he's his father. You can do that with AI, and it's fucking seamless. Dude, most adults couldn't pick out the fucking AI videos that are made like that. You think a four-year-old child is gonna be able to pick out the fucking, oh, I didn't notice the flicker of a sixth finger in the when he put his hand behind his back. They're not gonna know anything. They're like, oh, okay, cool, that's awesome. I'm here, I'm you know, where are we going? We're going to a shed in the forest where you are going to suffer. Like, dude, people need to get this through their fucking head that there are more than more people out here than you would ever want to imagine that want to hurt you. They want to destroy you, they want to take your kids, they want to sell your kids, they want to fucking ruin your lives, and you're giving them every little piece of fucking ammunition they ever need. Some of those motherfuckers, it's just like when you know, I like I mentioned before in a video in a show we did. Um, like this whole, like the trends. Where do you think these Instagram trends come from? Like, ah, dad, what were you like in the 90s? Where do you think that comes from? I believe it comes from the government or scammers that want to fucking create a database about you. Because in the 90s, the 80s, yada yada, yada, even maybe in the fucking early 2000s, you didn't have all the photos going on the fucking uh going on the internet. You didn't have all the photos because you just lived life with your friends. You went and hung out, you never fought, nobody had fucking cell phones or picture phones or camera phones, and getting they're compiling a database on you using the information you give them that they didn't have. Now, if let's just say trend comes out, dad, because it's the most recent one. Dad, what were you like in the 90s? Mom, what were you like in the 90s? So I fucking find all of these pictures of me in the 90s and I put them online. Now the database has all of the photos and what I look like. They do facial reconstruction in their imaging, in their computers. They know what I what my fucking bone features are, they know what my skin tone is, they know what certain like the little things on your nose, your cheeks, a mole. They know all of that now. And then they can compare it with a fucking data analysis with using AI to the modern fucking photos or videos you're putting up. And then they know what you're going to age like. They know a lot of these fucking AI systems are so deep already that people don't understand this. They're so deep already that they can read your facial facial construction and tell you what you may die of. And it's realistic. They can tell you what you it's splotchiness in your skin or different tones, different this and that, the other things, wrinkles. They can tell you that if you if you have a fucking disease now, like they can fucking tell you this fucking shit is wild.

SPEAKER_01 47:42

It's wild. That is fucking nuts. And it it doesn't surprise me at all, you know, the way everything's going. It it I've always been a you know, AI is is a great tool, but it's also gonna be the tool I think that's gonna just destroy it.

SPEAKER_02 47:57

Destroy everybody. Yeah, it's gonna absolutely fucking destroy everybody. And we're willing to do it, you know. As people, we're fucking stupid, broad scale. We're fucking stupid. Um, we are willing to we are willing to create our own demise so that we can win the race getting there. Yep. That's that's that's what it boils down to. And when we hear about all these data centers, what is it, fucking 6200 data centers they want to put in the United States now? Um, you know, or something roughly around there, uh, what's that gonna do? Like everybody says that's that's bad. I mean, even the data centers we already got are fucking, they have fucked up every community that's around them, and we're killing ourselves. Like literally, the data centers, us building the data centers is killing ourselves. And what do we hear from our fucking elected officials? Well, if we don't do it, China's gonna beat us to the AI race. And then you go one step up and you go, you go to the fucking the owners and and CEOs and presidents of these AI companies, and you go, What's the end, what's the end game here? What do you think AI is gonna do long term? And every last one of them says, kill us all. Yeah, the people building the program says it's gonna fucking kill humanity, and humanity itself is like, well, we better win the race to get there.

SPEAKER_01 49:10

Yeah, I think I I think Elon Musk even said something like that. That would that is gonna kill us.

SPEAKER_02 49:15

Yeah. What was the guy from fucking from Chat GPT said the same fucking thing? They got one of the fucking one of the execs in Perplexity said the same fucking thing. They all say the same shit. It's gonna fucking kill everybody, it's gonna fucking devastate everybody. It's going to be a fucking machine world.

SPEAKER_01 49:31

And here we are. We're just ushering it in like yeah, all willy-nilly, like no big deal. And the the you know, you have your data centers like the since you brought that up, let's talk about that. Because those data centers, not only are they consuming more water, more water, more gallons of water a day than a small town does, but it's also polluting it, polluting the water supply. You have um light pollution, you know. I've lit I've seen videos and I've heard watch videos of these data centers in these towns, and just the light pollution and the noise that you hear constantly 24 hours a day, seven days a week, and they put these in rural areas thinking that it's not gonna affect anybody, but it's affecting everything that's in those rural areas. You have farms and all that stuff, and all these people are hearing this shit. You know, it's just like you know, it's not these data centers, aren't just there just to be helpful, folks. You have and I've talked about this, and I I believe I brought it up here on the show. You have the flock systems, you have all this. It's gathering information on every citizen for a purpose.

SPEAKER_02 50:35

Yeah, well, and that's and that's what it is, is you know, and nobody questions because they say AI data centers. Um, what what do you mean by data center? Because, like, we're seeing in Georgia entire towns, entire fucking town right now is getting evicted from their homes. The fucking government isn't even buying them, they're claiming eminent domain and booting them out of their fucking homes that some of these people have grown up in because they need the fucking water for the database, for the AI's fucking database. Fucking in Lake Tahoe, they're fucking the power company in Lake Tahoe said next starting in 2027, y'all motherfuckers ain't gonna have any power because we have to redirect all the power to the new data center. Lake Mead is 12 feet down than it was several months ago. And the water that is there is fucking polluted full of shit now.

SPEAKER_01 51:26

Yeah, yeah. Well, because the water comes into the system and all the chemicals and stuff that they're using in the data center when they're releasing it back in, that's it's all the chemicals that back in the water supply.

SPEAKER_02 51:35

Well, and then you you look at what they're you know, like why do we need so many data centers? Well, it's because you know, people use AI and it's it's big. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. No, no, absolutely not. I refuse to believe that we need to build 6,200 fucking data centers in this country alone because people use AI. Fuck you. You know what? People have been using AI. People are using AI, and we didn't have the fucking data centers, and we don't have the fucking data centers. So why exactly do we need the data centers? Those AI data centers are not fucking used because everybody's using AI. Those data centers are storage facilities for dossiers on every single fucking American in this goddamn country. That's what it is. You got you got four to five hundred million Americans. I know people say, well, that's 353 million. That fucking number came from fucking 10 years ago. You've got 400 to 500 million million people in this country. I won't say Americans, you've got four to five hundred million people in this country that they want to have a file on.

unknown 52:37

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 52:38

How do you not fucking see that this is what it is? These are storage facilities for your data file that the government has on you. And they didn't need them before because they only kept data files on criminals. They didn't keep data files on everybody, but now they got data files on every single fucking person out here. And it comes from your phone. Whatever the fuck your phone says, that's that goes in the file. Whatever it hears, that goes in the file. Whatever the fucking cameras at the stores you walk in, when you ping your phone, when your phone pings off them, that goes in the files. Think about this, guys. Your phone, I I think the last one I thought I read was your phone does a location ping every three seconds, whether you like it or not. You can try to turn it off, you can try to disable it, but it ain't gonna fucking happen. And that is how marketers for major retailers track where they're going to put the stores. Because they'll put a fucking store in or they'll go to the store that is already there and they'll look for their data analysis. They'll look for their traffic analysis because every time you walk into the store, your phone pings the location. So they can go, oh, well, we've we want to put, we, we, we've got this idea for a multimillion dollar grocery store, but we want to know if this is the right place for it. So we'll go to the to the small corner shop and we'll we're gonna fucking check out the fucking the ping track on people's phones. How much traffic does this small store get? And then they're gonna go to the bigger store that's right outside of town and they're gonna ping that. They're gonna track the fucking pings on that. And then they're gonna go, hmm, well, we've got about 8% of people going to the mom and pop shop that live in this community. But that, but we've got 92% of this community that goes to this store over here. Well, if we put a new store right in between those things, we've now got 100% of this community going to our store. And it's all read off of your phone pinging the fucking location when you walk in the door. I just got a whole lesson in this because in my fucking in the town I work in, they have to have village board meetings because they want to do this big fucking expansion of businesses. And a guy or a team of fucking guys came out and they actually explained how the fuck this works. They explained to the fucking decimal, to the period, to the comma, to the whatever you want to call it. They explained all the way down into the depths of it how this shit actually works. How you're tracked every single fucking day. How many of you noticed that um in the past year your phone seems to have gotten a fucking gotten your habits down like uh every morning, you know, at certain time, it asks you if you want to set an alarm. You know? It wants it to ask you if you want to set a timer. Or you fucking put you you get into your car and it auto-connects through Apple CarPlay or droid, whatever the fucking garbage droids use. Uh, and all of a sudden your maps app comes up on your screen, and it's literally your travel route for the day. Because it knows everything you're doing, and if it knows everything you're doing, the government knows everything you're doing, and because that's why it knows everything you're doing. That's they're tracking all of every every single last one of us. You don't want to be tracked, drive an old car, don't have a phone, and just live fucking life like we used to in the 80s.

SPEAKER_01 55:51

Oh god, I miss those days. So do I. Man, growing up back in those days, you didn't have a worry. You know, actually, you had to communicate with people, you know, you had to communicate with them face to face over the over a telephone, like with a cord. You know, yeah. I mean, a lot of things that probably a lot of people that are listening don't really remember or probably weren't living at that time. That you know, to you know, it was just such a better time back then. There was not so we didn't have these cares in the world. We didn't have any of this, right? I think the only thing we had to worry about was like, huh, what am I gonna do for summer break? Who am I gonna hang out with? I'm gonna go do this this day, I'm gonna go fishing, I'm gonna go do this. You know, those were the things back then. Now it's just like it's it's it's pathetic.

SPEAKER_02 56:32

Yeah, and and I mean it don't get me wrong, there were certain aspects of all the other time zone time eras that were not magical, you know. Like we, you know, if you're an abused child, you can it's very easy to get the information out now. As in the 80s, it wasn't so easy, it just wasn't. You know, teachers kind of minded their own fucking business. That was at the time where they starped, they start, they started, they starped, uh, they started to remove themselves from the household. And then in the 90s, in the mid-90s, that's when they started getting back into the household because the abuse got so bad. So there wasn't, it wasn't 100% magical, but you didn't have every single person with a fucking phone in their hand could have the ability to track you. Because everybody does. If somebody wants to know where you are, all they've got to do is go on the internet, find, find whatever means they need, and they'll ping your fucking location. You know, oh, I like the guy, I always post my fucking, you know, my vacations after I get home, this and that, and I'm one of them, you know, or used to be one of them, you know, so nobody knew where I was at. But everybody knows where the fuck you're at right now.

unknown 57:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 57:33

So just have your house guarded. Have somebody stay at your fucking house. That's what I do. I have people stay at my fucking house. I have people around my fucking house drive by my house. I have people that live around my house that watch my fucking house. Like you walk up to my house when I'm on vacation and you are you are in you are in the fucking reticle of a rifle. I promise you.

SPEAKER_01 57:50

No, that's that's exactly how I am. Like anytime if we go anywhere, it's you know, I always have somebody they you know, I got neighbors that watch the house. Like nothing happens. Like if and everybody, like, where especially where I live, they know when you're not there. Yeah, you know, and usually we tell them, like, hey, you know, we're gonna be gone, da-da-da-da. You know, yeah, don't worry, you know, and I I'll do this with my neighbors too. Like, don't worry, if I see anything weird, I'll make sure I call you or I'll handle it. I'll handle it, then I'll give you a call. One of the two. Like, okay, I know I appreciate it. And usually it's like, well, I'm gonna have this person swinging by, they drive this kind of car. So if you see that, don't worry about it. But if you see this person or this car, let me know, or please call the you know, call the police, whatever. It's like but again, even having that kind of relationship with people, it doesn't, you know, it doesn't happen a lot. You know, it's very, very few and far between that you actually have neighbors watching out for neighbors. Like a lot of times, people just like, well, fuck you, I don't give a shit about you. But it directly affects you because if it's your neighbor getting fucking robbed or whatever, chances are pretty good that you're can be next. Yep. So wouldn't you want somebody to watch your shit if you're not around? Yeah, it's just common courtesy.

SPEAKER_02 58:56

And it's all fucking it's all people doing that shit are the people like the fucking dick bag we were talking about earlier. The people that have nothing better to do with their lives than create pain and turmoil for other fucking people. People that are suffering so bad they want everybody else to drown in their suffering because they're suffering and they're too goddamn stupid and fucking lazy to use the tools at their disposal to unfuck the situation they live in.

SPEAKER_01 59:19

Yeah, no, exactly. I'm a firm believer, misery loves company, and I tell my wife this all the time because she she has to deal with it with uh where she works, with just like the bullshit that happens there, and it's like misery loves company, they're so miserable in their lives, so they want to bring everybody down, and that's exactly what these dick bags on the internet do all the time. They're so fucking miserable because they hate how their life has turned out, hate how it's going, not happy with their wife, not happy with their kids, not happy with their what they have for breakfast, so they want to make everybody else's life live in hell, and that's their goal.

SPEAKER_02 59:51

That's just and a lot of them are fucking stay-at-home dads. Like I, you know, and that's the whole thing, is like like you said earlier, I've said earlier, I know stay-at-home dads, I got friends that are stay-at-home dads, and they'll all tell you the same thing. They separate themselves from themselves. They are a dad and they are a man. The dad part is absolutely enthralled that they get to spend this time with their children, they get to instill these values and and and do all this other shit. But the man part of them, they all fucking say the same thing, like I'm dying as a man. Like, yeah, the man part of me that create that craves providing and protecting and securing and all that is is just dying because I'm just I'm this fucking nanny now.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:34

Right. And it, you know what, let's be honest, but if you if you don't feel that way and you're a stay at home dad, then you're you're a piece of shit. You really are.

SPEAKER_02 1:00:43

Yeah, fucking weak ass piece of shit, like a spineless motherfucker with no fucking, no pride and probably too much fucking ego. Let's be honest. Probably too much fucking ego.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:52

Yeah, they're probably like, oh, well, I I get to work from home, I get to stay home, I get to take care of the kids, I get to do this, my wife's doing all the work, and they're probably those are the people that are probably bragging at their friends, like, you know, like I've got it made, I get to stay home. And while your friends are secretly behind your back, or even possibly to your face, depending on the type of person they are, basically calling you a piece of shit. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:10

Oh, yeah. Well, I and then and I had one like that, like fucking, I knew I used to know a guy, he was in my club. In fact, he was one of the people that helped fucking steal it from me. Um to run down if you don't, if you guys out there don't know, listening or watching, I used to fucking I formed a social club that was a charity-only club. We did um nothing but we were the workforce, the volunteer workforce for local charities. Every time they would have an event, we would I would contact them, we would be their workforce so that they could concentrate on getting the donations and the baskets and the raffle items and all this other stuff, the venues, all the stuff that they needed, because every single fucking person that does charity says the same thing. Help is amazingly easy to get two months before the event. But when the event comes, nobody fucking shows up. Nobody fucking shows up. Everybody wants to help. You know, everybody wants to air quote help when it when it just involves saying they'll help on the internet to look virtuous. But when it actually comes to providing the help, nobody ever fucking shows up. So we did that. And in three years that I was the president of that fucking club, the Cynical Saints Social Club, we raised over $150,000 or helped raise $150,000 for local charities in three fucking seasons, right? Well, these motherfuckers, one of which is the one I'm talking about, decided to band together the moment I moved to Minnesota and we were gonna take this thing national, then they cut me out. Well, this motherfucker had a wife that was a fucking dean of students or some shit at Universal Technical Institute or one of those fucking retarded vocational fucking schools. Um she was the dean, she made a lot of money. So all he did was fucking jerk off all day and he was super fucking proud of it. And then what happened? He became the stay-at-home dad when they finally had a fucking daughter. Oh my god, this dude is as fucking manly as they do not come. Like fucking the only fucking and and and you when you talk to him, he was retarded. He was fucking retarded. I mean, he was the guy that would fucking fart in the line at Burger King and giggle at it. Like he was fucking retarded.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:08

How the that's these fucking people. How the fuck did he get a wife that was like a dean of students? Because she was fat and ugly. Uh well, I guess that does make sense. I guess that does make sense. I mean, let's be honest. They she lowered her bar way, way, way too low.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:24

She lowered her fucking bar way the fucking way, way down. I'm sorry, but you're a fucking dean of students at a giant fucking campus. Uh, don't don't fucking marry, don't, don't, don't marry a loser. Don't, don't, don't stay married to a loser. You know, and he he he would try to cop out like I sell CDs and tapes on the internet. Fuck you, you do. You fuck you you you what you make a couple hundred bucks a fuck a year doing that shit? Like, get the fuck out of here. Like, he didn't do shit.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:47

He that's just that's pathetic.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:51

Absolutely fucking pathetic.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:52

You know, I mean, ladies, I just gotta say this, ladies. Um, you know, do yourself a favor, don't sell yourself short. Like, like, especially like with this guy that you just said. If if he has no fucking you're Dina students, right? I don't give a shit what you look like. You can be a little bit bigger, you can every woman is beautiful in their own way. Let's be honest. Yeah, somebody's gonna find the beauty in you, yeah. So don't sell yourself short with some fucking low life piece of shit that has no that doesn't want to do anything with his life, especially when you can do so much better. You're you're well educated, obviously. You know, you're not gonna be a like in a position like that, right, and not be well educated. So, why would you want to make yourself look dumb by marrying somebody like that?

SPEAKER_02 1:04:37

Uh let me put it my way. Stop fucking rejects. Women, ladies, stop fucking these reject men. Yeah, if these motherfuckers are fucking do nothing pieces of shit, and all they want to do is sit around and smoke weed or fucking listen to records and shit, stop fucking them. You can find so much better fucking cocks out there than that, than that, the ones that are attached to these fucking losers.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:03

Yeah, yeah. And then the funny thing is is like if they get a divorce like if they go for a divorce or anything like that, then that guy's gonna be like, I'm gonna get full custody because and I had a guy like this, real piece of shit, like this dude from the you know, same sim kind of situation, the club that I was in. He tried to he muscled in, try to muscle in, take over the club, whatever. We ended up disbanding. But this guy literally took out without even talking to his wife, took out his 401k, he worked at Costco, okay, to open up a business to sell leather.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:35

I won't I can't come out immediately and say that's a bad idea. I gotta know what he's doing with the leather.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:41

Nothing. Well, he he ended up closing up shop.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:44

Because you're gonna have to give me more than this. Alright, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:48

So okay, I'm gonna give you the whole story. So he his wife is his well, his ex wife now, because she finally wised up and divorced him and took the kids and all that stuff. She's a nurse, making good money and all that stuff. Uh, he decided. That he was gonna gamble their whole future on a store that he put in to the shittiest part of a town that has no traffic, where there's other leather shops in the area to think he's gonna become this rich person when the the closest one to him was like 20 minutes away that has been in this area, and you know who I'm talking about, has been in this area for what 15, 20 years. So this guy, so he does that, so he ends up getting divorced, and all these and he's just thinking, well, you know, she's the breadwinner, so I'm gonna get alimony, I'm gonna get the kids and all this stuff. And he goes to court, he finds out that he's got to sell the house, he gets to split the the profit of the house with the wife, and that's all he got, and that's it.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:47

And he blew through all that in a matter of two months.

unknown 1:06:51

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:06:52

Well, and and and mind you, I mean, I I I've started businesses and I've put a lot into them, and they've failed, and I've started other businesses, and I've I've got a business running now that's that's doing well and and getting better. I understand the gamble. Like I understand you there is a point where you have to take a step back. You gotta live a little, you know, you gotta live a lot below your fucking means at a certain point to make this thing happen. But when you get into a situation like that and you have to make it happen, you have to make it happen. The problem is, is most people don't make it happen. They just go, oh, this is my job now. I can take a few days off because I've got this thing going, I can relax and decompress, and then I'll hit it hard. And when they when they finally decide to hit it hard, we're air quoting hard, um, it's barely hitting it at all. Like when you stop working for somebody else and building somebody else's dream to build your own fucking dream, that means you have to up your work schedule by like triple. That that means you have to up your workload by like a thousand times. Like fucking a thousand times. You are now the everything that runs that's gonna build this business. So if you don't do it fucking correctly, which most people don't, it ain't gonna go anywhere, and you're just gonna fucking sit be sitting on your you know, left sitting on your fucking hands wondering what happened. And the real the reality behind it is you just didn't do the fucking work.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:10

Well, and and the thing with this guy was like I I would literally would go into his shop and I would hear him bitching and just complaining to his customers about his personal situation. It's like people come and I I've told him this number of times. I'm like, I'm like, guy, I'm like, listen, man, these people don't want to hear that shit, they don't want to hear you about your personal stuff. They're coming in here to buy something from you, sell it to them. You know, you're lucky in the location that you're fucking in that you even have people walking in here, right? You know, and then he just complained, he would complain about not being able to sell anything, like trying to make the people feel bad to buy something from them. So people stop going there, right? You know, and rightfully so. Like, I I'm like, dude, what the fuck is wrong with you? I mean, I've owned a business, I understand the hard, you know, there's hard work that you gotta put into it. And if you if you fail, you gotta figure out what's failing to fix it to see if you can keep progressing with it. And if it doesn't progress, you gotta you know just take a step back and reevaluate everything and find a different direction. Well, that's you can't gamble your whole life, your your whole fucking retirement on one thing without actually having all your ducks in a row. And this motherfucker did not have his ducks in a row.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:14

No. Well, and you know, one of the big things that people fuck up in business is they, you know, like, oh, this can't fail, this can't fail. Um, bullshit, it's gonna fail. There's a lot of aspects that are gonna fail. The the thing is is that you want it to fail fast so that you can fix it faster. You know, there's gonna be when you start a business, any business. I don't give a fuck if you've been in business and you're a fucking billion-dollar fucking entrepreneur, you start another new business. There is always going to be aspects or facets of that business that land on their face. You want that to happen quickly so that you can reset quickly.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:48

Yeah, no, exactly.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:50

But everybody tries to avoid failure. Like, dude, fuck it, bring the failure on. I gotta know where the holes in the boat are so I can plug them.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:57

Yeah, and the best advice I can give anybody that wants to start a business don't complain to your customers about your product because they don't want to fucking hear it. They want to buy your product because they believe in the product, they don't want to buy your product because you're they feel guilty into buying them.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:10

Don't that's how you're gonna lose. Don't complain to your customers about anything. No, your customers aren't coming there to be your fucking psychiatrist or your venting post. They're coming there because you provide a product that they may want. Now, whether they do want it or don't want it is all contingent on your interaction with your customers. If you provide a fucking pleasant experience, even if it's even if some shit goes wrong, like somebody orders something from you and it doesn't come in on time and you got to smooth that out. There's ways that you can do that. Like I've had fucking problems in my t-shirt companies. I've had several fucking times, several times, dozens probably, where some shit went wrong. A print failed, or a fucking the the mailman didn't drop it off, or it was wet on arrival, this and that. And I handled every single one of those fucking situations and I made a bigger fan out of my customer because of the way I handled it. It's an opportunity. When something happens, when something fails, it's an opportunity. Just like, you know, we can pertain this back to the fucking dickbag that just wants to spread hate on the internet. When you find yourself in a position where all you want to do is spread hate on the internet, um, there this is an opportunity for you to look inside and see why this is, why you feel this, why you think this, why you desire this pathway, and unfuck the situation, but nobody ever fucking does.

SPEAKER_01 1:11:30

No, no, they don't. They they usually will uh you know this guy he he would, you know, it one thing I could I want to just advise everybody is if you're in a situation like this, don't go on Facebook Live so you have your followers from your Facebook page or your whatever you got, your business page, and complain that nobody's coming in there. Don't ever do that. And he did this too, he did this numerous times, and he wonders why he kept on wondering why is why am I not getting any business? I kept on telling him, giving them advice, like you know, from I've owned a business, a couple businesses myself. You know, this is what I would change if I were you, and he would never change it.

SPEAKER_02 1:12:06

It's not fucking hard to invite a couple of friends over and do some videos. Like, hey, hey, all my guys, all my buddies in the area. I what I need you to do is I let's organize this. I just need you to come to the store for one hour, right? One hour and bring a change of clothes or bring a jacket. That's all I need you to do. And when you get here, we're gonna do some video clips and then we're gonna change clothes, and then we'll do some more video clips. And now I have video content of people in my store for fucking the next six months, and it only took an hour of my friends. It's that's so much better of an option than saying, why doesn't anybody come into the store? When you hit the internet and you tell everybody nobody comes to your store, every single person that hears that, they don't hear it like, well, we better get there. No, they bet they hear it as hmm, there's gotta be a reason nobody comes.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:55

Well, I hear that stuff. It's like I don't want to go to that store. There's gotta be a reason why nobody's going there. You know, and one thing what we would do is like because it was, you know, he he would, you know, he's trying to you know show himself to the motorcycle community. So what we would do is bring all the motorcycles there on a day, like a Tuesday or you know, during the week or whatever, and we'd have 10-15 bikes out there, just so other people that would drive by say, Oh wow, there's a there's a bike shop over here, let's go fucking check it out. It started helping, but then he started complaining more. So it's just like you can't be fucking doing that if you're again it it falls into the whole being negative. You throw the negative out there, what's gonna happen? The negative is gonna come right back at you. It's just a it's a repetitive cycle, and people just don't want to seem to break it. And it just people are fucking dumb. They just are a lot of people are.

SPEAKER_02 1:13:38

That's a fact, and let's wrap it up on that. People are fucking dumb. Don't be fucking dumb people, people don't guys. All of you that are listening and watching, don't be fucking stupid. Take this shit that we say is learning learning availability, learning uh available learning opportunities. If something we say in our in one of our shows, you know, it it strikes you the wrong way, think about it. Don't don't pop off, just think about it. Ask yourself the same question I ask myself every time I hear some shit about me that I don't want to hear, right? And it happens. The very first thing I do is I ask myself from a non-biased perspective, from a 30,000-foot perspective, is it true? And if it's true, then I don't get mad. I get active. I start at I I activate fucking parts of my brain, my problem-solving centers, and I try to figure out how we can fix the situation.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:29

I mean, let's be honest. I mean, between the both of us, you're 43, I'm 50, you got 93 years of experience combined of the life. You know, we both our lives haven't been great. Yeah, so now we've we've seen it, but what we do with our lives, and we try to build it up with running businesses and all that stuff, we have that life experience. You know, it's not like we're putting this shit out there for you to fail. We want people to succeed. That's all I want.

SPEAKER_02 1:14:55

I want so much success for so many motherfuckers out here. Like I want everybody to be successful because you know what? The most successful fucking people are the ones that aren't creating fucking problems for everybody else.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:06

And they're not the ones that are being complete dick bags on the internet.

SPEAKER_02 1:15:09

Damn right. All right, let them know where they can find you, Dave.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:13

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SPEAKER_02 1:15:30

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SPEAKER_00 1:16:47

Some are hopelessly human.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:52

Yes, yes, they are. Unlike the dick bag that is on my internet, and this one is hopelessly human. This one, I've done a story very similar to this, um, but uh it does, I I I kind of like this one because it shows you how often this happens. So um, this one comes from BuzzFeed.com. It's labeled a nurse that went above and beyond. One time I had an ovarian cyst and I had to go to the hospital. I had no one to watch my one-year-old son, so I had to bring him with me. I was crying really hard because I couldn't get my son to sit still with me, and he kept trying to pull on my tubes. He j and I just broke down. My phone was dead, so I couldn't call anyone. One of the nurses came up to me in my room and asked me if I was all right if she tried to calm my son down and give me a break. She brought some toys and a blanket back for him, and she and she held him in her arms and played with him so that I could calm down until my mother-in-law showed up. I didn't get her name, I didn't even get her name, but it was so meaningful that I that she would show enough compassion to help us. Angels really are real, and that one is come comes from Patty Colvin23. Um, some people are helpful, hopelessly human, and you know what? Sometimes it just takes the smallest gesture to give people five minutes to recombobulate and and and recoup their sanity, and it really does help them. So be hopelessly human at some point in your life. That's the segment, that's the show. Later, guys.