Rebuild You

Stop playing hard to get and BECOME hard to get

Nikki Kruchen Season 1 Episode 11

Stop playing hard to get and BECOME hard to get 

You don’t need to play the game, you are the game

We’ve all been told to “wait three days to text” “act uninterested” or “make them chase” 

But here’s the truth: The most magnetic people don’t fake scarcity—they are scarce

They don’t waste energy appearing high-value… they become high-value

In this episode, I’m breaking down:

  •  Why playing hard to get doesn’t actually work (and what does)
  •  The real reason people fall into these patterns (spoiler: it’s fear, not power)
  •  How to shift from performing value → to actually embodying it
  •  What makes someone truly high-value (without faking it)
  •  The energy shift that makes you naturally respected, pursued and prioritized

This episode isn’t about giving you another strategy—it’s about shifting who you are

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