The Enneagram Edge: Drive Life & Biz Success With The Enneagram

Episode #18: Lead With Heart: The Power and Pitfalls of The Feeling Center

Margot Zaher

Every entrepreneur makes decisions through the lens of emotion, connection, and identity, but how you navigate those feelings can make or break your results.

In the second part of the three-part series Risk, Decisions & Action: How Your Enneagram Center Drives Your Business Moves, Margot Zaher explores the Heart (Feeling) Center of the Enneagram—Types 2, 3, and 4. Discover how empathy, intuition, and emotional awareness shape risk-taking, decision-making, and action, and learn to transform feelings into a dependable business advantage.

If you’ve ever overextended to help someone, pushed yourself to impress, or waited for the “perfect feeling” before taking action, this episode will help you channel your heart-centered instincts into aligned, confident decisions.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

- How Heart-centered types use emotional intelligence to sense opportunities and risks, and the hidden pitfalls of over-identifying with approval or image. (4:17)

- The underlying emotional drivers for Types 2, 3, and 4—worth, connection, and authenticity—and how they show up in business choices. (10:23)

- Decision-Making Advantages and Pitfalls by Heart Type: 

  • Type 2: Builds trust and loyalty through service but risks overcommitting (18:02)
  • Type 3: Charismatic, efficient, and goal-driven but may chase recognition over fulfillment. (20:36)
  • Type 4: Deeply creative and authentic but may delay action waiting for alignment. (23:10)

- Signature Strengths and Gifts: How grounded self-worth transforms emotion into leadership power for Heart types. (26:37)

- Impactful Growth Practices: Pause before acting, balance emotion with evidence, practice self-validation, set boundaries, and act before feeling fully ready. (32:32)

- Two Practical Exercises: Emotional Clarity Pause & Authentic Alignment Check to help Heart types make more aligned business decisions. (39:41)

Resources & Links:

Let’s Connect:

  • Follow Margot on Instagram → @Margotmindsetcoach
  • Questions or feedback? Email Margot at → Margot@margotzaher.com
  • Share your story: DM Margot on Instagram or email with your own “Heart-centered decision” experience.

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