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The Enneagram Edge: Drive Life & Biz Success With The Enneagram
Welcome to The Enneagram Edge, the go-to podcast for entrepreneurs ready to unlock the power of their Enneagram type to create thriving businesses and lives they love.
Join me, Margot Zaher, a certified Enneagram coach and business coach, as we dive deep into how your personality influences everything from decision-making and productivity to relationships and success. Episodes are packed with practical tips, real-world stories, and interviews with entrepreneurs who’ve leveraged their Enneagram type to overcome obstacles, tap into their strengths, and achieve their goals.
Whether you're a visionary Type 7 with endless ideas, a Type 1 perfectionist striving for excellence, or a loyal Type 6 navigating fear and self-doubt, The Enneagram Edge is here to help you understand your unique wiring and turn it into your ultimate business advantage.
Ready to discover how self-awareness can transform your mindset, actions, and results? Hit subscribe and start leveraging your Enneagram edge today!
The Enneagram Edge: Drive Life & Biz Success With The Enneagram
Episode #22: The Relational Leader Under Stress — When Connection Turns Into Overextension
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In this episode of The Enneagram Edge, we explore Relational Leadership under pressure—what happens when empathy and people-centered leadership quietly turn into overextension, blurred boundaries, and exhaustion.
This episode is especially relevant if you resonate with type 2 (the helper or caregiver)—or if you’re the leader everyone relies on for emotional support, conflict repair, and decision reassurance.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
- The strengths of the relational leader (2:18).
- The hidden belief underneath self-erasing overgiving (4:44)
- How chronic stress activates the brain’s social threat circuits, driving over-responsibility and overavailability (5:32)
- The costs of overfunctioning and overgiving (6:10)
- Why relational leaders become emotional + decision bottlenecks under stress (7:03)
- Two reset levers that restore energy, clarity, boundaries, and sustainable connection. (10:58)
Resources & Links
The Burnout Code Guide:
Download the Burnout Code guide to shift out of chronic stress and overwhelm:
https://margotzaher.com/the-burnout-code/
Not sure of your Enneagram type?
Take the free 10-question assessment:
https://tinyurl.com/Enneagram-Assessment
Deep-Dive Enneagram Typing & Integration
Book a private session with Margot:
https://margotzaher.com/enneagram-typing-session/
Let’s Connect
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Questions or feedback? Email: Margot@margotzaher.com
Share your story: DM or email Margot with your own "Relational Leader" experience.
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