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The Enneagram Edge: Drive Life & Biz Success With The Enneagram
Welcome to The Enneagram Edge, the go-to podcast for entrepreneurs ready to unlock the power of their Enneagram type to create thriving businesses and lives they love.
Join me, Margot Zaher, a certified Enneagram coach and business coach, as we dive deep into how your personality influences everything from decision-making and productivity to relationships and success. Episodes are packed with practical tips, real-world stories, and interviews with entrepreneurs who’ve leveraged their Enneagram type to overcome obstacles, tap into their strengths, and achieve their goals.
Whether you're a visionary Type 7 with endless ideas, a Type 1 perfectionist striving for excellence, or a loyal Type 6 navigating fear and self-doubt, The Enneagram Edge is here to help you understand your unique wiring and turn it into your ultimate business advantage.
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The Enneagram Edge: Drive Life & Biz Success With The Enneagram
Episode #28: The Decisive Leader — When Power Turns Into Control
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In this episode of The Enneagram Edge, we explore Decisive Leadership under pressure—what happens when strength, authority, and protectiveness quietly harden into over-control, reduced delegation, and an atmosphere where others comply but stop contributing.
This episode is especially relevant if you resonate with type 8 energy (the Decisive Leader)—or if you’re the person who brings courage, directness, and powerful forward movement into the room, but finds yourself taking over too quickly, trusting others less under stress, or unintentionally suppressing autonomy and innovation in the people around you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
- The strengths of the Decisive Leader and the gift of grounded power, courage, and protection (1:10)
- Why uncertainty, inefficiency, and lack of control can trigger the impulse to take over (3:52).
- The leadership cost when strength no longer leaves room for collaboration, trust, and shared ownership (4:51).
- The hidden fear underneath over-control: protection from weakness, vulnerability, chaos, or being exposed. (6:35)
- The signs that a Decisive leader is in a stress-hijack (8:27)
- Two reset levers that restore empowered leadership: delegating with decision rights plus asking before directing. (9:53)
- The growth opportunity for Type 8 leaders: becoming powerful in a way that expands others instead of constricting them. (13:25)
If you’ve ever felt yourself gripping harder under pressure, stepping in too fast, or carrying too much because it feels easier than trusting others, this episode offers both insight and practical support. You do not need to become less strong to become a better leader. You need greater awareness of when stress is turning power into control—and the willingness to create space for trust, contribution, and shared leadership.
Resources & Links
The Burnout Code Guide:
Download the Burnout Code guide to shift out of chronic stress and overwhelm:
https://margotzaher.com/the-burnout-code/
Not sure of your Enneagram type?
Take the free 10-question assessment:
https://tinyurl.com/Enneagram-Assessment
Deep-Dive Enneagram Typing & Integration
Book a private session with Margot:
https://margotzaher.com/enneagram-typing-session/
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